You win some you loose some

Today I had to block a really rude person from my youtube account. I’m not going to repeat what they said because it actually got to me a bit. But 15 minutes later I got several reblogs of a pic I posted last tuesday. This made me feel sooo much better. Thanks so much guys!!

Self Confidence

Hey all!

Today I want to talk about self confidence, especially for the girls who are between the ages of 12 and 20. This is something I am really passionate about because it breaks my heart when I see girls who feel completely unworthy for some reason that, in the grand scheme of things, is nothing. 

Fitness is a great way to help boost your confidence, even if you aren’t seeing the results. However, you do not need to start exercising or losing weight to lose weight. We are given the idea that all these gorgeous super models are confident because they are stick thin. This doesn’t have to be true though and I can promise you that almost all of these supermodels that we are told to idealize are happy with who they are. 

So if looking like a supermodel isn’t the way to become self confident, then what is? Well, as cheesy as it sounds, beauty and self confidence come from within. I know, I know, that sounds like the lamest advice in the world. It’s the thing your mom tells you because, well, she’s your mom and she has to love you no matter what. But what your mother won’t tell you is that there are ways to realize this inner beauty. So how do you come about finding this?

  • Each day, write down something you like about yourself. Make sure it is something you like about yourself, not what others say they like about you.
  • Probably the most important: WHO GIVES A F*** WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU. Their opinions have no power unless you let them. Trust me.
  • Be positive, get rid of everything in your life that brings you down. Prune the negative people out of your life. 
  • Be nice to others. Even if you are having the worst day of your life, do something nice to others. Making their day better and bringing a smile to their face will make your day that much better. And it’s a fact that people like nice people.
  • Stand tall. Don’t hide yourself. From the minute your feet touch the ground in the morning let the world see that you are there!
  • Be grateful. You don’t even have to write this down. Just every night, before you sleep, think of three things that you are thankful for. Even if it is something as mundane as that pink curly straw.

There are so many ways of improving your confidence. There is not reason for you to not be happy with who you are. You are the only you, and you shouldn’t be comparing yourself to others because they are not you.

I know this post is a little rambling, but there’s just so much to talk about. 

I hope at least some of you find this helpful, and if you have any more questions, feel free to inbox me! :)

PS: This is one of my all time favourite articles on body image and self confidence: Stella HONY

Here's a confession

Yes I love to write, writing is my best way to escape, so when i continuously ask you guys to send me stuff it’s not just because I want your guy’s attention or that I want to out due other blogs by getting more requests than they do, it’s because I want to write, if I was able to write a book I would, I love to have things come to my mind and just express it and the beauty or stand out part of my writing is that sometimes it doesn’t make sense but that’s what I love, I love to keep people wondering, thinking about what I was trying to say, contemplating weather I am trying to be serious, happy, or sad. Writing is my passion that I hope to pursue one day and with you guys requesting for more nate imagines or cameron or nash and the rest of the boys it’s just helping me get more practice and I can’t thank you enough because I get to keep you guys happy mean while I get to keep myself happy because I’m writing and just expressing what I think about that topic. thank you guys for everything you’ve requested me to write it may seem like it shouldn’t mean this much to me but the way I see it is you guys are helping me get closer and closer to being the best writer I can. I love you guys, Stay beautiful ❤️

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