if you want to send me an ask, even if it isn’t related to my blog type, send it. i’ll be more than happy to answer it.
if you want to message me, go the fuck ahead. sometimes i don’t answer bc i’m busy but i’ll text you back when i will be able to. you can talk to me about anything, if it makes me uncomfortable i’ll stop it but if it doesn’t, no problem !
if you want me to check out your blog/fic, just ask. i’ll be glad to see some new contents and will be very grateful.
if you want me to give your blog a shout out, all you have to do is ask. i will do it - except if the content triggers me or is inapropriate.
if you want to tag me in something, please please do. if i ignored it i might not have seen the notifications, so you can send it to me to be sure i saw it
if you want me to give visibility to a project or issue, tell me. i can’t promise i’ll always do it but i will definitely give it a look
if you want to ask me why i’m late on something or if i’m still doing it, the ask button is right there. i’m sorry if i got late on something and you have every right to ask
if you want to communicate with me in any of these way or another one, just do it. it will make me so happy. you won’t look clingy or weird. as long as you are respectful, i will always appreciate to receive feedback or to talk to you
Hey, did I reblog a meme? Do you want to do the meme too? Reblog it.What if you don’t have any ideas for sending one to one my characters? Reblog it. What if you’re having a quiet tumblr day and just reblogging a bunch of memes but not really sending any or replying? Reblog it. What if I just reblogged five memes in a row and you love all of them? Reblog them.What if you’ve owed me a thread for a month and you don’t have muse right now but I’ve been reblogging cool memes for days and you just want reblog a ton of them? Reblog them.
You know how that will make me feel?
Glad that you’re following my blog! Happy that you’re seeing my posts! If we haven’t interacted in awhile, and maybe it makes me miss you a little, maybe it will inspire me to hop in chat or an ask and say hi!
Please reblog anything you want from my blog regardless of whether you send something back.
Okay listen, I gotta throw a little salt on this sugar. You know what makes me 1000% more anxious than someone asking me for a reply? Passive-aggressive posts about people reblogging your memes and not sending them back. I reblog memes, pretty pictures, those little headcanon quotes, like a kid in a candy shop. So if I start to feel like I have to pay attention to make sure I don’t reblog too much from a particular blog…that just makes me hella anxious, and it makes reading my dash less fun.
Sugar on the salt:I can’t tell you what to feel. If you see me reblogging all sorts of your stuff but I owe you replies and/or I never send you memes back, and it makes you feel down, pop in chat or an ask and tell me.
And because this post complains a little about passive-aggressive stuff, but is inherently passive-aggressive, go ahead and assume it’s not about you, okay? If you post stuff that makes me uncomfortable, I’m gonna follow my own advice and tell you about it. If you’re reading this, it means you’re following me and I love you.
During these past two weeks I've had one hell of an emotional rollercoaster. First week I thought I'd be losing two people I hold really dear, because one of them is in love with me and I'm in love with the other one. And they're both best friends with each other. And then we decided, to my big surprise, that we'd try to make it work as a poly relationship. And since then I've been so happy... But also everything is much more intense. (1/3)
All positive things, all negative things… are multiplied. I haven’t
known I was poly before and never thought it even was an option, so
there’s a lot of new feelings to sort out. It feels like discovering a
new sexuality kinda. So many things from my past make sense now. Either
way, I almost broke down at work today, cause I thought I had missed an
important meeting. Turns out I hadn’t, but it completely exhausted me.
I think I’m stressed out and emotionally exhausted. In these times, I go
to your blog to feel better, which is also why I’m here now. I love the
characters you write. I love immersing myself in your universes. So,
just, really… sorry for ranting and all but, thank you so much for
everything you do. I hope everything goes well for you.
Firstly, polyamory is an orientation for sure. But because monogamy is so normalised, people think of polyamory more as a ‘kink’ instead of a fundamental way of being. And just like other forms of sexuality, you can be wholly monogamous, or wholly polyamorous, or existing on a spectrum where it’s different for different people and relationships. There are also different types of polyamory, and well, yeah. :)
Poly is a huge spectrum, and it’s great that you’re exploring it for the first time (and yes, it can be very intense, especially when you have double the amount of ‘new relationship energy’ to deal with, which is intense for most people - communication and honesty helps a lot, and I don’t know how much research you’re doing, but there’s lots of blogs on successful polyamory that are incredible and I highly recommend googling for some support on that front; because you won’t get it in the mainstream media, which sucks).
So I have a lot of respect for what you’re going through! NRE (new relationship energy) does settle down and become less intense, and some people miss that, but honestly I like when the intense positive/negative phase relaxes and things become more settled and even comfortable, because you can trust in what’s happening a bit more. (Also can I just say how fucking happy it makes me when a situation like yours is solved with polyamory and communication but anyway).
I’m glad the blog helps as well! I’m sorry for not being very communicative this week! I’m actually catching up with my messages now. I like coming here too, everyone is awesome and I get to hear about all these different things and I know I don’t know all the details of your life or anything anon, but I wish you the best with what you’re experiencing! <3
I have stanned BAP since their debut, and I remember when they went away I felt my world crashing. I was just praying that they weren’t going to disappear like 2NE1 for 2 years. I’m glad BAP came back, I wish 2NE1 could’ve done the same, but man am I glad as hell that BAP is back. I remember when, while they were MIA, Zelo dropped No Title. That shit was my jam man. I’m glad now I get to listen to them all again, I’m glad I get to see them trending again, I just wish some of those fans from the beginning stuck around, because getting to see them rise up again is one of the best feelings ever.
you know, I don't know why people are sending all this hate. I mean, yeah I know it was all so messed up and shit hit the fan and now everything sucks. But from my perspective, I understood the motivations for each character. Like I know your Yakov does not like Yuuri because he feels like he's protecting Viktor and all that. And for Viktor, I never once thought that he was doubting Yuuri (in terms of how Yuuri seems to see it). I honestly really loved the chapter as much as it broke my heart.
Thank you! And I’m glad you understand the motivations because it makes me sad to see so much hate going around!
Along with dinner, Vivienne decided to make a special dessert. She missed having Asher in the house and Elena right across the hall, more than she even thought she would when they told her they were moving across town. But she was glad they were happy, and even more glad to see them for dinner. It had been much too long since she had seen her eldest son. ♥
I really love your blog, I love stormpilot, I'm in love with Finn's character (and John OC) but I think sometimes you take it too far. There always be people who doesn't like certain things and if they don't like Finn it's ok, no one should impose to like some character just because you think you can. Racism is not ok, hating characters because is an actor of different skin color is not ok, but you need to calm down, Oscar Isaac is latin and gets way more hate and I don't see you complainning.
I’m glad that you like my blog and you enjoy the content, but here’s the thing, there is no taking it too far in regards to racism in this fandom (or any fandom at all). I never said ppl couldn’t like Finn the fucking problem is when people on here (notably white fandom) try and demonize Finn to woobify all the white characters in this fandom and absolve them of their malicious acts or invalidate Finn’s character arc.
I don’t need to calm down worth a shit when ppl continue to do this and I don’t need ppl like you to tell me how I should react to said situations considering that this is my blog and whatever I choose to reblog or post in terms of being critical of fandom behavior is fair game on here. I don’t know why your first assumption is that I don’t post about Oscar Issac or Poe considering the posts & discourse I’ve made/reblogged on here that you can easily find by perusing my tags. Not to mention from day one this fandom has had a bigger problem with the rampant anti blackness with Finn, That isn’t to say that there aren’t problems with ppl whitewashing Poe/Oscar or shipping questionable shit, or etc. However there is undoubtedly a more negative perspective applied to John/Finn in this fandom, and I find it funny how you’re telling me to calm down about that but suddenly want to put me to task about Oscar/Poe? So which one do you actually care about? Or are you concern trolling me here?
So while you are out are you just gonna be like "btw this is a date"?
glad you asked! I have a plan: we’ll go see a movie (“moonlight”, btw), then I’ll suggest we go have a cup of tea in our fav coffee shop, and while we’re there, we’ll have a pleasant chat before I’ll tell her I like her in THAT way and ask her out again, officially
BLESS YOU FOR DRAWING THAT AMASAI ART. It's really great, I love it! Amasai has been my otp for a while and I'm glad more people are starting to see the appeal of it. I'm really looking forward for your next art of them! Keep drawing~
AWWW THANK YOU DEAR!! <333 yes I support this otp all the way!