girl wearing t shirt

because i love when things pass through the fandom

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  1. Nicknames:
  2.  Fishy or Fish… its my last name and my friends hate me? 
  3. Star sign:
  4.  Pisces
  5. Height:
  6.  5′9
  7. Time right now:
  8.  4:01 pm(holy crow, where’d my day go?)
  9. Last thing you googled: 390-77  ??? 
  10. Fave music artist: These are always hard because I never pay attention to who is preforming. I like Adele and Taylor Swift. That one band that does that one song?? 
  11. Song stuck in my head: Gilmore Girls theme song. 
  12. Last movie I watched: Secrete life of Pets?? 
  13. Last tv show I watched: Gilmore Girls
  14. What I’m wearing right now: Pj bottoms and a sleeveless t-shirt
  15. When I created this blog: This is my main blog, I don’t know why I didn’t just make a new one… but yeah, about 4 years I think. 
  16. The kind of stuff I post: Mainly twilight, I have an equestrian blog also. 
  17. Do I get asks regularly?: its picking up which is odd to me. 
  18. Why did I choose my url: I’m fond of contradictions but I also try and be extrememly optimistic about things. 
  19. Gender: Female
  20. Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff
  21. Pokémon team: Mystic??? I honestly don’t know. 
  22. Favorite color: Lavender and Light Teal
  23. Average hours of sleep: 6
  24. Lucky number: 13
  25. Favorite characters: Esme Cullen, Rosalie Hale, Hermione Granger, Natasha Romanova, Lorelia Gilmore, I could go on forever. 
  26. Dream job: Anything with animals. 
  27. Number of blankets I sleep with: 2; one as an actual blanket, the other as a pillow. l

tagging: @lips-last-breath @rcsalie-hale @janevolturi @jakeblck  @alilaro  + anyone else who wants to do this!

Borderline and astrology

Borderline personality is a condition of pain. There is a clinical list of symptoms that validate diagnoses, but I am not a specialist on personality disorders. I am not going to go into these. I first learned about Borderline personality as a nursing student studying mental health. Their emotional reactivity is extreme. I like to think of it as, imagine 4 girl friends walking down the street. The weather is cold, it’s snowing and windy. Three of the girls are wearing warm jumpers, scarves, and weather resistant clothing. The fourth girl is wearing shorts and a t shirt. They are all experiencing the same degree of coldness and temperature. But the fourth girl is absolutely freezing, she not just cold, she is purely uncomfortable and shaking viciously, all her fingertips are burning. The fourth girl is expressing the Borderline’s severe experience of emotional storms. It’s like they truly lack the protective clothing. They are vulnerable, exposed, and feel deeply. One aspect of the Borderline personality quality I want to focus on, and relate to astrology is that of a distorted self image, identity diffusion, and a disturbed sense of identity. Intense projection seems to be a problematic attribute of Borderline. This lack of self seems to result in substance abusing behaviors to fill some of the emptiness, to try and hold onto something real, constant shifts in vocational aspirations and goals, this prevailing sense of worthlessness. They have trouble ascertaining who they are, what they want, what they like, and where they want to go. This is where astrology can become an effective tool. Can astrology cure Borderline personality? No way. It is typically a manifestation of PTSD, and best treated in the hands of professionals. I do believe though, that astrology is capable of relieving some of the suffering and giving a clear definition of inner potential. The astrological chart suggests our archetypal qualities and potential. It gives an untainted description of attributes that exist within us, inherited at birth. These have not been blemished by their self image, or maybe the abuses they have received from others. It can give people with Borderline personality a framework of characteristics they can found their identity on. They are no longer gliding in the ether, hollow, chameleon and reflecting the traits of others. And people leaving may not feel so deadly, because they have bloomed a portrait of the self, a definition, they can stand alone. Maybe they will learn that their natal Venus in Aquarius is a personality that feels quite distant from others to begin with, and they associate with this, they connect astrology with qualities within themselves. And that Venus in Aquarius, once grounded, revels in its independence. Or that sixth house stellium guides that person to a career in nursing, when he felt so conflicted and confused, astrology provided an outline of his talents and skills, his calling, and he was able to define a future. The emptiness a Borderline feels can be filled by that contemplating reverence they conceive as stars pour into them, they have been divinely crafted, there are constellations that entangle them, they are the descendent of Gods and Goddesses. They are souls expressing as Leos or Scorpios or whatever. I know that people with Borderline personality can feel so hollow and diffuse that they are relieved to hear a Borderline diagnosis because iit provides a stable outline of who they are. And the clinical picture of Borderline personality is not so wonderful. And I think, wouldn’t being able to find yourself through the positive qualities illuminated by astrology provide so much more comfort, guidance, and beneficial reference? Instead of being a pathology, you are a progeny. There is nothing profoundly evil or bad about them. Rather than feeling as though they lack an identity, they just float, they can look into the night sky and see themselves.  At it’s most sacred essence, astrology is compatibility with the self, the stories of the stars are stories of you, and you can fall in love with yourself. I am not an expert on Borderline personality. I do not know that much.Astrology is by no means a remedy nor a therapy. But it can provide a definition of the self in a way nothing else can, and for those who feel so vacant, for those who are searching for an identity, no anchor could be so pure as the cosmos.

Here is what little girls are being taught at school:

How to treat their bodies as a thing of shame. 
How it is an instrument of distraction.
How boys can’t resist the slightest sight of their skin without turning into animals.
How boys bear no responsibility in their conduct towards girls dressed a certain way.
How their education is an obligation, and boys need to be given more consideration.
How testosterone is impossible to keep in check and therefore they must act as the wardens of their bodies.
How a girl’s sex is a prison created at birth.
How it doesn’t matter how intelligent they are, or how kind, or how talented, or how brave.

All little girls are taught from an early age that if they wear a short skirt,or a sleeveless shirt, then they deserve to have their right to an education taken away.

—  What Little Girls are Taught at School | Nikita Gill

if you see a girl wearing a really cute t-shirt go and tell them it’s cute. if you see a girl with amazing make up go and compliment them. litErally even if you notice a girl has done her hair differently or worn something new go and compliment the shit out of them because there’s enough hate against girls right now and we should all try to make each other smile and we all need to stick together.

I got tagged by @betterthanthesebrokenparts, who is a darling, and @theflatwoodsmonsterisalesbian, who is also quite lovely.

rules: answer the questions and tag 20 (or less… or none… or… all?) blogs you want to get to know better!

nickname: Muscles (at work)
star sign: Leo
height:  6′
time right now: 1:49 AM (as I fill this out; most likely it’ll be queued for like 2 PM)
last thing i googled: “the jabberwocky”. I’ve memorized the poem, but I can never spell any of it properly.
fave music artist:  I’ve been listening to a lot of Caro Emerald lately.
song stuck in my head: London by Benjamin Clementine
last movie i watched: Hidden Figures
last TV show i watched: Powerpuff Girls classic
what i’m wearing right now: a T-shirt from a big Pokemon Go meetup that happened last summer. Good times.
when i created this blog: According to my archives, July 2016
the kind of stuff i post: Mostly Penumbra Podcast fanfiction and meta-analysis, sprinkled with random observations and rants.
do i get asks regularly: Daily. Which is really nice. My followers are absolute darlings.
why did i choose my url: I think it was part of a URL for a google document? or me misreading a sign or something? It was specifically chosen to be absolute gibberish, but it’s grown on me.
gender: Androgynous, but more feminine than anything else
hogwarts house: Gryffindor
pokemon team: Valor
favorite color: Red
lucky number: 33
favorite characters: Pretty much any female character who can be accurately described as a lioness is probably going to get my eternal love and admiration (Garnet from SU, Laia from An Ember in the Ashes, Olivia Dunham from Fringe, Angua, Mary from Hidden Figures); any servant-ish character who will fucking rip your eyes out if you hurt the person they take care of (Samwise Gamgee, Mr. Carson from Downton Abbey, Miss Pross from A Tale of Two Cities, Willikins from Discworld), and any male character who is a grizzled badass who thinks his adopted child is the sun and stars (Jean Valjean, Uncle Iroh, Sam Vimes, Agent Coulson). Basically, I love the kinds of people who go from demure to murder and back without batting an eye.
dream job: I used to dream of being a marine biologist
number of blankets i sleep with: Two. One of them may or may not be stolen from my partner
followers: I just hit 300 exactly

@tane-p, @ryosei-hime, @fortheloveandsanityofbuckybarnes, @kittydesade, @wendy-comet, @dangersocks, @oldandnewfirm

Tagged by @queenoferebor1204 with the lovely obsession with Richard Armitage <3 ~_o

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Nicknames: HAHAHAHAHAH. No.

Star Sign: Scorpion!!

Height: 5′ 4″

Time right now: 1:11 am

Last thing I Googled: I have no idea…probably something work related

Favorite music artist: Like of all time? Uh… I don’t know… J, I suppose… Been listening to him for more than a decade.

Song stuck in my head: Shape Of You, Ed Shereen (sp?)

Last movie I watched: Two Weeks Notice!! :D

Last TV show I watched: Does the Netflix Gilmore Girls count?

What am I wearing right now: A Captain Mal t-shirt 

When I created this blog: Fuck if I know…

The kind of stuff I post: a lot of silly stuff. some political. sometimes it’s important.

Why I chose my url: Because I’m an idiot. :D  

Gender: Female.

Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff

Pokémon team: INSTINCT

Favorite Color: Blue

Average hours of sleep: Not enough

Lucky number: 7

Favorite characters: Sandor Clegane, Giroro, Gambit, Rogue, Sailor Jupiter

Dream Job:  Being a paid writer

Number of blankets I sleep with: Depends, but no more than 2 usually.

Dream fictional character that you would want to be: Kalinda Woods

One Interesting Fact About You: I used to be terrified of dogs. Now I can’t imagine life without my favorite schnoodle.

I now tag: @momolady @asbestosmouth @sassyeggs74 @devilsbastion @almostabeauty @azraelgfg and anyone else who wants to, blame me for tagging you.

anonymous asked:

the weird thing about being bisexual is finding things girls do attractive without feeling self-centered (?) like i really think i look good in oversize t-shirt and no pants but i also want to be with a girl who wears oversize t-shirts and no pants ? you know?

YES, oh my god yes i live for cute girls in oversized t-shirts and no pants and messy hair after waking up i just….. i need a girlfriend. 

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Tagged by @shinysherlock.  :)

  • Nickname: Jimmy. the Strange one.
  • Sign: Gemini
  • Favorite Music Artist: The Beatles. Pink Floyd. Radiohead. Bright Eyes. Arcade Fire. Frank Sinatra, 
  • Last TV Show You Watched: The X-Files.
  • Last Movie You Saw in the Theater: Hidden Figures
  • What Are You Wearing Right Now: Rat City Roller Girls Hitditch Cup t-shirt under a black watch tartan button up and er, pants (it was warm when M I got back inside *shrug*)
  • What Do You Post: Sherlock and whatever else I like.
  • Do You Have Any Other Blogs: not that I maintain regularly.
  • Why Did You Choose Your URL: ‘strange’ suits me + BBC Sherlock = strangelock.
  • Do You Get Asks Regularly: Nope.
  • Hogwarts House: Ravenclaw 
  • Patronus: Pit Bull.
  • Pokémon Team: ????
  • Favorite Color: Charcoal Gray.
  • Favorite Characters: Sherlock Holmes, John Watson, Mycroft Holmes, Eurus Holmes, Wednesday Addams, Spock, Erik Lehnsherr, Lizbeth Salander, Mommy Fortuna, Natasha Rominov, Parker, Hannibal, Scully, BB-8, Jarvis, Enoch (otgw), 
  • Hobbies/crafts? Long walks with my dog listening to audiobooks.
  • Collect anything? I used to collect business cards. 
  • Current challenges you face? Not a good idea to enumerate those right now. 
  • Things you’re looking forward to? Reading more Ghosts of Sherwood, The Ghost and Dr. WatsonCaptive Hearts, and anything Jude feels like writing. Surviving Lord Dampnut’s administration. Becoming an immortal incorporeal being capable to knowing all the things I can’t know now.
  • Anything you want to promote? Pet ownership. Critical thinking. Logic. Science. Sleep. Ginger beer. 
  • Anything else you’d like to share? … … I’m realizing that I may now have a concept of schadenfreude because it’s attached itself to my rather healthy appreciation of revenge (karmic, cosmic, bloody, etc.). M informs me it is time to go for a walk.  

@pyrocatz, @baskinglizard, @sincerely-chaos, @pennypaperbrain, @synteis, @thetimemoves, @goblinhorde, @saathi1013, @stitchybutton, @significanceofmoths, @teaforlupin, @mydaroga

Tagged by: @fuckyoujroth and @femininenachos

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Nicknames: Meg, Irish

Star sign: Leo

Height: 5'9"

Time right now: 1430 hours CST

Last thing you googled: Probably some slang words definition

Fave music artist: It changes but overall probably Evanescence

Song stuck in my head: Blood in the Cut and I am not sure why.

Last movie I watched: Star Wars Rogue One

Last tv show I watched: Supergirl or maybe Two Broke Girls.

What I’m wearing right now: Cubs T-shirt, Blackhawks Sweatshirt and flannel pajama pants

When I created this blog: About a year ago, probably to show off the cards I made at the time.

The kind of stuff I post: Clexa stuff, cards, sexual assault awareness, Clexa fic recommendations, social justice and other random stuff.

Do I get asks regularly?: No, but when I do it is on my views of Bellamy and Lexa. Not as a couple just for the record.

Why did I choose my url: It was my old aim screen name.

Gender: Female.

Hogwarts House: Ravenclaw and that’s is according to Pottermore

Pokémon team: Pokemon has teams? I don’t know I don’t like Pokemon.

Favorite colour: Purple or as my art teacher would say Violet because purple is a made up word by Crayola

Average hours of sleep: 5-7

Lucky number: Don’t have one.

Favourite characters: Lexa and Clarke (The 1OO), Kate Austen (LOST), Piper (Charmed), Kahlan Amnell (The Sword of Truth book series and Legend of the Seeker tv show), Sarah (Chuck), Kenzi (NCIS: LA), Richard Castle (Castle) also Kate Beckett (Castle), Kensi (Lost Girl), Rogue (Marvel), Katniss Everdeen (Hunger Games movie and books), Hermione Granger and Ginny Weasley (Harry Potter movies and books) Sydney Bristow (Alias). I am sure there is more.

Dream job: Working with at risk youth, creating an at risk youth center. I have what I want all planned out. I also want to work with foster kids.

Number of blankets I sleep with: 2 with a top sheet though they are usually just covering my legs.

Tag 20 blogs you want to get to know better: Yeah. No, how about 12 instead. @iqueenslayer @laddyqueen @effortlessly-opulent @clexamcnugget @danaryas @k17l53 @jlaw1105 @almavivadreams @jojo2chen @purpletuallyconfused @batwlwoman @biclexualwonders



• NAME. Timmy Turner
• ANIMAL.  Tortoise
• BOYS NAME.   Tommy
• GIRLS NAME.   Timantha  Tiffany
• COLOR.  Teal
• MOVIE.  Terminator 
• DRINK.   Tea(rs)
• FOOD.   Tacos
• PLACE.   Tibecuador Tibet
• REASON FOR BEING LATE. Time isn’t real

TAGGED BY: @tea-and-hexes

TAGGING: @envydriven @teenghcst @jakeitude @cigarlips @gcninja and anyone who can whistle 

anonymous asked:

I know norman gets bored at airports and goes sm crazy, I really wish he would think before liking some fan girls photos especially the young ones who wear nothing just a Daryl t shirt and state its to get his attention. It did he liked three photos of her all just wearing a t shirt. Sorry it just comes across as real sleazy, I know he loves his fans but at his age and as a father he should know better, just so wrong he should stay clear of fans that do this because its encouraging them

I guess he can’t please everyone.