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Young girls in fandom (especially “fujoshi” ew) need to understand that being “obsessed” with gay men, having a ton of men loving men ships, calling us “sin” and seeing us as nothing but “HAWT YAOI” is not at all supporting gay relationships and is in fact an act of homophobia.

You are fetishising our love as if it were taboo and degrading us down to your oversexualised fantasies of us. We are not your kink or your guilty pleasure. It really needs to be addressed early on before it becomes a case of “um shut up im an adult woman and I can’t choose my sexuality as much as you can’t for being gay :)”.

Yes, this goes for men fetishising gay women too.

Peterick vs Ryden #52
  • Pete: idk man, i kinda feel like you’re ignoring me
  • Patrick: aw babe, im sorry. i know we’ve been a little distant but i love you more than anything
  • vs
  • Ryan: idk man, i kinda feel like you’re ignoring me
  • Brendon: read at 9:45pm
  • Ryan: … this is a verbal conversation
people in bandoms who need to stop:

-people who harass jenna

-people who harass sarah

-people who harass elisa

-people who harass meagan

-people who harass debby

-people who harass bandom wives/children in general

-people who harass a band member about leaving a band

-people who harass a band member about a running joke in the bandom that’s clearly uncomfortable for them (*cough* fucking milk fic people *cough*)

-people who constantly harass/insult brendon (seriously where is the joke)

-people who push bandom members about ships

-people who push patrick about his weight

-people who keep commenting “DADDY😍❤️” on band members’ instas (leave that for ao3)

-people who say joe and andy aren’t important

-people who force ships onto others

-people who ignore ty and josh’s heritage and/or mental illnesses, calling ty a “neurotypical” or “ableist”

Originally posted by p0k3mast3r53