But yeah someone else mentioned it but essentially telling systems of color that there is absolutely nothing you can do about your headmates/alters being people of color is the height of privilege and kind of forcing lots of emotional labor on to the systems of color. There is always something you can do. Even if you can’t change how your system members look. You can do everything else to distance yourself from the identity and you must. You can change names to non-race-specific names, you can be open about your acual race, you can remind yourself that you are not that race. Don’t do nothing. Yes it takes work but being anti-racist always takes work. It’s not on us to just accept it and it’s also not on us to take you by the hand and explain to all of you why identifying as a race you aren’t is bad and essentially you stealing our identities.