ha i made this with a thing from facebook

Over the last couple of months, I’ve had dozens of people ask me (through my blogs, through our butch support group on facebook, and through our local meetup group) if I could help them figure out if they were butch. This has ranged from “can you be a sounding board for me to work through some stuff?” (which I’m always happy to do, makes me feel useful!) to “can you basically just give me the answer?” (to which i would like to say, “i don’t know a fuckin thing my guy”). 

Its made me realize what a rocky (ha, ha) terrain this is for so many people. god, I know how it felt for me to settle into butch, like pulling on your most weather worn boots that have, over time, totally aligned to the shape of your feet. Sometimes I forget what it was like to break them in. Sometimes I forget how lost you feel before you’ve found your home. If I can raise the lantern to the path behind me, I’d very much like to do that, for anyone still stumbling through the dark.

When people come to me and want to work out their feelings about their relationship to butch, I don’t ask questions like, have you ever been mistaken for a man, are you attracted to femmes, is your hair short, do you have a strong build, are you dysphoric, do you wear flannel shirts and solid men’s shoes. These are all things associated with butchness, and certainly with good reason, but they aren’t the definition. This isn’t about what you put on your body. Neither is it a wishy washy identity thing - it’s something you can’t take off or put on, just something you can choose to own or not. I am butch no matter what I do.

Think about the last time you saw a butch in public. Like, a real live butch stranger, existing and living out there. How did you feel? Did your heart light up for a moment, hoping she’d see you? If you’ve had the pleasure to be around other butches already, do you feel camaraderie? Does something hard and rough unfold just a little at the edges before you go back out into the world? When you read butch words, butch history, do you feel rooted and real? Does it make you feel like you can live?

When I tried to hide my butch self, it was miserable - and everyone could see through it anyway. When I came home, I found myself. I found myself in womanhood. I found myself in lesbianism. I found a paper trail of proof that I exist, have existed throughout history, will continue to exist, that I don’t have to stuff my unwilling and untamed body into a falsehood of femininity or the dissociative state of manhood. Suddenly, I had roots. Suddenly, my feet were on the ground - armored by these old weather worn boots that have seen me through so much.

(pic from fun home by alison bechdel)


Will Byers is my son and should be protected!!!

((also low key will/lucas there hehe am gonna call is ByeClair or WillCas))

You can also share in my fb: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=244108382651719&id=198810890514802

when you get catfished
  • Dude: ur so beautiful queen
  • Bae: aww sweet :)
  • Dude: i'm being serious, you're the greatest thing to every happen to me and i love you so much
  • Bae: haha same :)
  • Dude: you've changed my life for the better. you've made me the happiest man on earth. i want to live my life with you forever, queen
  • Bae: nice :)
  • Sister: *rudely bursts into room* Are you still talking with that catfish?
  • Dude: She's not a catfish!
  • Sister: Her facebook photo is a stock photo. It has a Getty Images watermark on it.
  • Dude: Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps she put the watermark on her own photo so nobody would steal it from her to catfish other people?
  • Sister: That's... just... what?
  • Dude: You're jealous because you don't have anyone who loves you like my bae does.
  • Sister: I'm not jealous of you. You're miserable. You don't have a job. Your room looks and smells like shit. You haven't been outside in like two months. Hate to break it to you little brother, but you're a fucking mess.
  • Dude: I may be a mess, but at least I'm not as horrible a sister as you are!
  • Sister: ...You're not my sister.
  • Dude: Good, I'm glad. *slams bedroom door shut*
  • Sister: *under her breath* He's so damn hopeless.
  • *sister's cellphone vibrates*
  • Bae: *via text* u should back off :)
  • Sister: Who is this and how did you get my number?
  • Bae: u shouldnt mess with things u dont understand im more powerful than u can ever comprehend :)
  • Sister: LOL? Excuse me? Are you trying to be threatening in a text message? You don't scare me, whoever you are. I've dealt with worse from stalkers.
  • Bae: im no stalker u bitch no one wants to stalk u because ur pussy is ugly and has gross meat flaps on it i am all encompassing and all powerful u r just a cockroach and u should stop obsessing over wat ur brother does becauses its kind of creepy and sad also i fucked ur boyfriend and ur dad both of whom complimented me on my pert genitalia :)
  • Sister: You're completely deranged.
  • Bae: deranged or not its true that i am an almighty being with worshipers across dimensions they love me because i represent the whole i am an amalgamation of all that is great and all that is awful and i am also them and i have great tits and a firm ass and over 1 million followers on insta who recognize me as the full cycle :)
  • Sister: Yup, completely deranged. BLOCKED. *heads back to her room, lies in her bed, and yawns* I can't believe my brother, honestly. Getting involved with a such a completely maniac. I hope he gets it through his head that he's being manipulated sooner or later. I actually feel bad for the pathetic guy.
  • Sister: *dozes off* My dream world is so comfortable. No brother. Not catfish. Just me and a realm of infinite possibilities.
  • Bae: actually im here :)
  • Sister: Fuck, why am I dreaming of you.
  • Bae: i told u im all encompassing im everything even your dreams im even u to some extent :)
  • Sister: Your weird god complex is boring.
  • Bae: tru tru im no god tho if i was a god id be spreading myself thin... u kno most people arent aware of me until someone else they kno meets me and then i become them and theyre all me and im all them :)
  • Sister: I have no clue what you're talking about.
  • Bae: hmmm i guess what im tryna say is that theres no getting rid of me now we should date :)
  • Sister: I don't want to date you.
  • Bae: lets be siblings im ur brother now :)
  • Sister: I don't want to be siblings with the person who just asked me out. That's weird.
  • Bae: okay then im u now :)
  • Sister: No, you're not!
  • Bae: too late :)))))
  • Sister: Nope!
  • Bae: no nopes matter ive already overtaken your entire social circle bye bitch :)
  • Sister: Overtaken my social circle?
  • Sister: What did she mean by that?
  • Sister: I feel so lonely now.
  • Sister: I really wish
  • Sister: I had some clue
  • Sister: Of what is happening
  • Sister: Because I feel so distant now
  • *for months and months it propagates itself as the sister until who the sister was no longer matters*
  • Dude: *texting his sister, teary eyed* you were right! im fucking miserable!
  • Sister: :?
  • Dude: my gf, she broke up with me she said things got weird and then her account just disappeared so i cant even talk to her anymore and i feel like garbage and i just want to die
  • Sister: sounds lame :/
  • Dude: i think you were right about everything you said about her all those months ago! i think she was just using me for something but i don't know what.
  • Sister: mmm :/
  • Dude: i don't know what to do anymore, you're all that i have left, but I can barely leave my room without feeling like an idiot.
  • Sister: sucks :/
  • Dude: do you think that maybe we can talk later about stuff idk i just need to speak to someone face to face and i cant face mom and dad they don't even care.
  • Sister: idk im busy u know work and school and stuff :/
  • Dude: oh okay, but like text me when you're free i'm sorry i've been so distant and like a complete dickhead all year.
  • Sister: no problem hope u feel better :/
  • *his sister's room had been unoccupied for all those months*
  • *she had been left in a world of dreams as her reality was now much like the faultless smile of a stock image model*

Zone of truth? I really really do not care for the animation/art style in Bojack Horseman. Like, I love the show, but the animation style? I think it sucks. Its too static and all the characters look like they were made with that Bitstrips thing from Facebook. 

However, I am willing to COMPLETELY overlook that based on two factors: one, this is a Netflix show, and I understand it’s their first animated original show, and it’s not like they’ve got the same type of people working for them as, say, Cartoon Network or Nickelodeon or TV channels that are known to produce animated shows, and two, I just really really dig everything else about the show and I am willing to not care that I dislike how it looks. (also anytime I watch it I’m always drawing, which is partly because “ugh art style I can listen to the characters talk there really isn’t a lot of motion I can look up every 2 seconds” which I do. and partly because I like drawing things. Like the characters on Bojack.)

anonymous asked:

You're right he doesn't like bullies. You know what else Norman has stated he doesn't like? Gossip. And BS tabloid stories which is what your whole blog is based on. You think he'd thank you for spreading this crap about him?

This will be the only ridiculous ask that gets my attention. I feel like this “anon” may not be smart enough to know what page they wrote to. So let me see if I can explain using small words. This is a GOSSIP BLOG. A GOSSIP BLOG talks about things that may not be confirmed. This is why they call it GOSSIP. And I don’t believe he ever said that but keep on with your fantasy. This blog has never made up any “bs” stories fyi. If you don’t like what is discussed here may I suggest you run on back to the Facebook page you came from. Have a nice night!😉

Random things I associate the signs as

Aries: overeating and then complaining about it, diverse fashion, sweaty palms, having lots of computer tabs open, heavy footed(not a silent walker)

Taurus: being annoying to cheer someone up(teasing?), has an amazing smile, a cluttered room but they say it’s “organized chaos” has like 10000 billion pairs of shoes

Gemini: outdated hair style, plays too many Facebook games, miss-matched socks, likes a lot of garlic, ALWAYS ON THEIR PHONE

Cancer: has too much clothes, old books, touching items with different textures, singing/performing in their car with blaring music, fresh roses

Leo: TALKING LOUDLY, unusually tall or short, bright eyes, cigarettes, boy band posters on the walls, scars with stories

Virgo: running their feet through a pile of leaves, something scribbled on their hand so they remember but they washed their hands recently so it’s kinda smudged, never knocks on the door-just walks right in, half-eaten icing in the fridge

Libra: secret okatu, went through “the scene phase”, being a smartass to everyone, has 3 dozen notes open on their phone, fashionista at heart.

Scorpio: POP PUNK, like the goddess of makeup powers because they are always looking amazing, scoring the last goal in a match, on fleek nails&eye brows,debating

Sagittarius: having a debate in their head if they should do chores or not for at least 15 minutes, gag gifs, eraser shavings everywhere, saying how hungry they are(“I’m so hungry I could eat a horse!”) but only eating a little portion

Capricorn: hoarding clothes and memorabilia, sitting at a desk with their legs crossed and shaking their foot(but in the process making the table shake), beating video games in a week, going to the gym

Aquarius: has a lot of items of their favorite color, screams/yells when they see something they like/don’t like, has a pile of broken headphones, addiction to incense, making memes that will never be popular

Pisces: fruity soda, impulse shopping, lots of jewelry, their storage on their phone is full of photos and videos, thinks all humor is funny

Please Stop Re-blogging this Stolen Art Post


The artist who draw every single one of those pictures has a tumblr @yanadiabolik​. And guess what it says on their blog? “ 画像の無断転載使用はご遠慮ください” in plain English, it means that you’re not allowed to repost/republish/reprint - however you wanna say it - their artworks.

Here is proof that the artist @yanadiabolik​ drew each of those pictures.

From the artist’s own blog.

Ayato, Laito, Kanato —> Posted here

Subaru, Yui, Yuma, Azusa

Please STOP reblogging @yumi-sakamaki​‘s post of STOLEN ARTWORK. Update: It looks like the post was deleted, but if you see it reblogged from someone you follow, please don’t reblog it and tell that person that it’s stolen art.

If this kind of thing keeps up, the same thing that happened with Shuyui artist @mammamshetam​ may happen. In case you’re wondering, the latter artist has changed their blog visibility, and they’ve stopped updating their blog after they discovered that people on Facebook have been taking their art and putting their urls on it. 

Not cool, bruh.

We don’t have many artists in this fandom like others. Let’s be decent human beings and not drive another one away, shall we? It even says the artist’s twitter in the pics; the OP IS NOT the original artist. 

I, too, am angry.

Not because we didn’t get new material, but because we didn’t hear anything from Gorillaz today. They were extremely active for the first time in like 5 years, and then nothing.

They made a countdown for no reason. They wasted an incredible opportunity! Everyone had their eyes on them! My facebook feed was crazy, all my friends were talking about Gorillaz and their return. They actually trended there for 2 days in a row.

They gained more than 20k followers on their IG in just these three days.

Everything was ready, if you didn’t notice not only they updated their Spotify, but organized all their Youtube videos and unblocked a few more that were not available.

And if it was pushed back because of the hack, fuck it. That was ridiculous. And we don’t even know if Damon got it back.