happiest girls

hey girls who haven’t dated any or many girls: 

your first relationship might not be perfect. your first couple relationships might not be perfect. teenagers don’t tend to have very long lasting relationships and with the added stress of being a f/f couple, it might not last very long or work out well. this doesn’t mean that you’re never going to be in a long lasting relationship with a woman, just that this one ended quickly

every girl who isn’t straight isn’t going to be the right girl for you. you might start dating a girl and then realize you’re not actually into her, or she might feel that way about you. this doesn’t mean you’ll never find a girl you really like who really likes you back, just that this wasn’t the right relationship

there might be issues in your relationship. you might have different expectations, different needs and desires, different interests. you don’t need to change yourself or pretend to be something that you’re not to make the relationship work, you’ll have other chances

given how few other lbpq girls most of us know, i know that a lot of the time it feels like your first relationship is the only chance you’ll get and that you need to make it work out. don’t force it. don’t pretend to be or feel something you aren’t/don’t for the sake of the relationship, don’t let her cross your boundaries because you’re worried she’ll break up with you and you’ll never have another chance at dating a girl if you don’t let her

this is coming from my personal experiences- the first time i dated a girl, i did everything she wanted to, ignored my own preferences, pretended to like what she liked, let her do whatever she wanted. this didn’t make the relationship last longer or be better, it just made it lopsided and unhappy. she wasn’t right for me, i wasn’t right for her, and that’s alright. just because it didn’t work out doesn’t mean i’ll never date again

you’re going to get another chance. you’re going to date another girl. everything doesn’t hang upon this first relationship

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I found this kitty in the street, so cold and hungry she was shivering, trying to figure out if she could eat a cigarette butt. I brought her inside, fed her, got her nice and warm, and now she’s the happiest girl alive??

Can anyone in the NYC area give her a home? We have two cats already, and as much as I’d love to keep her, we don’t really have room for a third. She looks about 4-5 months old, and seems perfectly healthy, other than being underweight: although of course a visit to the vet would not go amiss! She is MISSING HER TAIL, it is just a little two inch nub that wiggles around furiously and is the Cutest Goddamned Thing I’ve ever seen.

Here’s what I can tell you about her after looking after her for a couple of days: she is curious and affectionate, eager to bond with any human who looks her way. She is comfortable being picked up. She is very gentle: even when playing, there are no teeth or claws! She is timid of other cats, but not aggressive or terrified, so I think with a little patience she could definitely be a happy part of a multi-kitty home.

Please be her Christmas miracle! I really don’t want to have to bring her to a shelter. This little girl has been through enough, and deserves to have a home for the holidays.

UPDATE 12/18: Lil MOCHA has gone to her new home! Thank you so much to everyone who helped to spread the word about this kitty who needed a miracle. The temperature dropped here in NYC right after we took her in, down to the teens, and she might not have made it through the week. But now she’s gone to the home of a loving cat mom who lost her own kitty to old age less than a month ago; so I think she needed Mocha as much as Mocha needed her! 

I am going to miss her, but I know she will be ridiculously happy in her new home. Happy holidays, everybody!

She moved on, and
I feel sorry for you,
because she thought
you were the most amazing boy ever.
If she could have had any guy
in the world,
she still would have picked you.
Now, you’re just
another part of her past,
a memory more faded every day.
And someday, she’ll find the one
she deserves, and he will make her
the happiest girl in the world.
—  Words to live by
BEST WRITINGS OF 2016

Hey guys!! So i had an idea earlier today to make a whole post dedicated to all of my favorite writings i’ve read this year (and i’ve read a lot) a lot of them really stuck with me, like honestly I think about most of these everyday and reference all of them because they were so good. So thank you to all these writers for making an impact on my life and making me the happiest girl while I read these. (Like honestly the amount of times ive screamed, cried, laughed, and fangirled while reading this is too much) (There’s more imagines i’ve read that ive loved but i cant find them anywhere so to the stories i love that aren’t mentioned, i love you)


Punishment / dom-joonie

Morning Baby / ohbabyitsbts

‘Till You Can’t Walk / kinkybangtan

The Way You Lick Your Lips / noonatrash

Don’t tease / exobtssmutimagination

Yes, Oppa / monstaccato

Good Morning, Jagi / dom-joonie

Needing You / schmudt

Guilty Pleasure / jungkxook

Dinner Games / exobtssmutimagination

Tease / btsmutimagines

Make Daddy Proud / sseudanym

What Goes Around Comes Around / lovingthekpoplife

Baby, Can I? / btssmutgalore

Forbidden / btssmutgalore

Lollipop / btssmutgalore

When Stars Cross / jungkxook

Jimin’s Wish / bangtans-baby

Nothing Better / seokvie

The Sweet On Your Lips / brajinian-bootaelift

I ScReAm / bxngtansmut

Christmas Kookie / kpopboysimagines

J-Hope / coffeewithbts (This isnt an imagine but it literally made me so happy i needed to share it.)

Hidden Encounters / kcriture

I Need You / drquinzelharleen

Car Seat Treat / btsxyou (I literally freaked out when i saw this because i remembered how shook i was reading this ugh i love it so much!!!!)

Buzz / floralseokjin

Overstimulation / tayegi

Possession / bngtanah

That Time Of The Month / tayegi

I’m Not A Kid / drquinzelharleen

Finding Love In The Club / hobiandzeloaremyhubbies


Blogs Mentioned :) :

@dom-joonie @ohbabyitsbts @kinkybangtan @noonatrash @exobtssmutimagination @monstaccato @schmudt @jungkxook @btsmutimagines @sseudanym @lovingthekpoplife @btssmutgalore @bangtans-baby @seokvie @brajinian-bootaelift @bxngtansmut @kpopboysimagines
@coffeewithbts @kcriture @drquinzelharleen @btsxyou @floralseokjin @tayegi @bngtanah @hobiandzeloaremyhubbies

GUYS!!!!??1?1?1!1?1? OMG OMG I WAS IN FIRST FREAKING ROW!!!!! HE TOUCHED MY HAND AND GAVE ME ONE OF THE SONG LISTS!!!! BEST. NIGHT. OF. MY. LIFE!!!!! I TOUCHED HIM AND HE LOOKED AT US AND HE SMILED AT ME AND IM JUST SO SO SO SO HAPPY!!!!1! YOU CANNOT IMAGINE HOW SURREAL IT WAS SEEING MY FAVE ARTIST OF ALL TIME LITERALLY SO CLOSE I TOUCHED HIM (A LOT ACTUALLY) BEST DAY EVER!!!!!!!

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You’re like the happiest girl on Earth. Why? Because you’re Archie Andrews’ girlfriend. Even Veronica Lodge is jealous of you and Betty don’t talk with you but you don’t care about this. You’re glad you’re happy with Archie.

It’s such a beautiful day and you went out for a walk with your beloved boyfriend Archie. You hold his hand, enjoying every moment of the walk. But there’s something in the air. Maybe that’s something weird with Archie. You look at him, seeing him looking down at the ground.

“Hey, Archie, what’s wrong with you?” You ask carefully. But Archie doesn’t answer. “Archie.” You stop walking and he stops, too. Archie looks at you confusedly.
What? Did you say anything, honey?” Archie asks, trying to cover up there’s something wrong.
“Yeah. I was asking what’s wrong with you. You’re… So shy today.” You bite your lips.
“That’s nothing you should worry about, (Y/N).” Archie grabs your little cute cheek, giving you a long kiss to you pink lips so you can taste his lips again. You love when he gives you kisses. You almost forgot it but you still have the weird feel.
“No, Archie. I feel… There’s something wrong.”
Archie just sighs. He look so nervous now. And also really uncomfortable. “You know, (Y/N). We all have some little secrets.” Archie continue in his walk.

You don’t understand to this. “Archie, stop! I thought… There’s no secret between us two. I thought… We are honest to each other.”
Archie stops again, turning around to look at you. There’s something dark in his eyes. “I’m… So sorry. But I can’t tell you, baby. It would hurt you so much. And I love you. I’m just scared I’d lose you.”
You still don’t get what’s going on with Archie. You feel sad, disappointed and also little broken hearted. “What’s going on?! We should be honest to each other!” You shout at him. Tears are slowly falling down by your cheek, to your beautiful lips and your little chin.

Archie looks at you. He’s also broken because of the secret and seeing you cry.  “Don’t cry, (Y/N).” He whispers, grabbing your cheeks. “There’s… A little secret which no one knows. I haven’t told this to Jughead. To anyone. You’re… You’re the first person who will know this.”
You’re speechless, just looking at him.

I,” Archie continues, “I had sex with Ms. Grundy. I know it was a HUGE mistake. Really huge mistake and I didn’t want to hurt you. Just please, forgive me this. It’s just a past. There’s nothing between us now and…”
“Stop!” You say loudly, crying even more. “How could you fuck her?! She’s older than you! What did you think? That it’s going to be okay? You should’ve told me before, Archibald!”
“(Y/N), please…” He tries to grab your hand but you take a step back.
“Leave me alone.” You say with such a broken heart, going home to your lovely bed.

And as we walked silently next to each other, our hands slowly met. Your fingers interlaced with mine and you squeezed my hand tightly, like you didn’t ever want to let go. I tried to pull away, but you squeezed even tighter, as if you knew I secretly was enjoying it. Then, we turned to each other, hands still grasped together. I stared into your eyes and couldn’t help but smile, which transferred to you too, apparently, because a smile stretched across your face as well. It was at that moment I became the happiest girl on the planet, because I realized that you wanted the same thing that I’ve been wanting for so long.
—  real life or just a dream?

Day 20: Longing

Late again, jfc uni is kickin my ass but i refuse to let it win >:C i’ll draw my lesbians whether uni wants me to or not!!!