im honestly so sick of the hate mon-el gets, and the hate chris gets bc ppl are idiots and can’t distinguish a character from an actor, like – mon-el is literally a puppy. he’s tryna figure his shit out. like barry was in s1 of the flash, he made mistakes, but he’s learned from them, and surely so will mon-el. he already has. (keep in mind he’s from a different planet that has a society that works in a way much different from ours. like if there was a period drama, you wouldn’t attack a character in power who is misogynistic and arrogant because THAT’S HOW THINGS WERE IN THAT TIME – so give mon-el time to adjust to this completely new environment he was put in)
also, i don’t care for mon-el and kara being together BUT HE IS NOT KEEPING HER FROM BEING INDEPENDENT. women can be independent whether they’re in a relationship or not. like shut up. and i ain’t gon go out of my way to hate on it bc it’s pointless?? it’s a TV SHOW. THESE THINGS ARE NOT IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO FIXATE ON FOR WEEKS UPON WEEKS UPON WEEKS.