girl's closet

How to Feel more Feminine (for closeted Trans Girls)

· Part your hair
· Paint your nails with a clear coat of nail polish
· wear “Manly” Jewelery like a shark tooth necklace or a cross necklace (if you’re Religious) or a dog tag, or a mood ring
· wear panties under your Boxers or pants
· wear a cupless sports bra under your shirt
· wear slightly tinted chapstick
· wear eyeshadow that is a shade close to your skin tone
· paint your toenails & keep them hidden from unsupportive people under your socks

the closet does not equal shame.

sometimes you have to stay in the closet for your own safety, your protection or maybe because you simply feel you don’t need to or you aren’t ready yet.

it doesn’t matter if your family/friends are supportive or not. it’s your decision and you’re valid in your right.

you dont need to know anything for sure. the fact that girls make your heart go thwump thwump or that you think about them a lot or you want to be held in a girl’s arms is enough. definitions are fun, but defining who you are is a journey. just be. 

happy pride month to every closeted wlw. for whatever reason, you are so valid. you belong in this community just as much as anyone else. i hope one day you are in place where you can safely and openly be who you are. here’s to you.