heartbeat for life

What would make you happy?“

“The sound of heartbeat and your arms around me”

“I would give anything to make that reality right now, just hold tight one day we will close the distance.

—  Tenari Ioapo
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10 Movies with LGBTQ Main Characters Directed By Women

Appropriate Behavior dir. Desiree Akhavan (2014)
Bound dirLilly & Lana Wachowski (1996)
Fire dir. Deepa Mehta (1996)
Heartbeat dir. Andrea Dorfman (2014)
Life Partners dir. Susanna Fogel (2014)
Priest dir. Antonia Bird (1994)
Puccini for Beginners dir. Maria Maggenti (2006)
Saving Face dir. Alice Wu (2004)
Tomboy dir. Céline Sciamma (2011)
Your Sister’s Sister dir. Lynn Shelton (2011)

I want to be in love
I want to fall asleep in your arms and listen to your heartbeat
I want to fall asleep with you next to me not having to worry about you not being there when I wake up
I want to hold your hand and call you mine
I want to be in love and be with you, but I can’t because you don’t feel the same about me

anonymous asked:

Zutarians act like Katara's romance with Aang is to the detriment of her character but somehow one with Zuko wouldn't just put her in nurturing position for an older man. I am not for Kataang but I don't think any of the show's characters would NOT put Katara in the position of a nurturer and giver. She gives too much as it is. Except perhaps Toph but Toph is twelve, confused and has parental issues. What I'm trying to ask is what does Katara gain from Zutara except acceptance.

What Katara Would Gain from Zutara

[Edited to add “Bato of the Water Tribe”! Thanks, @ adifferentcupofzutara!]

Katara would gain a partner who would help her with household duties without being asked:

Rather than someone who leaves the chores to her while he shows off for his fangirls.

Katara: Watching you show off for a bunch of girls does not sound like fun.
Aαng: Well, neither does carrying your basket.

She would gain a partner who shares parental responsibilities …

Katara: Aαng, don’t walk away from this.


Zuko: Let him go. He needs time to sort it out by himself.

And acts like a father:

Zuko: Keep in mind, these are dual swords. Two halves of a single weapon. Don’t think of them as separate, because they’re not. They’re just two different parts of the same whole.

Rather than someone who IS a parental responsibility …

And acts like her son.

Katara: What do you think, Aαng? Do I act like a mom?
Aαng: Well, I…
Katara: Stop rubbing your eye and speak clearly when you talk!

Katara: My goodness! That doesn’t sound like our Kuzon.

Katara: I’ve been training Aαng for a while now. He really responds well to a positive teaching experience. Lots of encouragement and praise. Kind words. If he’s doing something wrong, maybe a gentle nudge in the right direction.

She would gain a partner who respects her personal boundaries: 

Katara: What are you doing?!
Zuko: Keeping rocks from crushing you.
Katara: Okay, I’m not crushed. You can get off me now.

Zuko [retracts his arm so Katara can move away from him]: I’ll take that as a thank you.

 Rather than someone who transgresses them.

Katara: Aαng, I’m sorry but right now,  I’m just a little confused.


Katara: I just said that I was confused!

Someone who sees her as an ally:

Zuko: I can handle Azula.
Iroh: Not alone. You’ll need help.
Zuko: You’re right. Katara, how would you like to help me put Azula in her place?

And not a possession.

Actor Zuko: Wait.  I thought you were the Avatar’s girl.

Aαng: [nods] 

Someone who waits for the right time to talk:

Katara: You look terrible. 
Zuko: I waited out here all night.

Rather than pushing her:

Katara: Because we’re in the middle of a war and we have other things to worry about. This isn’t the right time.
Aαng:  Well, when IS the right time?

Someone who understands how much she needs her family to be there …

Katara: Dad.
Hakoda: Hi, Katara.
Katara: How are you here? What is going on?

And puts their needs over his:

Sokka: No, I’m staying. You guys go. You’ve been here long enough.
Suki: I’m not leaving without you, Sokka.
Zuko: I’m staying too.

Rather than someone who disappears when she depends on him …


Katara: He left.
Hakoda: What?
Katara: Aαng. He just took his glider and disappeared. He has this ridiculous notion that he has to save the world alone. That it’s all his responsibility.
Hakoda: Maybe that’s his way of being brave.
Katara: It’s not brave. It’s selfish and stupid. We could be helping him. And I know the world needs him, but doesn’t he know how much that we need him too? How could he just leave us behind?

And puts his needs over theirs.

Sokka: This is the map to our father! You had it the whole time!? How could you?

She would not only gain a partner who, unlike her canon love interest, sympathizes with the loss of her mother:

Katara: Well, I just want you to be prepared for what you might see. The Fire Nation is ruthless. They killed my mother and they could have done the same to your people.
Aαng:  Just because no one has seen an airbender doesn’t mean the Fire Nation killed them all. They probably escaped.
Katara: I know it’s hard to accept.
Aαng: You don’t understand, Katara. The only way to get to an airbender temple is on a flying bison, and I doubt the Fire Nation has any flying bison. Right, Appa?

Katara: I don’t?! How dare you! You have no idea what this war has put me through. Me personally. The Fire Nation took my mother away from me.



Zuko: I’m sorry. That’s something we have in common.

Katara: But, we were too late. When we got there, the man was gone.  And so was she.
Zuko: Your Mother was a brave woman.

Katara:  I know.

But who trusts her to deal with anger and pain in HER way …

Rather than pestering her to do things HIS way.

Aαng: Katara, you sound like Jet.

Aαng: Katara, you do have a choice. Forgiveness. 

Aαng: It’s okay, because I forgive you.  That give you any ideas?

Aαng: Let your anger out and then let it go. Forgive him.

Aαng: You did the right thing. Forgiveness is the first step you have to take to begin healing. 

Ironically, a partner who understands that some things are more important than romance!

Aαng: Katara is in danger! I have to go.

Guru Pathik: No, Aαng! By choosing attachment, you have locked the chakra! If you leave now you won’t be able to go into the Avatar State at all!

Zuko: Stop! This isn’t about you. This is about the Fire Nation.

But who would still die for her in a heartbeat …

Rather than risk her life (and everyone’s) to retain his moral purity.

Most of all, she would gain someone who sees her for who she is:

Rather than who he wants her to be.

And who doesn’t try to change her to make her better for him.

BTS Reaction to Their Lil Sister Dating a BTS Member

Incognito; Can you do BTS reaction to being one of the members little sister and them accidently finding out that their sister is dating BTS member? Btw I love your blog!!

Note: Sorry for the mixup anonnie, I suck at english *cries* so I’m glad you were patient! *credit to gif owners*


Jin ➳ It was abrupt, but when he had barged into the studio just to find Namjoon’s hold onto your waist as he pulled you flush into his chest, Jin’s heart stopped. Once a nervous laugh bounced from his vocal chords, the both of you blushed harshly as you scrambled away from each other and he couldn’t believe what he was seeing in the least. “You got to be kidding me,” he chuckled, slightly raising an eyebrow, “you’re not actually with this perv, are you, (Y/N)?”

Originally posted by stanjimiin


Suga ➳ He grimaced in disgust once he had caught Jimin giving you a quick peck onto your lips. He yelled a loud Aye! scaring the younger boy as he pushed you behind him protectively as if Yoongi was some kind of monster, which offended him in more ways than one as he laughed in anger. “I never knew you were that type of kid, Jiminie.“ He muttered as he walked closer to the both of you, hearing Jimin gulp in horror. “Does dating my sister behind my back make things any better?”

Originally posted by bangtoori


J-Hope ➳ If anything, Hoseok let out a sigh of relief once he realized it was Jin you had been hiding away with. He was extremely giddy, out of all the boys in the world he would rather have you paired with Jin, knowing the man would take absolute care of you; but, he still found it hilarious when he caught you two being cutesy with each other in the dorm alone. He flew to the two of you, throwing his arms over both your shoulders with the biggest grin on his face. “So,” he started, whispering into your ear, “how is my soon brother-in-law treating you?”

Originally posted by aestheticvbts


RapMonster ➳ To be all sorts of honest, Namjoon was low-key jealous that you were with Hoseok. He admitted before that if all the boys were girls, he would certainly be with Hobi in a heartbeat; but never in his life would he think that you would have thought the same way too. When you all went out to dinner, Taehyung had asked him what he thought about your relationship, and he panicked. An uncertain smile crawled its way onto his face, and he gave Hobi a serious glare. “You better not hurt her.”

“Never.”

Originally posted by rapdaegu


Jimin ➳ He was genuinely relieved to know that you were with Taehyung, knowing how much of a sweetheart the boy was, but what he was livid about, was about how you two kept him in the dark. He was storming up to you when you were trying to meet with Taehyung, furry written in his eyes and Taehyung was fast enough to back you away from your brother. “I’m sorry Jimin,” he apologized, “It’s my fault, I love her and I was afraid you wouldn’t accept us-”

But the boy only walked away, a smirk playing it’s way onto his lips and at that moment, you knew he had already accepted your relationship.

Originally posted by baepsaeboyss


V ➳ He was the traditional type, therefore, he was various shades of angry when he found both you and Jungkook making out inside of your bedroom. He froze, as well as the both of you; a growl escaping his throat as he grabbed the younger by the shirt, slamming him against the wall before he could even think. “Did you think..” he whispered, already hearing about your relationship from the other boys but seeing it for himself only confirmed it. You were begging your brother to release him, but he ignored you, “I was stupid enough to never figure you two out?”

Originally posted by jeonsshi


Jungkook ➳ Being angry wasn’t even the beginning of what he felt when he had found you and Yoongi cuddling on your bed, no, he was beyond pissed. He slammed the door before walking away, knowing neither of you wouldn’t follow because Yoongi was definitely the man who was never interested in anyone, and you being with him was some type of miracle. He knew it was none of his business, but he hated the fact that he was kept in the dark because he was exactly what Yoongi saw him as, a kid.

Originally posted by jiminiemini


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I want to wrap my arms around you, while hearing the rhythm of our heartbeats collide
as i look at you, admiring every single detail, every flaw
And smile, as you where one of the brightest stars who stole the show in the night sky
—  Viola CN ‘’You’’