he does not get enough love

anonymous asked:

Ha Mon-ew just got slapped by rhea he deserve that abusive crap. You people that ship Karahell are stupid

Oh okay.
So is okay for someone to be slapped because that’s not abusive right?
Now let me paint this picture for you: He said it multiple times he was afraid of his parents. Did it ever occurred to you why? Picture a small, defenseless kid that couldn’t go to his parents when he was scared, and for him to be afraid of them I believe that came to the level of physical abuse. Does that look okay to you?
Just a child scared of his own parents. People that were supposed to love him and care for him but said it that he wasn’t enough. His own parents didn’t see him as enough. Does that look right? Now you claim that he’s abusive and yet gets happy with the prospect of that he’s suffering now and probably the did before? Your logic is astonishing. And by the way, he’s not abusive.

till-death-devout  asked:

Why does mist have four horns and why cowbell has none? Also why does everyone bully poor lil cowbell he needs love :(

mist has four horns because i honestly just like making female ghouls look gnarlier and scarier than the males, like they have to be tough enough to compete with them so they get to be Extra Pointy

and then poor cowbell is a case of late blooming; it’s rare but sometimes ghouls’ horns grow in very slowly or they just fail to grow in at all. cowbell has very tiny little forehead nubs that haven’t even broken through the skin yet and they look like forehead nipples and he hates them :^( he gets picked on because ghouls are very dominance-oriented creatures with a sort of pecking order established among themselves, and scrawny ghouls with no horns get pushed to the bottom of that pecking order pretty dang fast

he ends up with omega later on though so don’t worry someone loves him

right let me get this straight

so everyone’s mad because robert doesn’t care enough for aaron yet he loves that man with every fibre of his flaming being and can be the soppiest guy going half the time (let’s forget the rebecca shitfest)

and now in that sneak peek he’s suddenly a “pig” and “uncaring” when he’s struggling because he wants to be with his husband so bad and basically try and salvage what’s left of his relationship (he doesn’t even know what’s left yet) despite the fact he has been an absolute rock for liv these past few weeks stepping up to the dad role and at least making her smile once or twice

like I’m sorry but what the fuck do you want me to feel emmerdale I just don’t understand anymore

anonymous asked:

How many times do you have to cry over some guy that isn't worth it? He left you the first time for his ex, then you started dating so he got jealous and left his ex, then you left the people you were with to get back together with him, then he dates his ex again but he never broke up with you, then you break up with him and you say you're done with him, then his ex breaks up with him, now you're dating him, when does it end? Don't you love yourself enough to understand what's been happening?

Go on/off anon and pretend were the person you want to talk to and get everything off your chest

And another thing about this photo reel

The immediate reasons to be fucking oBSESSED are obvious but do you know what else really has me emotional about it? 

Yuuri’s confidence. His carefree attitude. He’s totally taking the lead here! Like seeing this is WILD for me, especially knowing this happened BEFORE THE EVENTS of this series. I love this! I can’t get enough of this and I want more (hence my other post lol). LOOK AT HIM. And just take away the obvious perfection of this victuuri content and think about Yuuri as a character. 

Yes, he’s drunk, but listen drinking doesn’t give you qualities and skills you weren’t already capable of. I’m p sure all of them were a little tipsy :p.  All it does it lower your inhibitions and amplify certain aspects of you that already exist. Drunk Yuuri is still Yuuri. THIS IS REALLY YUURI. He didn’t just suddenly learn how to pole dance and break dance and do all these holds. And we’ve seen him pull of his eros sober. It was something all his own and it was so surprising at the time but now? Now it makes perfect sense in the best way. 

I really feel like the Yuuri in these camera roll scenes is significantly real and seeing him so confident and in the spotlight is like WOW. My heart breaks a little because HE DOESN’T REMEMBER. Boy has to know and understand that he captured everyone’s heart that night. He’s a goddamn shooting star. As a character he’s a triumph, a masterpiece. He’s so multifaceted and honestly seeing his journey to this point in his career was already good enough. 

But they didn’t stop there! They were like “Not only is Yuuri a badass now, he was ALWAYS A BADASS. Victor didn’t change him at all. This wasn’t what we thought it was going to be at first AT ALL. It seemed like Victor was spicing up Yuuri’s life and bringing out all these NEW sides of him. ALL LIES. Yuuri was the one spicing up Vitya’s life. EVERYONE’S lives even! Who knows what the atmosphere between all of them was like before this? Like honestly? I bet they were all being super stuffy and formal and not all that chummy like they are now and their closeness now is partially thanks to this cute boy. I love Yuuri so much like :’) Just….I just need a moment. *ahem* 

OKAY but do y’all UNDERSTAND like he was upstaging CHRISTOPHE !!! 

he was DANCE BATTLING YURIO. YURIO you guys. Since when has this kid been a socialite? Letting loose at parties?! WHAT? This is the power of our pork cutlet king

this was ALL before the main events in the series like…I’m dumbfounded right now.

Yuri was so timid and insecure in the first episode. And we just rolled with that. We thought this was about a blossoming skater trying to find his footing again. We thought it was about Victor helping him learn to be confident. 

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But nah. Yuuri had us fucking fooled. This man is a showstopper. This guy captivated the greatest skater on the scene, he completely stole the show. He just hit a rough spot, honestly.  

Imagine if someone tried to tell us Yuuri Katsuki knew how to do pole! Or breakdance! Or would hold his idol Victor in a saucy tango pose? 

We’d all be like HA! Okay~ :p 

We thought Victor was going to be the seductive one. 

Mann the production team must have been laughing at all of us this whole time. They were sitting on this from DAY ONE. 

We got played in the best way. Honestly? Standing ovation. This is how it’s done. Other studios better step up because YOI raised the bar beyond our wildest dreams. 

so who does the haus bills???? i’m pretty sure there’s no rent bc the hockey team owns it but who does the bills? who checks the mail and makes sure they don’t throw the envelopes out?? who makes sure the cable and heat and water and electricity is covered?? i’m sure ransom has made a spreadsheet for all the expenses, but who makes sure to pay it all on time??????? who sends out the reminder in the groupchat to give them money “unless you guys are fine taking cold ass showers for the next month”?????????????????

season 2 did wonders for keith though

we now have canonical proof that

  • hes not mr broody emo with no sense of humor and cant make jokes
  • he likes the quiet outdoors
  • he was still haunted by the lack of knowledge about his past and he managed to overcome it
  • hes strong enough to take on multiple highly trained galra fighters and even if hes getting beat hes strong willed enough to keep fighting for what he believes in
  • he does actually care, watch out for, and protects his team mates
  • he is an absolute sunshine 

I think as a fandom we don’t talk enough about Bitty in the NHL.

I mean, I know he loves pies but he does love Hockey. There’s a lot of stuff in year one about how Jack plays better with Bittle on his line - the coaches say it and Bob suggests it on the parents weekend too. It seems like the kind of thing Georgia Martin might pick up on. And she’s a little hesitant because she KNOWS about Jack and Bitty and doesn’t want to mess with relationship dynamics but…

So Bitty gets drafted to the HNL. Or, rather, spends half a season playing for the AHL: raising his fitness levels and getting some help getting over the final bits of his checking fear. Then someone’s injured and he’s called up and when he gets on a line with Jack it’s just as magic as always.

They are amazing on the ice together. You can almost feel all the people who’ve inevitably criticise Bitty for being too small or too ‘delicate’ going quiet when they realise just how fucking good he and Jack are together on the ice.

And it’s great for Jack and Bitty. No Bitty at home alone for a lump of the season, when Jack’s off playing, Bitty’s right there with him. A five game roadie is still hell but it’s less hell when you’re boyfriend’s there every night to tell you hs loves you. They sit together on the plane and bus and room together (obviously) and it’s pretty awesome. And they bring a kind of stability to the team which really helps.

Then, in Bitty’s first full year of the NHL, they win the Stanley Cup.

Bitty gets the winning goal. With 30 seconds on the clock.

And he’s flashing back to the Yale game in their first year of college because he KNOWS how much winning means to Jack. So he turned to look for him on the ice when the wistle blows and Jack is just there grinning and lifting Bitty up into his arms and kissing him in front of the cameras and the Stanley Cup and everyone because he is so fucking proud of Bitty for that goal.

And then they’re basically like hockey royalty and super famous and in love and they have their cup day on their wedding day and then they have to win another cup together so they can put their baby in it and it’s awesome.

  • What she says: I'm fine.
  • What she means: Logan Huntzberger stood up to his family in Season 5 because he wanted to be with Rory and they'd only been dating for a week. He stormed out of the house because they said Rory couldn't marry into their family. He then proceeded to date Rory for three years. They lived together and he proposed to her. Later, he also decided to walk away from the family business and get a career of his own. Logan was willing and able to do all of that 10 years ago. Why would he care what his family thinks about who is marrying now? He's 34 years old. And when we left him in Season 7, he had cut off all ties with his family. It doesn't follow that the man who loved Rory enough to give her anything she wanted wouldn't leave Odette to be with her because of the Huntzberger dynasty. How does that make sense? And why wouldn't Rory, who never had a problem asking Logan for what she wanted, say something? She asked him out. She told him she couldn't do casual dating anymore. She's always pushed to make their relationship what she wanted it to be, and she's somehow lost that ability at age 32? Why have both of these characters regressed so dramatically from where they were more than 10 years ago? And if it was going to be written that way, why do we have no insight into their thoughts and motivations? Why don't we know why Logan won't stand up to his family? Why don't we know why he's working for his father again? Why don't we know why Rory won't ask him to leave Odette? Did ASP forget how to write these characters? Could she really not suck it up and watch Season 7 so the characterization was consistent?

One of the elements I really appreciate about Yuri on Ice is the fact that they have a protagonist who clearly struggles with anxiety. It’s handled incredibly well and really does highlight all the little ways anxiety can mess you up and reduce your self-esteem to the size of a peanut.

That’s one of the reasons I loved episode 10 so much: we finally get to see Yuuri as so many other people see him. In the previous episodes, his anxiety meant that we were getting a very one-sided perspective: how he was weak, how he was a failure, how he was never going to be any good. All those little elements of niggling, nasty anxiety-riddled self-loathing.

Episode 10 was a sharp reminder that Yuuri was good enough to make the Grand Prix the previous year and interesting enough that he caught Viktor’s attention even before the banquet. The banquet itself was a gift, because yes. This is what happens when you have someone who has drowned out their anxiety. Yes, Yuuri was drunk, but all that meant was that - apparently for the first time - he could be confident in front of his peers. His anxiety wasn’t making him shy away and hide in a bathroom.

On top of that, they also managed to create a second protagonist who clearly has never really had to deal with anxiety issues in his life, either personally or in his close circle. Viktor’s inability to grasp the degree of Yuuri’s crippling anxiety until he’s borderline in the throes of a panic attack is so realistic. Anyone who has anxiety will tell you this isn’t uncommon. When you have anxiety around people who don’t, they don’t understand the degree to which it can mess with basic functionality.

Yuuri’s breakdown is really such a crucial turning point in their relationship, because for the first time Viktor starts to realise that Yuuri’s anxiety isn’t just going to be about himself: when he’s in a stressful situation (for example the Grand Prix final) it can literally be triggered by anything. At that point it was Viktor’s reputation, but it has also been about the jumps, about Maccachin, about a lost bag of nuts.

Once Viktor understands this, he does try to be more supportive, even though he doesn’t get it. The spat over the lost bag of nuts is especially significant, because he’s trying to help and calm Yuuri down, but is also still not sure how to deal with it. Naturally, Yuuri’s anxiety makes things worse, because he feels he’s being babied and blamed and all the things his anxiety-brain is screaming at him.

It’s wonderful to see this, because these two men are clearly very different in so many ways, but they are still trying to find all the ways to help and support each other.

More Voltron Soulmate AU

Keith

  • Has ‘Takashi Shirogane’ written on the palm of his left hand (he finally has a good reason to wear his gloves!)
  • They met when Keith was sent to live with the Shirogane family when he was 11. Once they found out they were soulmates, Shiro’s parents started the process of adopting Keith because they weren’t going to let their sons soulmate get lost in the system.
  • He and Shiro quickly realized that neither saw each other in a Romantic way and agreed to remain Platonic Soulmates.
  • Has gotten into fights with people who try to tell him how to live his life and say he should be in love with someone whose a brother figure for him.
  • Hasn’t actually dated or been in a relationship with anyone other then Lance. He’s never been interested in anyone enough to try and god does he regret it now.
    • He has absolutely no idea what he’s doing with Lance.

Lance

  • Doesn’t have a Soulmate name and it fucking sucks.
  • He lives in a world where less then 1% of the population is Nameless and most people think you should only fall in love with your Soulmate.
  • Lance has labeled himself as being unlovable and broken. There must be something wrong with him if he doesn’t have a soulmate. There must be something wrong with him it no one can love him. 
    • Someone please hug this boy
  • He’s basically resigned himself to a life alone with only Platonic friends because even if he does fall in love with someone, they’ll leave him once they find their Soulmate.
    • For the love of God, someone hug him.
  • Despite this, he dates people often, but Keith is his first serious relationship.

Shiro

  • Has two names. It happens sometimes, but no often.
  • ‘Keith Kogane’ is on the back of his left shoulder. ‘Allura’ is written on the inside of his right wrist. No one’s really sure why its only her first name. Shiro hasn’t found her yet.
  • He views Keith as more of a sibling then anything else.
  • Is very supportive of Keith and Lance’s relationship and he’s probably the first person you’re gonna have to fight if you’re against it.
  • Has only been in one serious relationship. It lasted two years before she moved across the country for her dream job.

Pidge

  • Use to have the name ‘Jason’ written on their left ankle, but the name faded to gray when she was 7. They never met him before his death, but has had plenty of time to make peace with the death of their soulmate.
    • Was actually really upset when the name first faded.
  • Is always getting sympathy and pity because of their dead soulmate and at this point they are done with this bull
  • Actually finds the ‘Soulmate’ thing in general to be stupid. Why let a tattooed name decide who you spend your life with?

Hunk

  • Has the name ‘Shay’ on he back of his neck. He hasn’t found her yet, but he’s really excited to.
  • His parents weren’t soulmates, but loved each other more then anything and made sure he knew he could love whoever he wanted to.
    • Because of that, Hunk has been in a few serious relationships.

Sorry, this is all I’ve got for now.

I love Robert Sugden so much??? Like he’s such a complicated and complex character but emmerdale really lets you understand his motivations and he’s got such rich character development?

Like young Robert went out and befriended this boy, Andy, and brought him home, brought him into his life, and then his family decides to adopt him. And suddenly they love Andy so much, and Robert, no matter what, can never achieve their love. They ignore and overlook every bad thing Andy does, love him unconditionally, and support him, while everything Robert does is criticized and scrutinized. He never gets forgiveness. He doesn’t feel unconditionally loved - he doesn’t feel loved at all. And suddenly he begins to feel like maybe Andy was the son they wanted all along. They adopted him to replace Robert, because Robert wasn’t, and could never be, enough.

And then he catches his father cheating on Sarah, the only mother figure he’s ever known. And then Sarah cheats on Jack, and when Sarah leaves with Victoria, the courts force Robert to stay with Jack. Robert can’t help but feel that it was more about sticking one to Sarah than genuinely wanting him. And then Sarah dies, and Jack almost goes to prison for it, when it was really Andy that caused the fire, and killed the only loving parent he had known. And how could it be that Andy had done such an awful thing, yet Jack still loved him? And then Robert starts exploring this new and exciting thing - his interest in boys. And his father catches him and beats him. His father goes from feeling dislike to non-acknowledgment. And to Robert that’s almost worse. He’s so low that his father can’t even muster the energy to criticize him, and it confirms what he had feared: he will never be enough. There was something fundamentally wrong with him, inside, that his father saw and hated. So he hid that part away from the world. 

Despite everything his father said and did to him, Robert idolized him. He wanted his father to love him, and couldn’t understand why he didn’t. Because aren’t your parents supposed to love you unconditionally? He was desperate to earn that love, because how could anyone ever love him if his own father couldn’t? He became obsessed with becoming who his father would be proud of and love. He would be straight. He had to be. He starts dating all these women, multiple at a time, modeling after his father, because Jack cheated on Sarah and Robert caught him. And Andy, despite everything he had done, has the audacity to get at Robert for never being in a relationship and that TERRIFIES Robert. He sets out to prove him wrong at all costs, and he starts manipulating people for the first time, to get revenge on Andy for Sarah’s death. He wants Andy to hurt like Robert hurts, at the loss of his mother, at never having his father’s love, and for this thing inside of him, this interest in men.

He manipulates and cons and threatens for the first time with Katie by his side. He cheats and womanizes. Yet still his father doesn’t love him. Finally, his father disowns Andy for accidentally shooting him, and Robert proposes to Katie, and things are finally looking up. Then Andy ruins his relationship with Katie, and Robert is not only disowned by his dad but also called a traitor. And at this point, in my opinion, Robert locks away his emotions and feelings of love forever (or so he thinks). He dates Debbie and tries to run away with her purely to get back at Andy for killing Sarah. The accident happens where Max King dies, and even after Robert saves Andy, his father disowns him and sends him away with his car and the clothes on his back. Robert leaves the village on his own.

Then there’s whatever happened in the dead period, which we may never know. All we know is Robert headed to London, penniless with no employment. Somehow, during that time, he meets Lawrence, and gets offered a job. And he’s rising in the ranks, and finally making it, and meets the White sisters, and pursues relationships with both of them, to see which one will go the farthest. He’s finally making something of himself. All of Robert’s internalized homophobia and biphobia turns outwards towards Lawrence. But then, they return to the village. And part of Robert is thrilled to show off all that he’s accomplished. He’s ready to rub it in the face of Andy and the ghost of his father what he’s made of himself. But the other part of him is terrified of it all. The memories, and the feelings that will no doubt struggle to break through the wall he’d carefully constructed.

Robert had finally done it - created a version of Robert Sugden that was fiercely heterosexual, homophobic, wealthy and successful, and engaged to be married to a gorgeous woman. He had resigned himself to the fact that he could never truly be himself and be genuinely happy. And sure, all of it felt fake and hollow, but he had done it. He had created someone his father could love and be proud of. Yet still, Andy was hurting him. Andy was getting married to Katie, and Andy got his father’s wedding band. And, to steal from my previous post about this, Robert was marrying Chrissie for his father, to build the life his father might have been proud of, and finally not be a disappointment. That ring symbolized so much more than a wedding band to robert: it was everything he was sacrificing, every piece of himself he was burying, and the very heterosexual marriage he was entering into, all for his dad.

And then Robert meets Aaron. And everything changes. And Robert was right, the village did bring back those old feelings, because all of a sudden he just can’t help himself, and he’s kissing and sleeping with a man. But he justifies it to himself, because it’s just sex, and it’s just cheating again, isn’t it? His father cheated. He’s doing things right. And he just keeps coming back to Aaron, and learning more about him, and all of a sudden he can’t help it. He genuinely cares for Aaron. He cares if Aaron is happy, he cares if Aaron is struggling, and he cares if Aaron lives or dies. Katie dies, and I believe it was genuinely an accident. There was no way he could know that the floor was going to fall through. And then Robert is scared out of his mind, and all he can think is he loves me, and I want him in this with me. I don’t want to be alone. And his mind is reeling and Aaron loves him and Katie’s dead and I have to marry Chrissie and suddenly his whole world is in a slow free fall and he’s trying to right it but he can’t. And suddenly even Robert himself isn’t sure what’s true and what’s manipulation anymore. He tells Aaron he loves him and it’s to keep him from telling everyone about Katie’s death but part of it is also true and does he love him? All he knows is he’s feeling things he’s never felt before.

In the cabin scene, Aaron accuses Robert of only caring about money and power and Robert’s telling the truth when he says “I wish that was all I cared about.” Robert is at his lowest and he doesn’t know what to do and all he can do is cry and be honest, finally, with himself and with Aaron. He can’t bring himself to kill Aaron. He can’t bring himself to follow through, and save the life he’s made. He’s not a killer, he’s not a murderer, no matter what his persona may pretend. Aaron lies, and tells Robert he never loved him, and Robert believes Aaron. And feels his heartbreak at that. Surely, that should be enough anger and outrage to act on his persona and shoot? But he can’t. I meant it, I love you.

Then they break up, thank fuck. Because they were a fucking mess to be honest. Robert was a fucking mess. Then six months pass or more pass, and that’s a long time in soap operas. A lot happens. If Robert’s story was a hero journey, the cabin would be his abyss, and the next section his transformation. Robert comes clean to Andy, fully, about Katie’s death. Then Robert gets shot, and faces his own death. Aaron gets arrested for it, and then Robert faces a reality that somebody who finally, finally, genuinely loved him, despite everything, had tried to kill him. And his vision of unconditional love gets shattered to pieces. But then he finds out it was Andy (which, figures, it fits the whole motif of his life) and frees Aaron from prison, but Aaron still wants nothing to do with him. But through it all, Robert still loves Aaron.

Thus begins Robert’s Atonement. Robert sees Aaron struggling, and he can’t help but need to be there for him. Not for sex, not for wealth, not for power, not for control, but for Aaron. Because he knows what he’s like, and he knows Aaron will bottle it all up and harm himself. Because Robert can’t bear to see Aaron in pain. Robert listens to Aaron, respects his wishes to the extent possible, protects and supports Aaron, keeps his confidence, the list goes on. He says all the right things, and he means them. He’s there for Aaron, unconditionally. And he starts to feel healthy unconditional love towards someone else, besides his father, who never deserved it. Aaron offers up a relationship to Robert, but Robert rejects him. He understands that Aaron is not in the right place mentally or emotionally to begin a relationship, and that nothing was more important than being able to platonically support Aaron through this time. Robert demonstrates that he understands consent fully and completely.

And now we arrive at the present. Aaron won the court case, and Robert realized that with Aaron he had the chance to be genuinely happy as his true self. He actively works against the walls he built and the persona he constructed, every single day, to make Aaron proud of him, but also Robert proud of himself. He works against every impulse to lie, cheat, manipulate, accumulate wealth and power, etc, to live with Aaron. And he’s genuinely happy, in a way he never imagined he could be. He gets to be bisexual (which throughout this whole story he was no doubt struggling with understanding and accepting), he gets to feel true unconditional love, he gets to experience family, and it’s the antithesis to everything he ever imagined as “happy” or “successful”. He’s with a man, he’s living in a crowded cruddy pub, he’s not wealthy, and he’s helping raise that man’s kid sister. Yet it’s everything to him. And as time goes on, he becomes more and more relaxed, and honest, and his heart is full of love, happiness, and family.

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Peter Cushing + That sexy neck thing he always does after getting choked out

Laurent couldn’t let anyone in for so long because he just loves s o hard. I don’t think he is one of those people who does Casual. He loved his brother enough to devote his entire life to getting revenge for his death. He had awful things done to him by his uncle and s t i l l couldn’t utterly hate him or believe him totally lost. And now, Damen. He started falling for Damen so fast and just never stopped, they are still reaching new levels of Young and Love and Loyal and Together months and months later, he is so incredibly open in so many ways I would’ve never expected. He can’t let people in just a little; when he loves, he loves fiercely, with all his heart.

I truly don’t understand why everyone is going off the rails about not enough Molly and how Adblock is now canon.

John went into an entire diatribe about texting the woman and such…but people getting hung up on that exchange are seeing but not observing! John’s point is Sherlock needs someone to set him straight someone who makes him a better man like Mary did him. He jumps to the conclusion that Sherlock’s sentiment is focused on The Woman.

But The Woman does not make Sherlock a better man. The person who forces Sherlock to shape up, accept his shortcomings, apologize is Molly. This is further supported when Sherlock consoles John about his cheating. “It’s just texting, even I do it sometimes”. He basically tells John texting means absolutely nothing.

The Irene thing is just a red herring. Even in cast interviews they have stated there’s so much more that happens between these characters offscreen, like meeting Molly for Birthday Cake.

Long story short, Sherlolly is Coming!

AU where Jack’s mom is a terrible baker and finds Bitty’s blog, who explains things very easily, is incredibly charming and doesn’t make her feel like an idiot when she gets things wrong, so she slowly starts gaining confidence and improving a lot.

She becomes a true, 100% fan, when her simple totally on point brownie recipe, kicks the ass of Sharon’s from down the street at the next neighbor party. That horrid woman who was convinced she married Bob for money and tells everybody about it.

As if there was enough money in the world that could make someone put up with Bob’s snoring, that she hasn’t smothered him with a pillow yet is true love.

She finds his other blog, the one where he talks about himself and Alicia loves hearing about Bitty’s life. He does hockey and while she cannot picture this tiny adorable boy slamming himself against guys like her husband and son do, is just another thing that makes her feel a connection.

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