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man, i gotta say as much as i like supergirl, i did miss a few episodes.

i am blissfully unaware of how apparently being from daxmite is equivalent to being a grump supporter.

but on the flipside, i am frustratingly confused at all the mon-el hate and kara support on her stance against him when just a few episodes she went so hard for lena luthor even though its so blindingly obvious ( and to everyone but kara i guess ) that lena bathes in evil oil and spritz evil on like she was raised by satan. 

and i bet all the anti mon el people love lena too so i’ll just file that under shit i’ll never understand and why 

being disabled is a full time hecking job

between managing …


  • Your life (including work, school, career, and social events) around your ability level
  • Your medicine (including finding the right meds at the right dosage, which is also not guaranteed to work for the rest of your life)
  • Doctor’s appointments, specialists, PT, OT, possibly figuring out how to use assistive devices
  • Explanations to friends, family, colleagues, that curious eight year old down the street that your body isn’t what it should be and has legit limitations
  • Grief from the above
  • And the research that comes with a lifelong, possibly progressive or comorbidly existing condition …


I don’t have any time for your delicate abled constitution to grasp why exactly I’m having a hard time.

I’m really not understanding by what non-AA’s mean when they say our voices are heard more than theirs. I’ve talked to a few South Africans and Black British people on Twitter, and the majority of them said that we’re loud about our issues but not others in the diaspora. One woman told me that if we can make people aware of Black Lives Matter and the injustices towards African-Americans, it doesn’t make sense for their voices to remain unheard. And I’m just confused. It sounds to me they’re complaining that African-Americans work too hard to get their voices heard. They are basically saying since we put so much effort into seeking justice for our oppression, we need to put that same energy towards everyone in the diaspora. That is such terrible logic!

 Why would an ethnic group need to carry other ethnicities on their backs? These people are saying the reason why our voices are heard is because of American privilege. First of all, white Americans aren’t helping us. They aren’t the ones telling other black people about our issues. It’s African-Americans. Other black people in the diaspora listen to our issues, and they help us. Now if the issue is that many ethnic groups prioritize African-Americans over their own self-interests, well, that sounds like an intracommunity issue, not white supremacy. That doesn’t sound like it’s white people prioritizing African-Americans over anyone else. That sounds like many non-AA’s project their Eurocentrism and colorism unto a whole ethnic group, and people mistake that as white supremacy and imperialism. If there are people who feel our issues matter more because they look at us as “mixed” or “whiter,” that is definitely a problem with intraracism and not white supremacy telling people we’re more important. That seems self-made to me. 

  African-Americans literally received help from no one and it took being “loud” to finally be heard. So for non-African-Americans to complain we’re “loud” about our issues really need to have several seats and understand why that is. I just don’t understand why many in the diaspora feel African-Americans need to use our voices to talk about what’s going on in their spaces when we really have no grounds to do that. We do so much for our own including others in the diaspora as there is. What do you mean we need to use extra energy to talk about what’s going on in England, Germany, South Africa, Ethiopia, and Nigeria?

Empress Michonne, get these women in formation please

Imma need Empress Michonne to get the rest of the team family queens and princesses in formation. I know they want to F stuff up, but they need a cool head and a plan. Michonne, you need to get back to Alexandria and handle that.

Originally posted by myfriendamy

Princess (cuz she hasn’t made queen status in my mind) Rosita needs to have several seats and stop trying to die.

Originally posted by carterlindaa

Queen Sasha needs to stop following suicidal Rosita.

Originally posted by womenoftwd

Princess Tara needs to tell them about Oceanside. Sometimes you have to be the bad guy.

Originally posted by chamblertara

Princess Judith just needs to stay the adorable cutie that she is.

Originally posted by dailytwd

Queen Carol needs to get her shit together and stop trying to run away and hide, (although she did kinda start doing that this week).

Originally posted by emilylkinney

Queen Maggie is preggers at the moment and had her husband brutally murdered in front of her and she has a cooler head than Rosita, come on now. Queen Maggie can help plan from Hilltop, she needs to stay her behind there and finish growing that baby (and keep slapping Gregory around too).

Originally posted by padmeahmidalas

Once Her Royal Majesty Empress Michonne gets all the women on the same page, things will run a lot smoother, and everyone else will fall in line.

Originally posted by daryl-dixon-is-life

LEAVE YONGNAM ALONE! [Daian Rant]

I’m about to go off…

We all saw Yongnam’s pic from his brand new instagram so I’m not gonna post it. But lemme say this, this post annoyed me.

On Yongnam’s photo there are 207 comments & I’m gonna say 2/3 of them involve Yongguk. THAT is annoying. Don’t you sasaengs think he already know he looks like Yongguk? They’re f*ckin identical twins, they know! I’m sure he’s very tired of hearing it. That’s probably one of the reasons he deleted his first IG.

I’m sure it’s annoying to have your brother’s fans all over your shit while you’re out there tryna function. Especially since they both do music & most of the fans on your page trying to follow you for your talents, nah they follow you because you’re someone else’s brother.

Yongnam the chances of you going on tumblr & seeing this are slim but on the off chance you do, I wanna say this. Don’t delete your IG again. I genuinely want to follow you on IG & see how you be livin’.

SASAENGS: Butakahmnida, sikkeuleowo & STAHP! If you won’t listen to Yongnam’s request for privacy, listen to your leader/husband/boyfriend/bias Yongguk. He specifically asked you guys to leave him alone. Just stop. Stop comparing them. Stop saying he’s your “Back-Up Yongguk” nah fck that. You’re fckd up.

I’m done.

for fucks sake, if you like killing stalking, sure go ahead but I swear to god these people out here defending Bum for stabbing a girl 12 times, defending a murderer and using his “’‘mental illness”’ as an excuse because “uwu my innocent son, needs to be protected at all costs” like please don’t, at this point he’s just as trashy as Sangwoo and y'all need to have several seats

Why is it that the ugliest niggas with tree monster in their DNA find dark skin women unattractive?

First of all, your face is a liability.

Secondly, your breath smells like a decomposed body.

Thirdly, you can’t hold a conversation and rotate the same five words for responses.

Lastly, you broke and ain’t got a pot to piss in.

And you have the audacity to have standards! Stfu and have several fuckin seats.

Mann too many people on social media are FULL OF SHIT

Especially on Tumblr and Twitter, Fucking selfish hypocrites. Some of you claim to be feminists, pro “my body my choice” only when it fits your bullshit selfish narrative. GTFOH with that nonsense. Women that bash and drag other women for deciding to abstain from sex and remain virgins are just as bad as women that bash sexually active women. The most irritating part is that y'all do that shit in the name of feminism. Have several seats💺💺. “My body my choice” doesn’t only apply to sexually active women, some women CHOOSE to remain virgins for themselves and they should not be shamed or called liars for it. LEAVE YVONNE ORJI ALONE🙄🙄‼️‼️

Kai: I dont like comments about my ski-

Suho: uhm…. Firstable…. Please do not try me, I’m really not the one. Why are you always the first to pop off on here spewing the fake knowledge you think you have?????? Lmfao have several seats bc being fake woke really isn’t cute.