It’s okay to want kids.
It’s okay to not want kids.
It’s okay to want to get married or be in a relationship.
It’s okay to just want friendships.
Wanting these things didn’t make you less valid.
You’re valid, you belong, remember that.
Here’s to the gray romantic and/or gray sexual people, to those who only feel attraction sometimes or in really specific circumstances. Your on and off relationship with attraction is completely genuine and you’re a lovely person. I hope that great things come your way.