happy-tag

stuff for you to do

I keep seeing all these sad things on my dash, so I decided to compile some stuff that makes me feel better when anxiety decides to be an asshole.

STUFF YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW

-put on some chapstick
-pour yourself some water
-eat some protien
-change your shirt/undergarments/pants
-take a cold shower to wake up, hot one to calm down
-take a short walk and look at the plants
-draw something or write something
-cook something from an old recipie book
-make some coffee differently than you usually do; try it black if you take it sweet or sweet if you take it black.
-clean up your room a bit

LINKS

MUSIC

miyazaki music
https://8tracks.com/spacedj/a-heart-s-a-heavy-burden
calm, ambient music
https://8tracks.com/lulucia/d-i-s-s-i-p-a-t-e
https://8tracks.com/fleurnoire/chill-ambient
cheerful music
https://8tracks.com/mangojams/bee-and-puppycat-ost
https://8tracks.com/komugi/it-will-be-all-ok
https://8tracks.com/corymonteith/stay-alive-for-me

THINGS TO READ

“good news” : Happy current events!
http://www.sunnyskyz.com/good-news
some short stories
http://americanliterature.com/author/ts-arthur/short-story/an-angel-in-disguise
http://americanliterature.com/author/o-henry/short-story/the-gift-of-the-magi
http://www.readbookonline.net/shortStory/
sites to download books illegally (you rebel, you)
http://tinyurl.com/kpzzpme

GAMES

sand art in your browser!
http://thisissand.com/
play all sorts of nonsense games here
https://archive.org/details/softwarelibrary_msdos_games/v2
this is a b e a u t i f u l game called the deer god
http://store.steampowered.com/app/328940
based on a greek myth; sad, but very well done
http://www.kongregate.com/games/TerryCavanagh/dont-look-back

LGBTQA+

sexualites and genders
http://tinyurl.com/mg8tzd4
clothing exchanges for trans/ nonbinary/ agender kids
http://transclothesexchange.tumblr.com/

MOVIES

Ten things I hate about you/ 90’s culture in a nutshell
http://tinyurl.com/ten-things-I-hate-about-you
Beetlejuice is even better than you remember, I promise
http://putlocker.is/watch-beetlejuice-online-free-putlocker.html
Secret of the Kells has a beautiful art style and a very cute story
http://megashare.sc/watch-the-secret-of-kells-online-TmpJeE1BPT0
Labyrinth is the best movie ever, full stop.
http://ffilms.org/labyrinth-1986/

OTHER STUFF TO DO

now I hate to toot my own horn but I also have a neat collection of tags and stuff to look through.
art reference
http://hattiebigsky.tumblr.com/tagged/a+ref
more music
http://hattiebigsky.tumblr.com/tagged/audio
happy tag
http://hattiebigsky.tumblr.com/tagged/happy-tag

please take care of yourself!! stay safe.

What if Thorin had allergies though? Like to pollen and such but he’s always spent so much time on the move and in mountainous areas and grimy human towns that it’s never really set in. Plus dwarves maybe have super high constitutions so they don’t really get sick unless it’s like. Terminal. But then his first year settled down in the Shire with Bilbo comes around and he’s just–

“MAHAL SAVE ME THIS IS THE END! BILBO LOVE YOU MUST KISS ME ONCE MORE BEFORE I GO TO THE HALLS”

And Bilbo is like, “My husband is an idiot.”

anonymous asked:

how do i get boys to notice me?? all the other girls at my school have had boyfriends and i'm ugly and i think no one could ever love me and it makes me so sad :(

Step One: Stop giving a fuck what boys think of you. You will constantly be unhappy as long as you’re depending on gross teenage boys to make you feel worthy. Do not listen to them or their opinions because they mean nothing. The only person’s opinion about you that truly matters is YOURS. I’m serious the majority of boys (especially ages 12-25) are nasty and you can do so much better if you thrive off your friendships and happiness with yourself!

Step Two: Come up with some positive affirmations for yourself and whip them out when you start to feel bad. For example, when I start to feel negative about myself or my body I say “No matter what happens, Justin still exists and loves me” or “All bodies are good bodies” or “I’ve gotten through so much, I can keep going” etc.

Step Three: Love yourself. Work to find the things about yourself that you’re proud of and accept the ones that you aren’t. Pretend to be confident and you’ll start to become confident. Keep a list of nice things people have said to you and realize that they’re true

Step Four: Accept that it’s okay to not have a boyfriend. I assume you’re in high school, which means I’m also pretty sure not everyone has had a boyfriend at your school. There are SO many other girls in your situation, you’re not alone, and what you’re feeling is normal. It’s completely okay to be single!! It really is not a bad thing, it just means your time hasn’t come. Stop reaching for boys that you won’t be happy with and be happy with yourself until you find someone worth your time. If you feel a pressure to be pretty when you’re around someone, they’re not worth it.

Step Five: Dedicate your soul to Justin Bieber and everything will be okay