girls low self esteem

anonymous asked:

"Chris seriously has a type"< I really hope that after Minka and Jenny fiascos Chris HAD that type! He needs a down earth girl, outside the movie business and who's able to help him keeping it real in that lame Hollywood world. In my humble opinion he deserves to find that girl. Too many shitty gf. Stop it now Christopher, you're too good for gold diggers!

I wouldn’t call Jobby a gold digger. She works more than Chris has in the last year. I don’t think he would do well with an actress, but I wouldn’t rule out someone in the business, like maybe more behind the scenes. At least, they would understand the nature of the business, but they would also be more private since they wouldn’t be a celebrity. We all know he likes kissing on makeup girls. 

Mainly, he needs to stop messing with these low self esteem ladies. And to be honest, if he’s going to catch himself a good woman, he needs to bring something to the table, and be a good man in the first place.

Originally posted by gameraboy

– MP

In case you missed issues B.A.P WAKE ME UP MV has touched on pt 2 cuz im trash and have been wheezing/crying the whole day fight me

Insecurities + Low Self Esteem/self-worth: shown through the girl with makeup around her and she soon tries to apply lipstick, only ending up smashing the mirror.
Murder/Shootings: The man waving his arms around as if conducting a musical piece until lights spark at his fingertips (like gunshots being fired) and then people dead surround him.
Anxiety/Depression/Mental Illness: The man in the bathroom, coiled up by the bathtub as he looks at his surroundings afraid of something, only to submerge himself into the water in his bathtub.
Illness in General/Suicidal thoughts or attempts: The girl who drinks down those pills as well as some other type of liquid can represent either illness in a physical aspect or portrays the attempt to suicide.
Eating Disorders/Hallucinations: The scene with the woman chopping veggies can allude to two different interpretations. Hallucinations as she almost eats a worm or it is the symbolic representation to express eating disorder.
Societal/Political Issues: The probably most iconic scene where the man is holding up a sign “Emotion Revolution”. This is representative of public demonstrations we see on the news today to fight for equal rights and social justice. The people passing by as if its nothing represent those who are unaware of the issues that surround them.
Revolution is starting to be achieved when these people who went through their own respective life problems come together to help ‘spread the awareness’. I guess you can say they, “wake up” into new ‘selves’, represented through celebration towards the end of the MV.

This isn’t even it. The MV is very diverse in nationality and they haven’t placed labels/stereotypical roles on these people according to the colour of their skin or where they came from. Each and every person was given a role that any human being would go through in their life because every human being is a human being despite race, colour, place of birth, gender, etc.

Not only did B.A.P create a song concerning social justice but they went even deeper this time. They went into mental illness, problems that we have as individuals at a personal level rather than just ‘society’ as a group. They looked into people in their variety and represented it through WAKE ME UP MV.

B.A.P aren’t just ‘kpop idols’. You probably thought I’d say “they don’t fit in the kpop category anymore.” No. This is something far bigger than just the music industry.

I have one wish, just one. I want to be kissed by a pretty girl. Not just any pretty girl, she’s pretty inside and out. She makes my heart flutter and my knees weak. She makes me blush and it hard for me to get a full sentence out. I want her to kiss me without pity, without disgust, but with sincerity, with so much emotion I feel it in my heart and soul. I feel it so hard that it makes me feel alive like I mean something to the universe.


The sad truth is I’m more comfortable posting a nude of myself then a picture of my face. And even then I can’t seem to do it without a stupid filter on.

Self hatred is tiring


I aspire to playing strong women because that’s how women are in real life, even though that’s not always portrayed in film or on TV. Self-confidence and self-belief are very important issues for young women and I’m very proud that I’ve had the chance to play a woman who has transformed herself from a girl with low self-esteem into a much more powerful and confident young woman.

I step out into the road without looking as I need that car to hit me;

I’ve lost all the drive of my own.

—  I’ve lost. // A.S

Getting tired of not having a boyfriend and being in a relationship. I just don’t get it. I’m attractive, nice and caring and I’m not desperate. I’m somewhat introverted but at the same time I love to go out and have fun. I’m taking care of my body and trying to lose weight. I go to the gym every single day for 60-90 minutes. I’m working on myself. It’s not like I’m not bettering myself.

I currently have an internship with a well known organization and I’ve gotten honor roll almost every semester of college.
My thing is that guys my age do hit on me sometimes (I’m 21). They talk to me, ask me how I am and want to know me but never ask me for my number. Additionally, I get annoying ass older men trying to hit on me and it’s so annoying. I’m tired of it. I just want a guy my age. Like I don’t get why these older men think I want them. Freaking perverts.

I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong with these guys. Why would you act interested in me but not ask for my number? I sometimes wonder if I’m doing something wrong. I know I’m a little shy but if someone is talking to me I will respond to them.

I just don’t know what to do anymore. I’m ready for a relationship. I want to go out on dates and cuddle with a guy. I’m just tired of waiting. What am I doing wrong? My friend said I act like I’m not interested and that I’m judgy of guys but every girl has a standard of what she wants in a guy. She also said I should lower my standards. She also gets all the guys and I don’t get any. My standards aren’t high but they aren’t low either. I’m not just going to date anyone. Starting to think I’ll be single forever. 😩😒🙄I’m tired of going out alone all the time.

I used to be comfortable with going to the mall by myself and the bar but now I’m getting bored. I just want to go on dates and be in love. Is there anyway to be more approachable to get guys to be interested in me? How does someone become more approachable and more confident. Please no one give me that “you have to love yourself” statement. There’s girls out here that don’t love themselves and have low self esteem but are constantly in relationships.


I am… I am green

I love Mondai No Aru Restaurant with all my heart and I want to make at least one more gifset highlighting how good it is, but I wanted to show Nitta’s speech first because it really got to me. When I was a kid and I played Sailor Moon with my friends, I actually WANTED to be Sailor Jupiter. She was strong and badass and yet traditionally feminine and I loved characters that were allowed to be both strong and girly, like Rogue from Saban’s X-Men. However, I had the same problem Nitta had. When roles were distributed, I could rarely be Jupiter because, even if I didn’t look like any of the Scouts, Makoto was the furthest to me. A short, fat, girly, bookworm kid like me wasn’t imposing, strong looking enough to be Jupiter. I had to be Mercury, she looked nothing like me but at least she was shy and nerdy. Sailor Moon is often put up there like a feminist anthem, like a broth in which current young feminists were brewed, and although I do recognize its merits, I also understand its shortcomings and I loved how this drama showed the other side of its impact on young girls.

I found it fascinating how Nitta is given green in the show’s restaurant, and she has a rocky yet developing relationship with a co-worker, who she considers an “enemy” for being everything she’s not (she values appearance and romance more than study and work). But it turns out that this girl was also always Jupiter in the playground and, when she gets a color in the restaurant, she’s orange, like Sailor Venus, the one with the shortest skirt and the love, beauty and light powers and who was an idol, often dismissed by girls I grew up around for the opposite, because she was “too feminine”. They both find out, through the episodes, that the only thing keeping them apart is internalized misogyny. 

This drama, much like Sailor Moon, has a female protagonist who wants to fight for justice, a less magical and more realistic kind of justice, putting up a restaurant after a friend of hers gets severely harassed in the workplace and trying to fight back to the sexist environment they work in. Much like Usagi, she has an entourage of girls with different personalities, identities and issues (a young hikikomori with severe social anxiety, an overachiever with low self esteem, a girl who seeks validation through male attention and is victim of abuse, a trans woman whose work is put into question constantly for her identity and not her talent, a career woman who left her job because it’s too difficult to try succeeding when she isn’t a man and a mother who’s constantly denigrated and finally abandoned by her husband, who is trying to take her son away from her). They’re not only fighting for a common goal of helping their leader, they’re all fighting for their own self respect, the defense of their own identities and a sense of equality that is constantly being taken away from them, in the most denigrating and sexist ways possible. So yeah, I love this drama and I sure hope I can make more gifsets to represent its amazingness, but this speech dealing with internalized misogyny and female competition through a Sailor Moon metaphor really deserved its own gifset.