Can you explain the concept of a he/him lesbian? I saw you reblogged a post supporting he/him lesbians and I'm just confused and want to know more. Thank you!
well i mean basically pronouns dont actually have to be gendered? like yeah cis women usually use she/her and cis men usually use he/him but that doesnt mean using he/him as a nonbinary person means you are a man?
for example a genderfluid lesbian may use he/him or a lesbian who is in a situation where it is not safe for them to not use he/him, etc.
i mean im obviously not the best person to speak about this bc i havent identified as a queer woman for a long time and ever when i did i never identified as a lesbian