So I've been identifying as biromantic asexual. I was in love with one boy before, and I have a crush on a girl now. Also, when I was younger all the boys I "chose" to like were feminine and turned out to be gay so idk if that's a sign but I never felt attracted to guys in general...just that one close former friend. I feel so much happier about the girl and it feels like wow this is what I was missing. That's why idk if I'm still bi or not like I prob am but I need some help.
It could be comp het that you only “chose” (that word itself is an indicator, too) to like guys that seemed feminine and are now gay … since you don’t choose your crushes, they just happen.
“I feel so much happier about the girl and it feels like wow this is what I was missing.” - that sounds so nice, I’m so happy for you!!
Figuring out if you are actually attracted to guys is super complicated but you don’t have to be sure to identify as anything. You also don’t have to include past crushes in your current label if you don’t want to.
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Being a lesbian is valid, being bi is valid, too. It’s your choice.
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I wish you the best :)