grow up y'all

 magnus bane, high warlock of brooklyn:

-ragnor fell. ‘my little dear cabbage’
-took in raphael when he turned ‘how you’re like a son to me’ 
-became simon’s sponsor ‘…if I ever found someone in a similar situation, I’d try to make sure they didn’t have to go at it alone’
-is literally saphael’s dad ‘anyone for a martini’
-created a fire-breathin snake for camille, cause extra. ‘my baby’
-portaled to freakin india to loot from his ex, cause he can. ‘of course i recognise it, it’s mine’
-talks about camille being his rock, saving his suicidal depressed self ‘she saved me’
-but acknowledges she’s manipulative and choose his adopted downworlder family instead ‘enjoy idris’
-loves clary like his own daughter: saved her mum, her adopted dad!luke, gave her a memory of his, and great advice ‘biscuit, i’m sorry’
-talked about how his mum took her own life with a keris because she couldn’t accept her own child ‘i was nine years old when my mother realised what my cat eyes meant’
-casually keeping the downworld safe ‘he knows he’s banned from north america, indefinitely’
-senses and is worried that isabelle’s in trouble ‘isabelle, i don’t need magic to know when i’m being lied to’
-is maia’s best tipper ‘never trust a stingy warlock’

please, don’t let me stop you. do add on.

so to all y’all yapping bout how magnus doesn’t have his own storyline/ his own agency. maybe you’re the one defining him by his relationship with alec, cause the showrunners sure ain’t. 

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addicted week 2017 ≡ favorite scene — lilo + valentine’s day

I stare at our clasped hands while she says, “We want more. We do, right?” 

“Right.” I’ve expressed as much over the years. I can do this again, I always say. I’d have another. Because my son hasn’t kicked me down. When I look at him, I might as well be flying.

“Then we have to start trying and planning or else it’ll never happen. We’re too good at procrastinating, and we can’t procrastinate on this. It’s our family.” She takes a breath, not finished yet. “And I decided to tell you today because I’d rather make this decision on my worst day than my best. I need to remember that there will be plenty of bad, shitty days, and those bad, shitty days can’t derail my future… our future.” 

My eyes burn, my emotions flooding me at once. Jesus Christ. I’m going to cry, and she’s not even crying. “Lily Hale.” I wipe a tear that escapes. “Way to be better at Valentine’s Day than me.”

You girls literally blow me like...

Originally posted by fael811

It’s never that deep. Like y’all get mad over the dumbest shit like when a nigga don’t want you.. okay that’s one nigga it’s like 50 billion in the world find you one! Get tf outta ya feelings, boss tf up, get ya money up and keep it pushin! Act like a woman please. Being a lil ass clingly ass female all emotional and shit is the COMPLETE opposite of attractive. Don’t no real nigga want no clingy ass needy ass female, be bout yo shit and let the nigga chase you. When you bag the nigga you can cling all tf you want cause he yours! But while y’all still single don’t act like you the girl cause you can and will be replaced. And that running ya mouth to anybody who will listen shit.. stop. Tellin everybody business don’t get you friends, it just makes you the go to for the tea. Learn to keep certain things to yourself, cause when you get dragged into shit then you gone look real stupid cause you ran ya big ass mouth. And y’all wonder why my circle so fuckin small, y’all don’t know how to act! But I’m done. Enjoy your night.

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((OOOOOOH MAN!!! Here’s some lines but yeah Max has kinda made their own style mixing between their lost family and their own personal likes also they completely restored their bag so it’s harder to lose than the pack. Oh yeah and their hair grew in a little more but don’t worry they didn’t lose their darker hair I just need to color this))

Are people really slating Mashima because Erza was the one to break up Natsu and Gray’s fight? My god, people. You’re laughable. This is why I dislike this fandom most of the time, y'all need to get a grip. Does everything have to be about damned ships? Haven’t you had enough ship moments atm? It’s good that he didn’t let Juvia or Lucy interfere, it was less predictable plus Erza has always been the one to break up their fighting. Y'all always complaining when it comes to your ships, enjoy the damned manga for what it is.

I’m a hard woman to love.

I’m independent, hard-headed, stubborn, self seeking, confident, a revolving changing door. I know what I want and I go for it. By the time I was 21 I had already graduated college and started my career, at 24 my husband and I built our first home.

I’ve gone through tremendous loss and self deprecating failures but I never let it define who I am.

I’m pro women, I like to surround myself with like minded individuals, but that doesn’t mean I get a long with everyone. I’m open, I speak my mind, put others in their place and hate to be told no.


the best compliment my husband ever gave me, was the day he looked me in the eyes and told me: “you don’t need me, I know if something was to happen to me tomorrow, you could take care of yourself and support yourself, that’s what I love about you the most.”

AND BAM, the following year I worked my ass off and earned close to 80k on my own as a 26 year old woman. This is just the beginning y'all.

grow up to be STRONG women, don’t think you’re capable of any less.

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I’m watching the BTS Memories of 2015 DVD AND I STILL DON’T GET WHAT WAS GOING ON?? I wrote so many theories, but idk if they we’re actually dead even if Jungkook says he dies!?

Ladies and gentleman, some sage relationship advice

Ladies, be a good partner to your man. Whether you both work, or he stays at home and you work, or you stay at home and he works; be a good partner, help each other out.
Build a foundation of trust and understanding. If he had a rough day, try and do something for him. Make his favorite meal, order his favorite take out, give him a foot/back/neck rub, let him watch his favorite show, let him talk about it if he wants, or try to make him laugh.
If he’s overwhelmed, try to ease his burden a bit. Do some extra chores around the house that are usually his job. Make time for just him and you, doing whatever y'all like to do as a couple. Do something he likes to do. Help care for him when he’s sick. Get up early and make him breakfast. Thank him for everything he does for you.
Compliment his shoes, his tie, his shirt, his hair, his butt, whatever. Men like compliments too, even if they don’t show it well. Ask him what you can do for him without expecting anything in return. Do something selfless.
When you have an argument, stay calm. You’re adults, talk it out, be reasonable and compromise. Compromise is not something weak people do in weak relationships.
And always be willing to genuinely, and humbly apologize.

Men, be a good partner to your woman. Whether you both work, or she stays at home and you work, or you stay at home and she works; be a good partner, help each other out.
Build a foundation of trust and understanding. If she had a rough day, try and do something for her. Make her favorite meal, order her favorite take out, give her a foot/back/neck rub, let her watch her favorite show, let her talk about it if she wants, or try to make her laugh.
If she’s overwhelmed, try to ease her burden a bit. Do some extra chores around the house that are usually her job. Make time for just her and you, doing whatever y'all like to do as a couple. Do something she likes to do. Help care for her when she’s sick. Get up early and make her breakfast. Thank her for everything she does for you.
Compliment her shoes, her nails, her shirt, her hair, her butt, whatever. Women like compliments, even if they don’t always show it well. Ask her what you can do for her without expecting anything in return. Do something selfless.
When you have an argument, stay calm. You’re adults, talk it out, be reasonable and compromise. Compromise is not something weak people do in weak relationships.
And always be willing to genuinely, and humbly, apologize.

Listen to each other. If your partner raises an issue that needs to be resolved, work on it or leave.

If you sweep problems under the rug, get violent, throw blame at your partner, don’t lift a finger to help around the house or make sacrifices for each other, then you are children who haven’t grown up and need to move back in with your mommy. Pay attention to each other.

If you did not get into a relationship to have a life partner, then let them go. They’re not going to sign adoption papers and take care of you; leave and let them find an adult worthy of their affections.

There are too many good men and women out there who are scared to love somebody because they’re afraid they’ll be tricked again, manipulated again, used and abused again. It’s time to grow up.

And y'all, if you are with a partner who hits you, spends more time talking to whoever is on their phone than they do with you, sits around the house doing nothing, never appreciates you, doesn’t have adult conversation with you, or acts more like you’re a sponge to squeeze their needs out of than you are a unique human being who also has needs, then you need to VANISH from their life.

Treat your partner right.

Originally posted by utiligif