i totally get what you mean with the aes thing :0 like i totally LLOVE that group of aes as long as its not in the "cursed unhealthy" category because its big and relatable. and then sometimes i see people be like "oh i like that too" "nice! i'm glad we can enjoy the same tastes of aes" and big mistakey that theirs are obviously the bad kind and dont bother to listen to reason onto it -_-
yes!! i really love pastel lace-y things and dolls and similar, but usually when i find other blogs that post the same sort of content it’s usually interlaced with either ddlg posts (which are completely irredeemable) or abuse-centered broken-doll-type posts that romanticize eating disorders and csa. & i used to reblog a lot of the later but now i feel i’ve realized how harmful that sort of thing is for recovery.