I have completely mixed feelings on this, it’s unreal that a man can’t tell people his sexuality no matter what era he was brought up in. You are who you are and you should be who you want to be to make you happy, makes me sad that he had to live his whole life a lie.
But then again; BRAVO GRANDMA! What a beautiful women, to hide her best-friends secret by having children and raising a family to hide his secret sexuality! Absolutely beyond amazing how some people can be so incredible.