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anonymous asked:

" I took the opportunity to implore the Attorney General to prevent any future direct communication between the President and me. " I'm dying he was like jeff I dont ever want to talk to this asshole again

I mean, I’m not the first person to point this out, but Comey’s written testimony reads like an account of a woman suing her boss for workplace harassment. He tries pretending it didn’t happen but starts recording everything, then he tries to find a livable compromise, then he tries asking other people in the office to be a buffer, then he tries just smiling and nodding along while never being alone with him, and finally he’s fired for not giving his boss a metaphorical blowjob. 

Then he’s publicly questioned about his testimony which, in large part, consists of asking why he never said no or fought back. 

Okay, so I wouldn’t normally post anything like this, but I’m at the point that I feel I have no choice. My abusive and manipulative ex boyfriend is posting all sorts of mean and obnoxious things on me to his Instagram. Besides the fact the a lot of it is bold faced lies, it’s also incredibly upsetting. I broke up with him a year ago to escape his immaturity and abuse, and he’s still trying to hurt me.

I would greatly appreciate anyone that has an Instagram to both report his post and his account for harassment. I don’t want to stoop to the level of posting anything back at him, but if I can at least get the post taken down, I will feel better. I really appreciate anyone that does this for me. It took me a long time to get over the awful things he did to me, and I don’t want him continuing to have this control. Thanks.

ELLIOT ALDERSON {late night subway}

You smoothed down your skirt and blouse as you glanced at your watch quickly.

Jesus, it was past midnight already? How long had you stayed cooped up in your office?

You were riding the subway home in an almost empty car. The only other inhabitant was a rather gloomy figure hunched over with his hands stuffed in his hoodie pockets.

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I’m sorry but bc of my brain fog and pain I forgot to remind you all very explicitly earlier:

PLEASE do not harass ANYONE on Tumblr.

I don’t give a shit how angry you are or what they did. Just Report and Block, make a call out post if necessary to keep others safe, but pls do NOT ever harass anyone. As a victim of chronic bullying that has caused me to have C-PTSD, you have no idea how important this is to me. So I especially don’t want anyone to harass or attack another person “in my name”. 

Thank you for your attention!! 💜

Physical aggression by a man toward his partner is abuse, even if it happens only once. If he raises a fist; punches a hole in the wall; throws things at you; blocks your way; restrains you; grabs, pushes, or pokes you; or threatens to hurt you, that’s physical abuse. He is creating fear and using your need for physical freedom and safety as a way to control you.
  • Guy on train: I'd fuck you if you didn't have so many tattoos.
  • Me: *turns up music*
  • Guy: I said I'd fuck you if you didn't have so many tattoos!
  • Me: *takes off headphones* Leave. Me. Alone.
  • Guy: Why the fuck do you have so many tattoos?
  • Me:
  • Guy: Are you fucking deaf as well as a piece of trash?
  • Lady by door: Hey. Leave her alone.
  • Guy: Are you her trash girlfriend? Fucking dykes, all tattooed like fucking men. Disgusting waste of pussy.
  • Lady: *moves forward, carefully moves jacket so only I can see the badge on her belt* Are you okay?
  • Me: Fine. Just wish he'd go away.
  • Lady cop: I can make that happen.
  • Guy: Oh, yeah, bitch? Who the fuck are you? I'll kill you!
  • Lady cop: And that's what I was waiting for. *grabs guy, holds him against the door* Harassing women on the train was enough, but you just threatened a cop. You're battin' a thousand tonight.
  • Entire train: *applauds*
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A small photoset to show how mercy/support mains are treated. The voice message was sent after I had to pull out my gun to defend myself from a genji. It said “why don’t you heal instead of pulling out your pistol if you want to play mercy”. Overwatch is lit fam 👌👌👌

So a guy pretended he was going to run me over in a crosswalk yesterday. He made sure to make eye contact and then stepped on the gas hard to make it do the accelerator sound and started speeding towards me, screeching to a halt about 5 feet away from me, then catcalled me. He literally pretended he was going to kill me and then sexually harassed me. The two are connected.

If anyone tells you that catcalling is a compliment, they are wrong.
It’s about control.

I’ve honestly been shaken up and angry about it since.

Harassment and Toxicity in BATIM

//I’m getting fed up and tired of the harassment and toxic individuals that continue to have a go at my friends. My friends are having panic attacks, feeling like they have to leave tumblr, and almost always they feel like they are the bad guys in the situation for saying no. They can’t even block people because they’ve been attacked by the harassers friends via IM and in asks.

These harassers are threatening to harm themselves if my friends don’t comply to them, they’ve threatened to kill themselves even. The amount of fear and pressure is absolutely unacceptable and childish! It’s sick, they’re sick, and it’s hurting a lot of people in the process. Today there was someone saying “hey I drew you a picture so you should give me art in return.” My friend barely even knows them and makes my poor friend uncomfortable and stressed!

In other cases my friends have practically begged people to stop trying to force their muses on their muse. Multiple times. And yet people continue to IM and send asks wanting to have a NSFW relationship or force a romance on my friends that they have clearly told them NO. I don’t know how many languages of no it takes for people to finally understand NO MEANS NO 100% but apparently it’s more than one. And it’s pissing me off how petty these harassers whine and bitch and threaten to harm themselves if they don’t get their way.

Now before people start attacking and say “why not just block them?” It’s because my friends are feeling guilty and that they are the bad guys. And as I said, they blocked one person before and got verbally bullied and attacked by the person they blocked friends. And it frightens my friends.

It’s getting to a point where I want to leave tumblr. I cannot stand to be around constant bullies and harassers because it’s beginning to trigger my own anxiety and past abuse.

And it’s not just one or two people. I have counted as many as 15 harassers within the community that have had direct contact to me or my friends. This is a serious problem. And when this goes on day in and day out I cannot mentally or emotionally handle it.

For now I’m staying away from interactions. I’m going to go through my list of people I follow and start unfollowing people.

anonymous asked:

Hi! Love your blog! So... I have a bit of a problem. There's this guy at school who won't leave me alone and continues to catcall me. I've told him to fuck off multiple times and even told him I like girls, but he won't stop. He did stay at a distance when I got my weightlifting coach involved, but he's started back up again and he's saying things that he knows wouldn't get him in trouble, but make me uncomfortable just the same. Can you please help me?

I’m so sorry you had to wait for my answer; I really hope nothing bad has happened meanwhile.
It’s truly awful and disrespectful and just rude to behave like he does.
However I don’t feel qualified to give you advice on this but I’ll name some things that might help a bit (hopefully).

- You seem to be already aware, but remember that he has no right to do what he is doing. You are not overreacting. It is a big deal.
- Tell him that the things he says are making you uncomfortable. That he is harassing you.
- Get more people involved. Friends, parents, teachers, other authorities - especially those who are male, since men tend to take other men more seriously than women (unfortunately) - let them know what’s happening, that you need backup, someone who stands up for you. Witnesses.
- Document the things he says and does that make you uncomfortable. It’ll help provide proof of harassment.
- Report him if it doesn’t get better?
- Please stay safe. I wish you good luck and really hope he stops. You don’t deserve this.

If anyone has other tips, please comment!!

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30 Day LGBTQ Challenge Day 23

Day 23 - An LGBT image that makes you cry or makes you angry (6 images).

1. Boys Don’t Cry is such a fucked-up sad film, especially the ending. It really made me unsafe afterwards.

2. Police Brutality towards protesters fighting for LGBTQ rights.

3. The first seven transwomen murdered this year.

4. Suspected gay Iraqi man being openly harassed in the streets.

5. Russian anti-homophobic vigilante group.

6. Mike Pence, being his fucking homophobic self as usual.

anonymous asked:

dear duke I need some advice. i met this random stranger on the street who tried to start a conversation with me. At first it was just talking and he knows my name and what city I live in. But then he starts asking me to have sex with him (he also thinks I look underage - I'm 18 though), so I said no and walk away and finally shook him off at a restaurant, he wanted to eait outside for me but I said no. When I came out it seems he's gone but I'm still a bit freaked out, what do I do?

CALL. THE. POLICE. If someone is harassing you, you have every right to (1) tell the guy to leave you alone (2) threaten to call the police when he doesn’t and (3) ACTUALLY DO IT. This is your safety you’re talking about, and your safety matters way more than being uncomfortable or embarrassed for a few minutes. If you don’t want to take it that far, wait inside the restaurant and call a friend. Get someone to escort you home, and maybe ask a friend to stay the night. Do whatever you need to be safe and feel safe. This is the kind of shit you shouldn’t try to downplay, even though our misogynistic society has taught you to assume you’re overreacting every time you feel threatened. You’re not overreacting. Take your instincts and your safety seriously.

I just want to remind y'all that you shouldn’t feel bad about blocking anyone who is bigoted, uses slurs against you, verbally harasses or intimidates you, stalks you online, or makes you feel uncomfortable, especially if you are a minor.

That’s what the block feature is there for. Don’t let them make you feel guilty for “not giving them a fair chance”, or say that, “you have to debate with them, or else you’re the bigoted one”. Don’t feel like you’re weak, or you “lost an argument” because you blocked them. You don’t owe anyone on this site anything. Your own mental and emotional health comes first.

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Minnaleenan Aamukahvi: “Hei läskiperse!”

Hey guys my new vid is up on my channel! This time only in Finnish sorry, I thought I could make subtitles but lol I couldn’t. Next time I’ll do my vids in English I promise! and if you’re interested in my rantings please follow me in instagram with the name @episque ! My stories there are mostly in english too.

Mutta joo suomalaiset seuraajat, mun uus video katuhäirinnästä on ny tubessa! Käykää kattoon :)