he's not the one for you

I’m seeing a lot of posts floating around that are questioning how much craig cares about tweek and is invested in their relationship and I might pose it to you to eliminate some of your expectations. Their subplot is about expecting what your partner does to fit your narrative about what love is. Both Craig and Tweek make speculations on why the other left Coon & Co. or chose to stay without actually communicating about their feelings. Both of them feel justified in saying they are the victim of the other’s percieved wrongdoing (abandonment/lack of support) and they both felt the burden was on the other to apologize. They both had expectations of their partners that were built on fantasies of how a partner *should* act or what a partner *should* do- instead of dealing with the reality of what their partner actually did. Healthy, long lasting relationships are built on trust, understanding, & compromise. You can’t expect that everything in a relationship is going to play out the way you imagine it. Thus, you need communicate about your expectations and compromise on them, so your relationship can be built on a sustainable reality rather than fantasy. The player must also dismantle their expectations and look at the reality. You believe that Craig not responding exactly the way you (and Tweek) wish he would means that he must not love Tweek, but you need to trust that Craig reciprocates Tweek’s feelings and the reality is that he just expresses those feelings in a different way. You expect that he, and any partner, *should* show their love in one outwardly verbally affectionate way, like Tweek. But Craig can’t do that- and Tweek no longer *expects* him to. Craig needs you to look beneath the surface and recognize his more subtle, more physical brand of love to be just as valid as Tweek’s, and not expect him to be verbal in a way he’s not comfortable with or ready for- even if it doesn’t quite fit your fantasy of what love should be.

lukesjournal  asked:


dskjl thank you… I love drawing these cuties… here’s some small snuggly boys 

“I hate

 The Kinkou.

 … this is therapy. Let me say this.”

Honestly Rey being either a Skywalker or a Solo has been dead for such a long time now, not only because of all the hints that those involved with the production have been dropping to disprove the theories, but because the canon timeline doesn’t allow for it without completely compromising the original trio’s integrity.

In Bloodline, a canon novel revolving around Leia taking place around six years before TFA, we learn that Ben was travelling with Luke up until it was exposed to the public that Leia was the daughter of Darth Vader. She had (understandably) wanted to take this secret to the grave, but the news had left everyone in shock– especially Ben who had no prior knowledge to being Vader’s grandson. He must have been devastated and confused, causing him to fall to the dark side during a moment of weakness.

Rey Solo is not only dead because neither Han nor Leia recognized their daughter in TFA, but throughout Bloodline Leia gives no hints to having ever had another child. Her thoughts always lead to Han or Ben, and when the news of Vader broke out, she rushed to send a message to Ben trying to explain it to him before anyone else got the chance to. She never thought about a supposed second child. Again this book is canon material and there would be some major continuity errors if the thought of her ‘lost daughter’ never crossed her mind.

Rey Skywalker is also dead with Bloodline because Rey was abandoned on Jakku roughly 15 years ago, whereas the destruction of Luke’s temple and Ben’s defection happened only 6 years ago. If Rey was Luke’s daughter, that would mean he abandoned her on a dangerous planet and then continued to research Jedi lore and train Ben, his nephew. It makes absolutely no sense and compromises Luke’s character. I know– and expect, Luke to be far more cynical  and morally grey in TLJ, but that’s because his confidence in himself has been shattered from his failures and Ben’s fall to the dark side.

These theories have been dead for so long and I’m not sure why they’re still so largely accepted in the fandom. I now that most fans tend to stick to just watching the films, but even if that’s the case, TFA itself makes it quite clear she isn’t related to our former heroes.

You know another thing i really love about living in an airship?

little to no traffic. nothing slowing me down!! except speed limits. but i mean, they’re just suggestions anyway, right? XD

Part of me aches at the thought of her being so close yet so untouchable.

Nicholas Sparks

The One After Her: A Relationship In Pieces

A Criminal Minds Fan-fiction 14


A/N: One with a little time framed…xoxo Stu

Spencer had no idea what had gotten him on the tangent of dwarf stars and then explaining to Will and JJ about differing radiation density throughout the universe. Somehow, in the middle of the work week after no casework what so ever, he was strolling into his apartment lobby at nearly midnight.

“Evening, Dr. Reid.” The old security guard greeted him slyly from his perch at the desk.

“Hi, Franklin.” Spencer’s voice cracked, as he gave one of his half smiles, futzing with his keys.

“There might be a surprise waiting for a lonely young guy like you.”

Spencer’s curiosity was peaked, “How do you mean?”

The old man’s deep lined faced beamed, “I’ve said too much already. Just go on now.”

“Okay then.” Spencer tried to hide the annoyance that was building with the unknown awaiting him.

When he opened his apartment door, he felt the impact of the alluded surprise. A smart pair of woman’s shoes were kicked off near the mat in the doorway. Y/N’s signature bag draped in her old spot on the well-wore couch. Spencer couldn’t breathe, the realization and the hope it sparked were suffocating.

“Y/N?” He called out to her. Perhaps Garcia had done more than ask her to read his messages? Perhaps she had convinced Y/N to come home? Where was she? Spencer scanned the open room from living space to kitchen, he checked the office, anticipation building with each vacancy. It was in the bedroom that the faint scent of her perfume and something more potent assaulted his senses. It was tequila he realized.

On her usual side of their king sized bed lay the dozing form of his love, encasing his heart, even in her dreams. Spencer didn’t know why she was here tonight, he just knew he wouldn’t do anything to disrupt her peaceful trance, even crawling beside her. Despite his every cell calling to hers, demanding proximity. He fell asleep, fully clothed, drunk on the rush of the possibilities that awaited him in the morning.

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“And three – I’m your older brother and you’ll listen to me.”
(Peter Parker: The Spectacular Spider-Man #5)

So I just came across a folder for an old post I was going to make a while back, and found this picture… 

This screenshot is from the TeniPuri dating sim about a school festival or something, and I took this while playing Yukimura’s route. 

And I just…

Word Count: 842

Triggers: Female coded reader, day drinking

Requested by Anonymous

The buzzing coming from Quinn’s side of the bed got to the point where it could no longer be ignored. Five times. Someone had called him five times in the past ten minutes. It had to be important.

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anonymous asked:

how does V feel about children?

Having children or children in general? He acknowledges that it’s possible he has some kids out there, somewhere, but since drow society doesn’t give a shit about the father he doesn’t think of them as his anyway. Raen ends up being the exception, but at that point where they meet Raen isn’t a child anymore.

As for kids in general, he finds them annoying and says he hates dealing with them, but if they do something right he’ll be secretly proud of them. He also has a soft spot for young sorcerers. But the most that could be said for him is he’s not the absolute worst person you could leave your child with. Maybe like third or fourth worst.

byungjoo replied to your post: “i keep my folders super organised and my desktop is always clean w…”:

i have a folder on my desktop and it is. literally. HUNDREDS of pictures of bjoo.

om see thats nice that’s cute but this is not!! the sort of person i am !! i am very much like……. .the opposite of this lmao


Here, have a couple more - Todoroki and Bakugou might as well have my favorite friendship outside of the squad tbh