Hey J, what's your advice for dealing with falling in love with straight girls? Mine is gorgeous and so athletic and has the prettiest blue eyes & the best laugh and she just gave me a long hug for the first time today and !!!!!!!! I hate that nothing will ever come if it because she's so Good.
Ooooooh dear, this is a tricky one indeed!!! Honestly, don’t shame yourself for it, of course – forcing yourself to get over someone rarely if ever works – I tend to acknowledge my feelings, accept them as being there, and enjoy the pieces I can about them while actively encouraging myself to focus on other people and other things. Riding it out is hard, but unfortunately, often necessary. Some distance might be helpful, too, to make it easier on you. Either way, you’re for sure not alone! I’m sending you lots of love and luck!!! <3 <3 <3