Here’s to my graysexuals. The ones who’ve only felt attraction once in their lives. The ones who aren’t sure what kind of attraction it was. The ones who are solid in their identity. The ones who aren’t sure.
You matter, you’re valid, and I love you very much.
Sex repulsed black aces
Sex positive black aces
Sex neutral black aces
Black aces who’ve had sex
Black aces who’re still virgins
Black aces who are out
Black aces who are in the closet
Black aces in their teens
Black aces who are in their twenties on up
Questioning black aces
Black aces who’ve always known they were ace
Demisexual black aces
Grey asexual black aces
Black aromantic asexuals
I hope in 2016 the black community will recognize that we exist! We definitely need more conversations about being black and asexual.
Friendly reminder that your sexuality is never homophobic. Want to date someone but don’t have sex with them? Not homophobic. Are you sexually attracted to somebody but couldn’t imagine doing romancy stuff? Not homophobic. If you identify that way, you are not homophobic for existing.
I almost never see any posts with the majority of these, and people need to know that we exist too. It’s easier to find some of these on places like Tumblr and Google more than others. If yours is often forgotten and not on here, please feel free to add it on. Stay wonderful!