Hi! My girlfriend came out to me tonight as biromantic and asexual. She told me that I was her first real crush and that she found the idea of sex repulsive. I thanked her and asked what her limits would be sexually (e.g. would kissing be alright?). Have I been too forward? I really want to be a good girlfriend. Can you give me any advice for the future? Thanks and I hope you have a lovely day 🎶 - S
absolutely not! boundaries are good to know so everyone feels comfortable. you sound like a wonderful girlfriend - a lot of our anons are hoping for their partners to react just as you did. if she’s uncomfortable talking about sexual things, try not to ask too many questions all at once, and instead just get some ground rules down first. but you didn’t do a single thing wrong!