I’m neither full aro or full ace but I’m like, repulsed by specific romantic stuff (looking deep into each other’s eyes, like a lot of stuff but it’s hard to describe?? I don’t want to watch typical romantic stuff if that makes sense…) and repulsed by specific sexual stuff (like sexualized clothes/poses, sexualizing butts is so gross to me but it’s so common and it kills me). like idk. I like casual attitudes towards both these things, but the second you focus all your attention on one thing or another I get really uncomfortable