We got kicked out (with very little notice) by my abusive mother and we need help.
About a month ago, my mother kicked my girlfriend and I out of her house after a very heated argument that was bound to happen. To somehow sum up the situation, my mother and I are two completely different people and she refuses to see that. Other than that, she doesn’t try to understand my personal identities or my mental illnesses; just the physical illness that we share. She refuses to call me by my preferred name; she refuses to acknowledge that I’m agender and has referred to me as a lesbian when I specifically told her that I’m not; she refused to get me medication that I requested for my manic depression, even when I got to the point of begging her; she threatened to hospitalize me for my mental health a couple days after the argument, justifying it by saying, “If you think you need pills, then you need professional help.”. Thankfully, I’m eighteen now and can legally request medication from a doctor without her consent. Aside from her abuse towards me, she’s told my girlfriend that her autism isn’t real, she constantly pressures my girlfriend to stop taking her medication, and she “commissioned” my girlfriend to draw her a mascot that would be used on her business cards and never even paid her for her hard work. Worst of all, she’s claiming that she is the victim in all of this and if that doesn’t scream “ABUSER” then I don’t know what does.
tl;dr: There’s so much more that I could write here, but, to be quite blunt, she is a manipulative, hypocritical, abusive woman and I hate to call her my mother.
She’s moving to a different country in October, and if we don’t have enough money saved up by the end of September, we’ll be homeless. We also have a cat that we love very much and we’ll need to take care of him too, so we need all the help we can get right now.
Here’s what you can do to help us out;
Commission my girlfriend! If you send her an ask (to her personal blog; agent–montana) about commissioning her, she’ll happily respond to your message! You can check out her art here; yuki–onna! You can also offer a monthly pledge on her Patreon; found here.
You can commission me for a writing piece! If you send me a message, we’ll work out which fandoms I can write about, but I’m open to just about anything if I know enough about the characters. I’ll write NSFW pieces too, if that’s what you’d like. An example of my writing can be found here; a Gravity Falls fanfiction that I’m co-writing with my girlfriend on Ao3!
You can send a donation directly to my PayPal; firstname.lastname@example.org.
If you can’t donate or commission us, please reblog this post and spread it like wild fire!! We need all the help we can get. Thank you!