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I can’t believe I forgot to share the greatest christmas Hogswatch gift ever

My friends made me custom Discworld teas! They are ridiculously delicious and have the greatest names. (Also those labels are hand-lettered!) There’s significantly less of the Small Gods blend because I’ve had the flu all week and it’s particularly soothing, and also I figure there’s got to be a small god of viruses out there that can do me a favor.

How to Increase One's Love of Allah

Ibn al-Qayyim – may Allaah have mercy upon him– says:

“The reasons which cause mahabbah of Allâh to develop, are ten:

Firstly : Reciting the Qur‘ân, reflecting and understanding its meaning and its intent.

Secondly : Drawing closer to Allâh – the Most High – through optional deeds, after fulfilling the obligatory duties.

Thirdly : Being continuous in the dhikr (remembrance) of Allâh, with the tongue, the heart and the limbs – under all circumstances. The more constant the dhikr, the more mahabbah develops and intensifies.

Fourthly : Giving precedence to what Allâh loves over personal loves, when being overcome by desires.

Fifthly : Contemplating and deliberating over the Names and Attributes of Allâh.

Sixthly : Recognising and remembering the favours and bounties of Allâh – both the manifest and hidden.

Seventhly : To be humble and submissive before Allâh – and this is the greatest matter.

Eightly : To be in seclusion reciting the Qur‘ân, during that time in which Allâh descends to the lowest heaven (which is the last third of every night), finishing this recitation with seeking Allâh’s forgiveness and repenting to Him.

Ninthly: To sit in the gatherings of true and sincere lovers of Allâh, reaping the fruits of their speech, and not to speak except if there is benefit in it and that you know that such talk will increase you in goodness and that it will benefits others as well.

Tenthly: To stay clear of all those causes which distances the heart from Allâh – the Mighty and Majestic.

So these are the ten reasons which cause the person to develop true love for Allâh and to reach the rank of al-muhabbah, by which he reaches his Beloved.”

[Madârijus-Sâlikîn, 3/17-18]

(in middle school) oh well, i just don’t like any of the boys in my grade, high school will have better options

(in high school) oh well, still don’t like any of the boys in my grade, too bad everyone at my school is gross and immature, can’t wait to meet some nice boys in college,

(in college) well i mean, what a shame that there are no good boys here either, guess i’ll have to wait until grad school ,

I have two girlfriends. They aren’t dating each other but they’re good friends and free to date other girls as long as we openly communicate. Dating two people has some possible caveats that don’t really apply in monogamous relationships, but open, healthy communication has solved that for us. 

This is, in every way, my ideal situation, even if it’s not conventional. I spent high school dating boys I wasn’t into. Then I spent college forcing myself into “traditional” monogamy with women and some pieces of the puzzle still not fitting together, even if I was attracted to my partner. For a while, I didn’t realize there was another option in polyamory, similarly to how I wasn’t aware that girls were an option in high school.

I’m not against monogamy. If that’s what works for you, then great! But it wasn’t for me. Realizing that, and acting upon it, has made me happier than I’ve ever been. I love having two beautiful girlfriends. I love their friendship with each other. I love being in this wonderful situation and knowing that my heart is capable of experiencing love for two people without it diminishing my love for either. I love most of all that I’ve found something that works for me.

When Oikawa fell in love, it was nothing like in the novels

His eyes would have been drawn to Hajime’s subtleties in the most inconvenient of times; the way his hair mussed in the back after practice, how his muscles worked in perfect sync as he spiked, the barely-noticeable dimple that only appeared when he smiled a certain way. He would have been oblivious as to why was he taking such sudden interest in his childhood best friend.

He would start to feel all shaky and nervous when Hajime’s eyes met his. He would feel hot blood flooding his cheeks and lose the ability to form coherent sentences.

Then one day realisation would strike him, and he would bang his head again the wall because it must have been obvious to everyone but himself, and how could he be so thick?

But when Oikawa fell in love, he did neither of those things

He knew exactly what was going on from the moment they were talking high school options and the idea of not having Hajime around crushed him. Oikawa was too aware of how his mind worked to mistake such possessiveness for mere friendship.  

That night, he had lied away in bed, reality crashing against him like furious sound waves. He felt humiliated by the nature of his feelings, and yet there they were, nestling in his chest in an impossible mixture of warm and cold. He was in love with Hajime, wasn’t he?

Oikawa Tooru fell in love all at once, like diving headfirst into cold water, and there was no turning back. One day Iwa-chan was his partner in crime, first to smack him in the head whenever he said something absurd, first to tend to his wounds when he would over extenuate himself in practice. The next, he was the cause of Oikawa’s lack of sleep and focus, which rapidly evolved into fully-fledged migraines, protagonist of his most embarrassing daydreams. Oikawa never half-assed anything.

And he had managed to corrupt the only beautiful thing, the only simple one in his life, in the turn of one night.

(Part Two)

anonymous asked:

When you get teeth pulled, you can do it so that you only get the stuff that numbs your gums. The stuff that makes you high is optional for if you're nervous about it or something like that? At least that's how it works where I'm going to end up getting mine done. Hope this helps!

aa i hope so!!

anonymous asked:

✧ from your big bro Lahabrea! :'D

I would kill you. ✧ I would physically hurt you. I would attack you unprovoked. ✧ I would manipulate you. ✧ I dislike you. You annoy me. ✧ You scare me. ✧ You intimidate me. ✧ I hope I intimidate you. ✧ I pity you.You disgust me. I hate you. ✧ I’m indifferent toward you. ✧ I’d like to get to know you better. ✧   I’d like to spend more time with you. ✧ I’d like to be friends with you. ✧  I’m unsure what to think of you. ✧ I’m unsure how I feel about you. ✧ You are my friend. ✧ You are my best friend. ✧ You are my mentor. ✧ I look up to you. ✧ I respect you. ✧ You are my hero. ✧ You inspire me. ✧ You are my enemy. ✧ You make me happy. ✧ I want to protect you. ✧ I would fight by your side. ✧ I consider you an equal. ✧ I think you are beneath me. ✧ I think you are above me. ✧ I would lie for you. ✧ I would lie to you. ✧ I would sleep with you. ✧ I would sleep by your side. ✧ I would hug you. ✧ I would kiss you. ✧ You are family to me. ✧ I would die for you. ✧ I would kill for you. ✧ I would trust you with my life. ✧ I would trust you with my most precious belonging. ✧ I would trust you with a secret. ✧ I would trust you with my biggest / darkest secret. ✧ I love you (platonically). ✧ I love you (romantically).

As of late The Weeknd has blown up with his song Earned It charting all around the globe. Now he’s joined up with Canadian rapper Belly for his song Might Not which will feature on Belly’s mixtape Up For Days. The Weeknd kicks off the track with his seductive singing followed by Belly rapping later on in the track with heavy synths being ever present within this track - Jakk

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So talk to me Goose, how are we lookin’?
Sexy, but not like we’re trying to, but like, sure we’re trying, but it’s almost effortless?

SENIOR QUOTES (bts edition)

jin: “You’re all gonna regret not dating me in high school”

suga: “options are like mixtapes; I don’t want to hear yours”

jhope: “I’m the Mariah Carrey in a school full of Ariana’s”

rapmon:  "the roof is not my son, but I will raise it.“

taehyung (V): “what if one day you woke up and you were a chicken nugget”

jimin: “why can’t a heterosexual man tell another heterosexual man that his booty fly?”

jungkook: "I spent 113,880 hours of my life to receive a piece of paper and a handshake.”

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yay sorry for posting this so late ^^; please look forward for the got7 one! these are so fun and imo accurate heheh 

special helper: @mintysloth 

The ten reasons which cause Mahabbah (love) of Allaah to develop.


First: Reciting the Qur‘aan, reflecting and understanding its meaning and its intent.
Second: Drawing closer to Allaah – the Most High – through optional deeds, after fulfilling the obligatory duties.
Third: Being continuous in the dhikr (remembrance) of Allaah, with the tongue, the heart and the limbs – under all circumstances. The more constant the dhikr, the more mahabbah develops and intensifies.
Fourth: Giving precedence to what Allaah loves over personal loves, when being overcome by desires.
Fifth: Contemplating and deliberating over the Names and Attributes of Allaah.
Sixth: Recognising and remembering the favours and bounties of Allaah – both the manifest and hidden.
Seventh: To be humble and submissive before Allaah – and this is the greatest matter.
Eighth: To be in seclusion reciting the Qur‘ân, during that time in which Allaah descends to the lowest heaven (which is the last third of every night), finishing this recitation with seeking Allaah’s forgiveness and repenting to Him.
Ninth: To sit in the gatherings of true and sincere lovers of Allaah, reaping the fruits of their speech, and not to speak except if there is benefit in it and that you know that such talk will increase you in goodness and that it will benefits others as well.
Tenth: To stay clear of all those causes which distances the heart from Allaah the Mighty and Majestic.

So these are the ten reasons which cause the person to develop true love for Allaah and to reach the rank of al-muhabbah, by which he reaches his Beloved.
- Ibn al Qayyim, Madarij al-Salikeen V.3 Pg.17-18