@ the hair/skin color ask: I have experienced the same thing from my (white) mother. I always wanted to dye my hair red, but she told me that it would look weird with my "asian skin", that I was "too yellow". Joke's on her since my hair is naturally turning red and I look amazing. If it's an option for you, just dye your hair whatever you want. If you wear it with confidence you'll be gorgeous no matter what ignorant people think. Any skin tone looks good with any color hair in my opinion.