Hi. I am thirteen and I want to come out as trans. But, I have a feeling that I'm not trans. I like my body and I can't imagine it like a boy. But, in my head I forget that I'm female, I don't like my name (it doesn't feel exactly right), and when I look in the mirror it's like something is wrong. I can't point out the wrong thing, it just has a feeling of wrongness. Do you think I could be trans and i'm doubting myself? I don't want to come out, go on T, get surgery, and realize I'm not trans
Hey! I can’t tell you what your gender is but maybe exploring the nonbinary genders will help you. We have a definitions page and you may find one there that fits how you feel a little more! Even if you are trans you don’t have to start T or have any surgeries if you don’t want to. It’s your transition and you decide what you need to be comfortable, don’t let anyone force you into them! Maybe trying out a new name and different pronouns might help you and coming out to a few close friends will help you find what feels right and what doesn’t. You’ll be okay, sometimes it takes a while but you’ll find yourself!