Jimmy motions to the cube and makes those sounds a person makes when they are trying to make something seem cooler,“ Ehh eh?” He had forgotten it could do that and was now distracted from his previous plan of sneaking away.
The most important thing a person can do is to respect God and obey His commands, because He knows about everything people do even the secret things. He knows about all the good and all the bad, and He will judge people for everything they do.
I am so lucky to have someone as perfect as my husband.
I have this co-worker that I’ve been chatting with for the past eight months. She and I have gotten very real, and personal, sharing things that you only share after months of establishing intimacy.
Here’s the thing, though. I didn’t know her fucking name.
I wear a name-tag. She works overnight, so she doesn’t. And, obviously, we had gone WAY past the stage of me just coming out like “Hey, by the way, what’s your name, Person that has shared intimate details of their life?”
Tonight, when my husband came to pick me up, I asked him to go stand by her, say that you’re waiting for me, and then formally introduce himself. And then tell me her freaking name.
HE DIDN’T JUDGE ME AT ALL. HE JUST WENT AND DID IT.
That’s always a superficial thing, and I think Alec might understand that. You know it’s always difficult, you look at your person you love and you say ‘look at all the people before who they spent time with’, right? But, you know that to judge them for that would be unfair and irrational and also not a helpful thing. So you have to be able to get past that, but that’s not you. So, yes it bothers you, but you have to take the steps to get past that, and Alec is no different. Alec understands that. Luckily. […] That trap of weird yeah- yeah and like oh yeah well this person, this person, well you didn’t- I didn’t know you then! Are you gonna judge someone for the people they dated before they knew you, are you crazy? It’s nuts.