i've been dating this guy for awhile now in a ldr .. we plan to meet sometime this summer, but im kinda scared that if we meet, i won't like him/he won't like me .. hes also trans and when i told my parents, they think he's manipulating me into being gay and that I'm leading him on .. im just frustrated and confused and nervous .. what if i am .. ? what if they're right .. ? since that, things have been pretty rocky and i just don't know what to do .. we're growing distant
okay I think I need more context, esp not knowing your gender. if you’re not a girl then i hate to break it to you but you may already be gay. if you ARE a girl then ?????
also you know you can’t be manipulated into being gay right? is this a trans scare type thing where you’re worried he’s actually a girl? I mean you’re trans too so you should know better right? do your parents know you are trans? EDIT: does your bf know you are trans??edit: right, about the meeting up: chances are it’ll be fine, and if you don’t work well in person then it’s better to know sooner anyway