Okay so my ex-boyfriend said that one of the reasons we broke up is because I make him feel like a loser but I don't understand. Anytime I ever helped him with money or other issues I thought I was just being there for him but instead I was making him feel like a loser apparently. So how are you supposed to have someone's back and be there for them if it's just going to end up making them feel bad about themselves? Would love to know your opinion.
Well he didn’t have to take your help right ? You just wanted to help and I don’t think that’s bad. You are not the one that makes him feel like a loser. It’s himself. I don’t know what he did but if he doesn’t try to get it right on his own then he’s the one that has to change something. He makes himself feel like a loser. It’s not your fault that it ended. I don’t think that’s the reason why he broke up.