Wag na wag pumasok as a 3rd party or as a rebound girl sa on and off relationship specially yung sobrang tagal na nila. Trust me Girl, the guy knows where his “Home” is. Baka hotel ka lang, nag enjoy nga sayo kaso uuwi at uuwi rin yan.
Nag aaway man sila and all, cycle nalang yan for them. Nagbabalikan sila everytime kasi talagang mahal nila yung isa’t isa dahil choice naman talaga ang pakikipagbalikan. You may defend the argument by saying “di naman talaga nya mahal gf nya kasi lagi nya iniiwan” but you know what, wala kang alam sa pinagsamahan nila. Wala kang worth compared sa pinaglalaban nila for years.
You may probably be there in his worst, yes. But he will never give you his best. Maybe just his half ass best.
The guy may talk shit about his girlfriend to you but alam mo rin ba ano sasabihin tungkol sayo nung lalaki when he’s bored of you already to his girlfriend? “SHE WAS JUST A ONE NIGHT STAND, A SLUT I WAS ENTERTAINED BY, A MISTAKE” with the pahabol “I am sorry babe, ayusin natin to.” Kawawa ka. Masasaktan ka lang at mapapahiya kasi akala mo seryoso sya sayo, unfortunately immature lang talaga sya pero yung GIRLFRIEND pa rin nya hinahanap nya.
They’ve been through hell and back, you will always be nothing and just a mere past time or the “yung naging problema naming dalawa dati” when its all over. You will be nothing more. Plus the fact na through the eyes of the guy’s family “babae ka lang” nya dahil pati sila alam na yung cycle nung dalawa malas mo pa lalo pag yung nanay nung guy, mahal na mahal girlfriend nya, you’ll never feel welcome. Never will he choose you. Or anyone else.
Respect yourself. Go find yourself a completely single guy instead. Save yourself from the heartache.
Good wood - Oregon-based architect Erin Moore has buolt a tropical getaway in Hawaii that consists of two pavilions sited on either edge of a 300-year-old solidified lava formation. Pretty frickin cool.