Not even trying to sound cocky at all because I dont think im hot shit or anything but there have been a lot of guys since I came out that have been interested in me and it blows because I cant see myself with them at all and it sucks because it would be nice if I could but its not worth pursuing someone just because I can ... why test the waters when you know it wont work out and it will only hurt them?... pretty common with gay people... thats something most straight people dont understand... the sheer low quantity of gay people especially out gay people leads to the impossibility of experimentative dating nevermind relationships... straight people in their late teens and early 20's get the opportunity to go on hundreds of dates in a span of 7 years but gay guys don't have that chance. And the dates they do go on are often because both people are gay and not because of compatibility... which is also why dating in late teen early 20 gay culture is so catty and childish because almost all gay guys didnt have the opportunity to get their toxic and immature relationship phase out of the way in late middle school and all of high school... which leads to an inexperienced mindset when it comes to dating and an overly sexualized set of goals which lessens the chance of an already statistically improbably successful date/relationship opportunity... so even besides the quantity aspect that is hindered by only 7 percent of the population being queer and 2.5 percent total being gay men, we fuck everything up because we didnt go through the norms associated with dating as we grew up... so next time a straight person tells a gay or queer person, "Why aren't you dating anyone? You must not want to because youre so cute its obviously not hard for someone to like you." Think again.