girl without body

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“Fleur Delacour, whose whole narrative is wrapped up in her physical beauty until the point where she stands up and says hey, it’s not. Fleur Delacour, the Beauxbaxton’s champion, Fleur Delacour who stands with the Order, Fleur Delacour who loves and fights with fierce devotion […] How is this someone to hate?” (x

im so doped from the dentist 

im body rolling to every song

and trying to “rap”

I feel so weirdly shaped now I kinda miss being big but that’s mainly because I lost all my muscle mass when I took 3 months of soooo we’ll see how I feel when I put it back on (80kg in May / 76kg in September)

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My whole life I’ve been nervous about swimsuits because of my body shape, my scars, my everything, I kind of can’t believe I’m posting this here! Reality is though there’s no such thing as a specific “bikini body” . Everyone deserves to be comfortable in a bathing suit everyone deserves the right to enjoy the pool and enjoy the sun if they want to.

When people mock Skai Jackson or Rihanna for not having a “black girl’s body,” it’s misogynoir. It’s not skinny shaming. It’s also people hmphing at the fact they can’t fetishize those two females (one is a girl and the other is a woman) like they want to. Most black men who bitch about fourteen year old Skai’s body are saying, “She’s dark-skinned and black, so she SHOULD have curves and a big booty.” They’re sexualizing her and saying that’s the only thing they find attractive about girls like her. Without a body people can fetishize, exotify and hypersexualize, they find her utterly useless. It’s not about whether they find her desirable or not. It’s rather they can get use out of her as a dark-skinned girl. They’re literally pissed they CAN’T fetishize her body if she did have wide hips, a large butt and curves.

 Rihanna is a black woman who is known for her opened sexuality. However, she does not have a “big booty” the way people expect her to have. So it’s not saying, “Wow, big butts are the standard of beauty. All black girls should have it.” It’s, “If you’re going to be black and/or dark-skinned, at least have something I find sexually appeasing to me or else you’re useless.” Do you really want to be objectified that way? It’s not desirability or value when most men demand black women to have “curves” and an “ass.” It’s saying, “Have a body I can use for my own pleasure.” They don’t say that to other women because they find everything about them attractive for the most part. White and non-black women don’t need to have “curves” or a “big ol’ booty” because they don’t need incentives to be seen as beautiful or desirable like black women. As FedUpBlackWoman said, how can you claim to know your history about black womanhood when one of the main scrutiny we get as black women is how large our bodies are compare to white women. Sarah Baartman? 

“The head trip fantasies were a bit like a trophy. You know, the head is where everything is at, the brain, the eyes, mouth. That’s the person. I remember being told as a kid, you cut off the head and the body dies. The body is nothing after the head is cut off. Well, that’s not quite true. With a girl, there is a lot left in the girl’s body without the head. Of course the personality is gone.

Edmund Kemper reflecting on the post-mortem mutilation on his female victims, which became one of the most memorable parts of Eds modus operandi. A typical example of depersonalization often found in hedonistic motives of murder.

Kemper later picked this up again, elaborating, that the loss of his pet chicken, which heads had been chopped off in front of his eyes, might have had a psychological impact on him, leading to the way he mutilated his victims.

“You know the head’s where everything is at, the brain, eyes, mouth. That’s the person. I remember being told as a kid, you cut off the head and the body dies. The body is nothing after the head is cut off.. well that’s not quite true. With a girl, there’s a lot left in the girl’s body without a head” -Edmund Kemper, also known as the “Co-ed Killer”

overhearing boys talk about how cute/beautiful girls are without sexualizing their bodies is my favorite thing in the world and it makes me wanna kiss all of their noses