Early birthday present…Cupcake Stilettos from Harleybella!!!

How cute are these? Do you think they’ll fit?

I have been an emotional wreck today. Between my crappy day ‘at the office’, Theo’s refusal to eat and all this prepping for 5’s IV sedation on Monday (also my birthday *frowny face*), I’ve been a complete basket case. I made it through most of the day just fine, but after speaking to the vet again I totally unraveled and bawled my eyes out from 3:00 on.

Surprise cupcakes made my day!!!


I don’t know what to say other than thank you from the bottom of my heart!

I came here at a time in my life where I was scared, lost and extremely sad. I felt angry and alone, while having to pick up the pieces of my life trying to keep it together for my young daughter.

After being diagnosed with Lupus and Rheumatoid Arthritis at the age of 35 I was feeling broken and insecure. A few health scares followed by my devastating divorce from dipshidiot, I felt alone and defeated. After losing my financial security and tackling full time parenthood alone I needed to connect with others for friendship and support.

At the encouragement of my twin shellshokt I found the support I needed here.

The friendships I have made with people that I’d otherwise never have known mean the world to me. I can’t list you all, but each of you have a special place in my heart for being along on the crazy ride.

All I can say is thank you, you guys are the best!

Much love,


Special thanks to jeraimee, harleybella, hiddeninthegrass, and lifesustainingmeasures I love you guys ❤️