-Offer to give them your resources: food, money, time, anything like that– cook them dinner, offer to pay for things, look after their immediate needs so they can be better equipped to solve their problem, give them advice on managing their life in other areas to make their current problems less stressful: sp
-try to figure out what they need emotionally or mentally and help them get it or give it to them, or just let them use you as a support system and make sure they know you’re there for them: sx
-don’t know/don’t care/what friends?/what I would do for everyone in that situation, ask others for help, look to norms about what to do/panic because you have no idea: so
Mikor azt mondtad szereted a hangom mert olyan megnyugtato…😍
Hogy szereted ahogy beszelek💖
Hogy nagyon csinos vagyok😊
Hogy jol all ez a nadrag😱😍
Hogy ma nagyon jol nezek ki😙
Mikor azt irtad akkor is jol nezek ki mikor csunya vagyok😂😍
Mikor szepsegemnek hivtal😍😍😍
Mikor kepet kertel tolem😄
Mikor eloszor kertel talalkozot😇😍💕
Mikor megkerdezted hogy leszek e a baratnod💕💕💕
Es mikor en elbasztam mindent😠😭😭😭
I read somewhere that an sx/sp would value painful experiences even if it hurt. Like even though it sucked, it's made me who I am kinda thing. Do you find this to be true?
From what I know of sx/sp, it seems to be so.
in regards to relationships with others (since that’s the main concern of sx):
Sx is the variant that values intensity, especially interpersonal right? That includes shitty experiences. “It was a tough situation, but our friendship/relationship grew from it” is a very sx/sp thing to say.
The “it sucked, but” comes from the secondary sp. sx/so might WANT to think it has that thought, but it doesn’t. Sx/so generally values all experiences with people to some degree or another, the secondary sp of sx/sp is forthright in acknowledging that an experience was negative even if “valuable” on another level.
Contrast sp/sx which would be “that experience sucked, nothing was learned/I already knew what this conflict brought to the forefront, and don’t fucking do that again.” Getting closer to someone through tough experiences is seen as pointless/a waste of time (dom sp).
Sx blinds don’t even really seem to consider and/or understand the concept of “getting closer” in general, or conversely, see it as pointless. As much as some of them would like to.
Mi van akkor ha te csak fogadasbol irogatsz nekem?
Nem az nem lehet..te nem olyan vagy..
Bar eleg fura hogy pont most irsz mikor hirtelen minden haverod becsajozott..
De nem!! Te nem olyan vagy.. mert ha belegondolok csak nem vettem eszre a kis jeleket
Komolyan gondolod es akkor en tenyleg kocsog vagyok