“[Jon Snow]’s incredibly introverted. It’s like if anyone in Game of Thrones didn’t want to be on the show Game of Thrones, it’d be Jon Snow. If he could see the cameras, he wouldn’t want them there. He lives in his head.” ~ Kit Harington (Mr. Porter 2015)
I would say that Jake started the wife list, but while it may have been the first to qualify (technically), I didn’t start recruiting a harem under that particular premise until… After Vriska came along, I believe.