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I’ve been thinking about making a new persona that’s more agender… it’s something I’ve been thinking about for a while cause I’ve never really felt 100% into representing myself as a girl and i haven’t felt completely confortable representing myself as a guy either so idk. Would it be ok if I made a new sona like that?

it’s very telling in the kpop fandom, by saying that i think kd are dating, someone will immediately say it’s wrong and assumptious. but it’s only because they /are/ thinking of it as merely sexual because they’re both guys. they’re literally sexualizing everything themselves.

when we spend most of our time talking about mutual respect and care and love here. but that doesn’t matter.

when people speculate about ex_o members dating a_pink members or whatever else girl idol that they haven’t even met, this debate does not exist. this debate will not exist. ksoo/so_jin or whatever else blogs will never receive hate for ‘talking about real life people like that!’. like what? implying they’re dating? implying they love each other??? there’s no real life negative effects of the posts on my blog towards the lives of anyone mentioned here.

so why are you so invested in it??? just outright say you’re uncomfortable by it.

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There they are! There’s my girls!

(Sorry I haven’t updated in a while–school has been stressful. Here’s a cute double update to make up for it.)

I CAN’T BELIEVE I MISSED IT. YOU GUYS ARE TOO FAST 4 ME

THANK YOU guys so much for over 1000+ followers! I’m so glad that you enjoy the stuff that I post. :D

I’m going to be heading out soon for dinner, but in the meantime, I’m going to start planning out some more one-panel comics tonight! Thank you guys for all of your wonderful ideas! I’ll try to do as many as I can when I return home!

Wanna Bet? III

Rich Fuckboy!Jimin x Reader

PART I  |  PART II

Warnings: SMUT. Oral (both), face sitting, rough, daddy kink, dirty talk

Word Count: 1,707

A/N: This is my fic, I’m just re-posting onto my sideblog


“I hope you don’t think I’m done with you, baby girl. I haven’t even fucked you yet.” Jimin looked at you with a smirk. He pushed you off of his thigh and moved down the bed so that his head was now on the pillow. He motioned for you to move closer to him, eyeing you as you crawled closer. When you got within his arm’s reach, Jimin grabbed your waist and brought you on top of him, facing his legs. He pulled you by your thighs, so that you were now hovering above his face, the realization of what he was about to do sinking in, “I’ve been dying to find out how you taste baby, don’t make me wait any longer.”

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hey girls who haven’t dated any or many girls: 

your first relationship might not be perfect. your first couple relationships might not be perfect. teenagers don’t tend to have very long lasting relationships and with the added stress of being a f/f couple, it might not last very long or work out well. this doesn’t mean that you’re never going to be in a long lasting relationship with a woman, just that this one ended quickly

every girl who isn’t straight isn’t going to be the right girl for you. you might start dating a girl and then realize you’re not actually into her, or she might feel that way about you. this doesn’t mean you’ll never find a girl you really like who really likes you back, just that this wasn’t the right relationship

there might be issues in your relationship. you might have different expectations, different needs and desires, different interests. you don’t need to change yourself or pretend to be something that you’re not to make the relationship work, you’ll have other chances

given how few other lbpq girls most of us know, i know that a lot of the time it feels like your first relationship is the only chance you’ll get and that you need to make it work out. don’t force it. don’t pretend to be or feel something you aren’t/don’t for the sake of the relationship, don’t let her cross your boundaries because you’re worried she’ll break up with you and you’ll never have another chance at dating a girl if you don’t let her

this is coming from my personal experiences- the first time i dated a girl, i did everything she wanted to, ignored my own preferences, pretended to like what she liked, let her do whatever she wanted. this didn’t make the relationship last longer or be better, it just made it lopsided and unhappy. she wasn’t right for me, i wasn’t right for her, and that’s alright. just because it didn’t work out doesn’t mean i’ll never date again

you’re going to get another chance. you’re going to date another girl. everything doesn’t hang upon this first relationship

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