This is an honest question. How is it any different for someone to compliment you on your eyes or face or whatever over complimenting your boobs? I mean they're all just body parts and men are evolutionally made to be attracted to boobs (I think?). I'm really curious and don't mean this in an offending way whatsoever. I'm a girl myself but I just started thinking about it... and what is so bad?
thanks for asking
they are all body parts. i agree with that. boobs are just sacks of fat
BUT that’s not how men, or most people, see them. boobs are a sexualized body part, and from a young age, we’re taught they’re one of our “private parts.” it would be the same as a guy complimenting my ass or my pussy.
a man complimenting my boobs is purposely invading my comfort level. he knows it is one of my “private parts” and an aspect of me that i chose to show to those i’m intimate with, and he’s choosing to ignore all that. i feel that when a man chooses to compliment me on a sexualize body part, he is sexualizing me, and telling me that he sees me as nothing more.
also, eyes and smiles are emotive. my eyes will tell you a whole lot more about what’s on my mind than my nipples will, and when a man compliments me on those, he’s telling me he cares about what’s in my head and how i feel. he’s going beyond a physical connection.