anyway Baby Sister is having a crisis lately about how her presentation is too “"uptight”“ and keeps wanting me to make style suggestions and then refusing all the suggestions i make, and tbqh i just wanna scream at her, dude, i feel doubleplusuncute lately and it’s fucking me the fuck up that yr so focused on externals, i gotta believe that aesthetics (much as i love and value them!) aren’t the whole of where our value resides, because i’m pretty invested in NOT just constantly chanting ‘i loathe myself, i loathe myself’ (which is where she keeps ending up lately)! i do not need that kind of thinking reinforced!