hi i love you both

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Which do you prefer?

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The Twelve Davids of Christmas Part 4 (5/12)

Eight Davids Hand Talking

for @moltobenebananas and @tennantaddict

I just want to say something because even though i personally haven’t seen it on my dash, I’ve seen post that mention that some people agree with Sonja? Or hate Even?? And that just makes no sense to me so, have this story. 

I don’t have any sort of mental illness but I grew up around someone who does. My aunt. She has schizophrenia. 

Growing up I saw her have a couple of episodes. I heard my mom discuss her medications, her behavior, her doctors appointments. Running off to take care of her during the episodes I didn’t witness. Felt and witnessed the anxiety and fear for my aunts safety and well being. Through all this the one thing I never grew up with? The idea that she was wrong. That she was bad. That she was “crazy”. I never really saw her differently from any other member of my extend family. 

 Her kids though, they had a problem. 

You see, my aunt’s ex husband was not a good guy. He treated her disorder as something to blame on her. As if she somehow brought it on herself. My cousins grew up with the same mentality. There is a lot of other stuff here but I won’t talk about that. The story i want to talk about is this one.

A couple of years after her divorce my aunt met someone. My cousins weren’t thrilled about this. They accused him of taking advantage of my aunt. Then after 2 years of dating and one big episode, my cousins decided to commit her. My aunts boyfriend was having none of that. He fought for her. And he won.  

I remember my mother asking him if he was sure, if he wanted to take on the responsibility of taking care of her. Do you know what he said? He said she’s always been his responsibility because he loves her. 

They’ve been together nearly 20 years. My aunt hasn’t stopped having episodes. She hasn’t stopped taking medication. It’s been ups and downs. But I never ONCE doubted his love for her. HE NEVER ONCE DOUBTED HER LOVE FOR HIM. They have and continue to live a full happy life together.

Having a mental illness does NOT invalidate someones personhood. It does NOT invalidate their emotions. It does NOT invalidate their trauma. It absolutely does NOT make them unlovable or incapable of love. 

In conclusion: Even deserves everything good and pure in the world and Sonja needs to grow up and get that Even doesn’t need a babysitter, he needs a partner. And she clearly isn’t it. 

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my fic rec of stuff youve probably already read but should revisit in these dark times

Ease Your Way Into Occupied Spaces - joolabee - One thing’s certain: this isn’t the way this was supposed to happen

Breakable - MissDaviesAfter John is seriously injured, Sherlock struggles to figure out how to help him, keep himself sane, and maybe, just maybe, get their life back to the way it’s supposed to be

Dr. John H. Watson, Sexual Surrogate - smurff - A sexual surrogate is a therapist who engages in intimate physical contact with clients who have sexual anxiety. After several men who have visited a surrogate go missing, Sherlock goes undercover and makes an appointment to see Dr. John Watson, Sexual Surrogate.

Anytime - SilentAuror - Sherlock blinks and attempts to focus. There is a little too much vodka in his veins at the moment and it’s having an unfortunate effect on his brain and retinas both. 

100 Ways To Say ‘I Love You’ - TeaTrolley - In which there are a hundred phrases and none of them are “I love you.” Until they are.

All Things Warm and Tender - darcylindbergh - Grinning and giggling, John slides back down under the sheet and pulls it over his head, but when he pushes the folds of the linens away, Sherlock is waiting for him, eyes bright and hair wild, the firelight bleeding through the thin fabric, colouring everything in soft peach and topaz, and in that moment he is so suddenly, unexpectedly, ethereally beautiful that John forgets how to breathe.

Without Words - allonsys_girl - John and Sherlock have been together for six months and Sherlock still hasn’t said “I love you”. Then John gets hurt, and Sherlock expresses how much John really means to him.

A Catalogue of Wounds - UrbanHymnal - He missed Sherlock so much that every part of him ached. Even having him here right now only eased the hurt; it didn’t banish it.

Unwasted - patternofdefiance - John finds it three months after he’s moved back.He’s on the hunt for something to make for dinner, is scrounging through the cupboards, when he happens upon the graveyard of pasta boxes Sherlock still seems to create when left to his own devices. Behind seven boxes of pasta, all almost completely empty, is a dark-glassed bottle, with a paler coat of dust. It’s unopened. John’s face falls slack when he sees it, instantly recognises it, and for a long moment he just stands and looks at it.

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Stronger - cypress_tree - John helps Sherlock with an experiment: for an entire month, they are not allowed to touch each other and must remain at least one metre apart at all times. 

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rory & logan | written in the stars

Not to make things worse, but in that trailer, the part where Sherlock says i love you and John and Mycroft are behind him, he is holding a gun. He is being forced to choose. Can you fucking believe this. His “i love you” is to both. This is how you burn the heart out of him. This is episode 3. The final problem. Mycroft loses his power and is at the hands of his junkie detective brother. Sherlock is given a gun and will have to choose.

I’m writing a ficlet for this immediately. Stay tuned.

Ahhhh !!! I can’t mcfreakin’ believe it guys. I can’t believe so many of you are willing to put up with my meme loving ass. I’m still a relatively new blog too so let me just say thank you so much for following me and supporting this big ol’ idiot. I really appreciate you all from my close friends to new followers that just came across me. I could go on a sappy ramble but I’m just gonna keep it short and sweet and say thank you once more. I really love you guys ❤︎

mutuals are bolded, favorites are italicized

PAL-ADINS: My friendos and those very near and dear to my heart. 

@cogane, @cryopods, @kneithkogane/@frukyou@maybaline, @katieshirogane, @sufferingspooks@spacetravels, @ghostgenocide, @takashiholt@voldevordt, @thekingroan, @acrobalance@marmoraskeith, @pining-keith@narycanary, @flowersandmurders

A-J

@acekeith, @ace-keith, @ace-pidge, @adriexnette,  @afroallura@akaashingly@becschi, @biromanticpidge, @blackslion, @blakesgrffin@bluemcclain, @boyofmensah, @ceejles @cineastette@clo–uds, @cristinaxyang,  @dicksoutforvoltron, @fanart-rainbox, @flusteredkeith@fonbella, @ghayleb@hanahsong, @hetships@hntzberger@hypatheticallyspeaking, @ilovepidgeholt@inkandowl, @instinct-alone, @jemi0, @josie-arts

K-Z

@kalllura, @kamalas, @kasamatsuykio, @keitlura, @k-lionheart/@k-lionheart, @kogvne@kristofbjorgmans, @kpfun, @kitty-chat-noir/@lancemyboy, @legendofaang, @ma-je-s-capharnaum, @maskedbender, @maskofwords@maternalcube @mickeyandcompany, @misterpoofofficial, @mizules, @nightlwing@paopufruit, @perrytheplatypusgirl, @pidgance@pidgenerd, @pidgegunderscns@princesconsuela, @queeniesgoldstein,  @sheith-me-up, @shizumar, @shklvnce,  @shouldvessaidno, @simply-nerdy-gal, @solkorra @snowiebelle@spacehusband, @steambend@tecochet, @thethiefandtheairbender, @the-vegetarian-artist@timebenderss,

please don’t talk to me until you watched the masterpiece that is Lion (2016 Film) by Garth Davis 

i know people are upset that we didn’t get to see lukas telling philip “i love you” but we did

lukas says “i love you” in gestures and actions because that’s what he knows. he bought philip a polaroid camera, he walked out on a motocross sponsorship, he does stupid stuff to make philip laugh when he’s sad, letting himself be vulnerable, sharing the most personal things about himself that he’s never shared with anyone

lukas’s dad shows he loves lukas the same way. until the end of the season we never hear bo tell lukas he loves him. he helps support lukas’s dream of going pro, he buys lukas a new motorbike, he gives lukas the pocket watch for good luck

this show did an amazing job capturing the different ways people say i love you and it was really beautiful

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“Yeah…”

I kinda want a dee episode that’s the flip of the gang broke dee, like dee’s always the butt of the joke and pathetic, the useless chick who wants approval, etc. But the last few seasons Dee has become slightly less crazy for approval, especially from Dennis (replying to both of his ‘I love you’s’ with suck my dick and whatever) and she has done some terrible stuff, like what she did to the stripper guy in ptsdee. Like she’s getting worse and I kinda think it would be hilarious if she did something to the gang as comeuppance, like really fucked with them and have them all break down emotionally, only to bust in and laugh in their faces. Idk I’d just love that. Maybe fake her death à la  Mac and Charlie, but actually convince them of it for real. Although I’d take any Dee heavy episode at this point. Like really any, I just want more Dee,

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Olicity Holiday Project

Dec. 12 - A scene you would show to someone outside the fandom to describe Olicity
➸ 3x01 “The Calm” - Oliver asks Felicity out on a date (◕‿◕✿)

So are we ever gonna talk about the fact that in 1.06, Wyatt is apprehended looking like this

but when he wakes up handcuffed to a chair, he is missing his jacket, his tie, and the first few buttons of his shirt?

Also his sleeves were rolled up?

And he does not get his stuff back by the end of the episode. It’s just gone. Gone forever.

What happened that made this necessary? Rufus is intact: jacket, tie, buttons. Even his press pass is still on. Did someone have to resuscitate Wyatt or something? Make it easier for him to breathe? Is taser/chloroform that bad of a predictably bad combo? (Chloroform will affect the heart/lungs.) And after all, we do know that, canonically, Wyatt just does not handle his vapors well. (He’s also the last one to wake up in 1.11. By at least twenty minutes.) I’ll just imagine Flynn begrudgingly giving Wyatt cpr so he doesn’t die.

Why did this dressing down occur?

And were Lucy and Rufus similarly drugged here, or did they go quietly and willingly after Wyatt was incapacitated? We see them get grabbed, but did they just… go along with it?

Oh, these answer-less questions.

*** please do not delete the text or self-promote on this post, as it will automatically disqualify you. ***

hi there!! faith (fuzalei) and i (pethal) both love watching youtube videos, so today we’re happy to announce that we will be hosting “youtube awards” featuring our favourites that we’re subscribed to!

R U L E S :

❂ you must be following me (pethal) and faith (fuzalei), we will be checking!
❂ reblog this post, likes will only count as bookmarking
❂ do not delete or self-promo on this post, as mentioned above

C A T E G O R I E S :

❂ best overall: LaurDiy  

❂ best theme: Adelaine Morin

❂ best colour scheme: Zoella

❂ best playlist: Sarah Baska

❂ best icon: Reaction Time

❂ best new discovery: Tana Mongeau

❂ best url: iiSuperwomanii

❂ best posts: Aspyn Ovard

❂ best extras: AmazingPhil

❂ best personality: Liza Koshy

❂ Faith’s fave: Bethany Mota

❂ Leonor’s fave: Danisnotonfire

P E R K S :

❂ a follow from the two of us, if we aren’t already following you

❂ two new friends!!!

❂ q4q’s upon request

❂ you will be featured on an awards page here

❂ YOU WILL BE PROMOTED TO 30K DASHES AND YOU WILL GAIN :)


H I G H E R  C H A N C E S :

❂ talk to me and/or faith , this way we’ll get to know you, you’ll have a better chance at winning the “best personality” award, and you’ll stand out more!!

❂ reblog this post a ton and we will notice it when we go through the notes

❂ enter any other awards faith and i are hosting (this will also increase your chances for those awards as well!

❂ reblog and like other posts from our blogs as well so we notice you more!

O T H E R :

❂ the banner was made by me and the winners page was made by faith <3

please do not let this be a flop!

Please abide to the rules and have fun! happy reblogging and best of luck to everyone who enters!!

~ leonor and faith

I SEE WE ARE ALL IN AGREEMENT ON FAI AND HIS MOMENT OF SUDDEN HORROR. 

I’M SO GLAD. 

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can we just talk about how this kid thinks coffee is too bitter but he’s still trying anyways because ‘he wants to become a man who can drink his coffee black’ like??? he’s just the cutest omfg