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anonymous asked:

When you're talking about Elsas abuse we're you talking about her parents hiding her away? Sorry if this is dumb AgHshddh I'm an abuse vicitim and I just thought your commentary on that was interesting I never caught that (Then again it's been a while since I've seen the movie but yeah :0!)

yeah! that and also, if you go back and watch the movie, a lot of what they say to her is just, really heartbreaking? 

this is the opening to the film, and toward the end of the clip we can see elsa holding anna in her arms and her parents immediate reaction is “elsa what have you done?! this is getting out of hand!” not like, what a normal parent would say which would be something more like “elsa, what happened?” 

so the first time we meet their parents, our very first impression of them is that they do not trust their daughter, and that elsa has hurt anna in the past, or at the very least, her parents are convinced she has/will hurt her. this is like… definitely not something a good parent thinks of their child. it’s plainly obvious that elsa’s parents are scared of her (what breaks my heart is elsa’s expression after her father says this too and her small “it was an accident…”)

and then they go to the trolls who then erase anna’s memories of elsa’s powers, which thrusts elsa’s dad in This monologue:

“No, we’ll protect her. She can learn to control it, I’m sure.Until then, we’ll lock the gates, reduce the staff, we will limit her contact with people, and keep her powers hidden from everyone. Including Anna”.

This is like, abuse tactics 101. Hiding your child away from people and limiting their contact with them is Abuse. It’s really no different from what happened to Rapunzel, in my honest opinion. Being locked away from the world. 

The difference being with Rapunzel was that she was told that the world was dangerous, Elsa on the other hand was told that She herself was dangerous.

And then in “Do You Wanna Build A Snowman?”, we see this scene in the middle of the song where Elsa’s dad Literally tells her not to Feel Anything. 

A little later in the video we see Elsa completely distraught and unable to even let her parents Touch her or Hug her or calm her Down because over the years they’ve taught her that she is a danger not only to herself but to everyone around her. She wont even accept physical comfort because she thinks she’s going to hurt someone. 

The way Elsa is treated is so incredibly horrible to watch like, it’s just so obviously abuse. Mother Gothal was treated for what she was: an abuser. So why aren’t Elsa’s parents? 

I mean shit man, if you go and look at “A Frozen Heart”, a novel written about the movie for more mature audiences that followers Hans and Anna as the events of the movie unfold, we get a glimpse at whats happening off screen to Elsa when Anna stumbles upon her sister and parents in the solarium.

It goes on to talk about how their father has an anger problem, to which Anna says “no you don’t remember when–” and lists off a bunch of times where she fucked up and he still didn’t get as upset as he did with Elsa just then. 

And this novel is canon. Everything that happens in here is 100% something that’s happened in universe. And it all just strikes me, as an abused person myself, as so obviously abusive. The way that they treat Elsa is horrible. Blaming her for pushing them away when it was them who pushed her away and in the first place, locking her away from people and from her sister, forcing her to conceal her emotions and to feel Nothing (Conceal, Don’t Feel always felt sinister to me and when I went back and watch this movie with a critical eye a while ago I finally realized why). 

But this is all why I love Elsa so much. This is the perfect Villain backstory and she still only just wanted to protect her sister. 

I could also get into how Anna was groomed to be abusive as well but we’re talking about the king and queen rn lol and this is already long enough. 

anonymous asked:

Thoughts on mattelektra in the defenders?

Hello, Anon! Sorry it took me so long to get back to you.

This is gonna contain SPOILERS so don’t read if you haven’t finished the show!

Matt/Elektra KILLED me wow like I was already expecting to be heartbroken with their own Winter Soldier-like storyline but the way Matt keeps trying to reach Elektra every. single. time and how it overrides every other decision and thought he makes…THAT’S LOVE. And don’t get me started on how Elektra went and slept on Matt’s bed because it reminded her of him?????? SHE WAS TRYING TO HOLD ON TO HIM. NOT TO MENTION THE FLASHBACKS AND HOW HAPPY THEY WERE? AND HOW ELEKTRA WANTED TO FIND ANOTHER WAY TO WIN THE WAR W/O MAKING MATT KILL BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THAT’S NOT WHO HE IS???? GOD. I know they’re not perfect or the healthiest relationship but god they love each other as who they are and accept each other and Matt literally risked his life to stay with her I just…wow…I am still shooketh. 

“This is what living feels like” excuse me as I go lie down and cry for 1000 years.

In summary: THEY KILLED ME & IT CEMENTED MY LOVE FOR THEM.

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tagged by the lovely @flokatae ❤ thank you!!!!

Rules = Spell your URL with only k-pop songs and tag 10 people!
(My url is so long tho .-.)

B - Blood Sweat & Tears - BTS

T - TT - Twice

S - Save Me - BTS

O - Out - GOT7

N - Not Today - BTS

T - Tony Montana - Agust D

H - Hard Carry - Got7

E - EPILOGUE: Young Forever - BTS

U - UP & DOWN - EXID

S - So Far Away - Suga, Jin & Jungkook version

S - Spring Day - BTS

E - EXODUS - EXO

N - Never Ever - GOT7

T - The Last - Agust D (i realise this would probably come under L but im putting it under T because of ‘the’)

E - Embarrassed - BTS (This song is also called ‘Blanket Kick’)

R - Run (Ballad Mix) - BTS

P - Playing With Fire - Blackpink

R - Reflection - BTS

I - It’s Definitely You - V. & Jin

S - Silver Spoon - BTS 

E - Echo - SNSD (Girls Generation)


Wow that took forever, I tag: @introvertedverses @elvencantation @bluembenga @parkjiminhyung and anyone else who sees this and wants to do it

Listen I’m bi as Heck and as much as I love girls, I also love boys? Boys are amazing and pure and liking boys is a wonderful feeling? I never see a lot of posts talking about cute boys so

Some Boy Aesthetics™ I’m in love with include:

Their tired grins? Have you seen a cute boy grin when he’s tired? Life Changing

Sleeves rolled up to forearms is all good and Well but also when they have Sweater Paws in their hoodies or jumpers? Makes the tallest of them seem so smol? I’m lov?

When they run their hand through their hair and it sticks up in places and it looks So Good

Collar Bones

Soft pudgy stomachs they absolutely make me melt

When ya boy gets flustered A++ Bonus points if he giggles Boys giggling is Everything

my favorite thing about the spanish harry potter translation is that instead of calling voldemort “the dark lord,” they call him señor tenebroso, which basically means “mr. spooky”

hey @ goyim could y'all reblog this if you're actually willing to listen to Jewish people and protect us?

we really need allies right now, and I know seeing this on people’s blogs could be comforting to other Jewish people. But please don’t do this as performative allyship- actually try and help us irl, or at least learn about antisemitism enough to spot it and call it out.

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“why do you love lance so much?” why do you NOT?! look at him! this boy can light up any room he enters

bonus:

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C-C-C-C’MON, C-C-C-C’MON, LET’S GO!

HEY MARK

@markiplier

I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL AND YOU

We as a community love you and support you no matter what as we have shown with how we responded to your recent late night vlog.

But… IMMA NEED TO LEARN YOU SOMETHING.

You said in your ONI livestream that you wanted someone to compile a list of some of the games people wanted you to play.

WELL I HAVE A LIST FOR YOU hoo boi

I started it back in January of 2016. It has over 6 pages of various games. SIX PAGES!

And I realize that you get thousands of messages. Emails and posts just thrown at you. But I still try..

I have made a Google Doc. Shared with your gmail (both markiplier and markipliergame) and I would post the link here but honestly… I put some more personal stuff on there… ANYWHo 

JUST FOLLOW SOME SIMPLE STEPS!

-Go to your google drive

-Get to the search bar

-Look up “Markiplier Master Game Suggestions List”

-Click it 

-READ MY GLORY

-please

I do try to add more games when I can and some games are kinda old but still.

If you do see this, please give me some kind of signal?? Write on the doc, send me an ask, anything.

@markiplier

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Keith and Shiro decide to go to the beach. During the day, Keith gets a spider-man popsicle (because is nerd af) with temporary tattoos in it. Shiro suggests to use them, he loves his boyfriend so much.

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Vinnie “I’ve only known Milo for a day and a half but if anything happened to him, I would kill everyone in this room and then myself” Dakota

Everybody loves Daichi

My bias show mostly in what I decide to draw for this type of episodes, don’t they

Ko-fi | Redbubble

anonymous asked:

I love your art so much! And I have question. How did Benny and Usnavi meet?

in my headcanons when theyre like 7 benny was the new kid in school and usnavi was charged with showing him around 

Picture Enjolras trying to describe the guy he likes to ferre and courf but they make it really difficult like “are you sure you’re not just making this up he can’t have that many hobbies” and “curly dark hair and makes fun of you a lot? He sounds like a taller version of courfeyrac"