Omgosh I love the doctrine you live by. It’s similar to this song lyric I heard, can’t remember the song. But it’s “If they ain’t paying your bills pay those bitches no mind.”
The song Sissy that walk by RuPaul comes to mind. lol But really It’s a great way to think imo. When it comes down to it life is really all about survival.
You can omit tons of bs by going “is this helping me survive?” Because people will come into your life and try to criticize and condemn everything you do as if they’re your god or something. They’ll want you to live by their standards without giving you any incentives for doing so.
It pisses me off to no end because its like…do you seriously think that you’re SO MUCH better than me I’m gonna stop what I’m doing and serve you? Like…I don’t give a damn about how much you think of yourself. You’re useless to me.
Omg it’s like a homeless man showing up to a Rolls Royce dealership and trying to talk shit to the salesman for only having certain car builds.
Like….those cars are an easy million dollars….why would they give two fucks about a homeless man’s opinion when he’d never be able to even afford the car if he DID like it?
The dealer could be weak spirited and bring in other builds and lose existing customers that actually CONTRIBUTE to his business.