hi i abuse the tags system

anonymous asked:

Ahhhh so I joined a chat for multiples n I came across an abusive system, so I left bc that really scared me but they know my blog- I don't know theirs- they know my triggers and I don't know what they might plan to do with that information. Do you have any tips? Or comforting words?

It’s hard to give advice when they’re described as a general “abusive” so… uh…

change your url. take down any system pages, lists of triggers, general identification info about yourself from your about/byf/etc. keep info basic so it’s harder for them to confirm it’s you. change tagging conventions too bc “altername.txt” stuff is really easy to track if the name isnt common. i know for example karter uses “k posts” so that no one can search it by his name since its a less common spelling.

in all honesty, i recommend ppl dont join chats unless they have a few friends in the chat already or friends willing to join the chat with them. try to avoid joining chats that have more than 20 members too bc they tend to have internal cliques. it’s also better when joining a new group, to withhold info until you feel you have a good grasp of who’s there. the chat im in has a trigger list page but doesn’t say who the triggers belong to so that no one is explicitly vulnerable. its also wise not to list your whole system and their fronting triggers and jobs online. its easy to track and use against ppl. unless you’re in a relative position of power online, assume your system and trauma info will be weaponized against you.

i know all of that is like. such a bummer to hear but DID/OSDD people need to set more boundries to protect themselves than the averge person. after all you gotta watch out for your whole system.

I would like to thank Disney Japan for acknowledging Tadashi Hamada's existence as a Big Hero 6 character

It almost makes up for the fact that Disney US conveniently forgot about him.

Almost.

anonymous asked:

I love love love your blog!! Do you have any fic recs? Maybe some protective Bucky? Or some h/c:)

I’m happy to hear you’re enjoying my posts, anon!! Oh man, do I have some fic recs though… I have so many! I assume you’re asking about winteriron since you mention Bucky and that’s what I mostly post about these days. I’ve read so many winteriron writings…

I’ll limit these to protective Bucky and hurt/comfort like you suggested, because otherwise this fic rec list would go on forever!

Winterion Fic Recs—

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anonymous asked:

i imagine dex not exactly having an abusive dad. its more like his dad makes destructive comments about dex. a lot. sometimes its about politics or other people, but most times its @him. after games its things like "yall did great out there, seems like ure not dragging them down so much anymore, huh son?" and most days it feels like his dad is attacking him not so subtly. ok sorry anways actual prompt: dex trying not to let his dads words hurt him and nursey reassuring him of his self worth.

Okay, I didn’t really go into what his dad said very much.  It’s mostly Nursey comforting Dex.  Hope that’s okay!!

Thanks for the prompt! xxxx

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anonymous asked:

I was curious about how you felt about Tony and Clint's relationship and Tony and Wanda's relationship in CACW. I actually saw some people say that Tony was abusive towards Wanda in CACW. It was regarding him trying to get her to stay at the Avengers Facility and then blaming him for her being on the Raft and being restrained and having her powers inhibited.

Oh boy. Okay. Short answer is no, absolutely not. Spoilers under the cut. 

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A lady just yelled at me in the hotel Fedex because she thought I worked there and was incensed that a hotel would charge actual money for copies. “I have never in my life seen a hotel charge money to make just a few copies.”

a) I don’t fucking work here as evidenced by my distinct lack of a fucking uniform or name tag and you should probably at least courteously ask if someone is being paid not-enough money to take your verbal abuse before you unleash it.

b) Have you never been to ANY hotel in the capitalist system because literally all of them charge money for goods and services it’s how things fucking work especially at FED FUCKING EX.

c) Unless you’re talking to an old white executive dude wearing his Decisionmaking Suit there is literally no need to be a dick to anyone ever about product pricing especially the people that have to put up with your sorry ass because they have ZERO CONTROL over this decision that has rendered your life sooooooooo difficult.

d) It took every ounce of self control in my body not to call you out for being a Cuntwrap Supreme and if I’d had a few more hours of sleep and didn’t feel so DEFEATED by the HOPELESSNESS of MAN’S SISYPHEAN STRUGGLE TO EVOLVE I would have done so.