Just a moment ago, Jungkook started a Live on Vapp. Let’s remember that he just got off his concert. He wanted to talk to ARMY while eating, and it was the cutest, sweetest thing I have ever seen :D
BUT… during this live, I noticed some stuff that got me pissed.
1. Asking Jungkook to speak english.
And when I say ‘asking’ I mean constantly, in the comments, telling him to speak english. Some people were asking but most of them were just saying ‘english, english’. (Like, ever heard of ‘please’ for a start? Huh?) Why?! Don’t do that, please. Just because he surprised us, while they were in the US, with an english chat on Vapp, doesn’t mean he’s going to do it every time, it doesn’t mean that he’s more comfortable with english now, and it certainly doesn’t mean that we can (not so politely) ask him to do it every time from now on. Don’t get me wrong, I would love to see all of them speak english in their lives, but if they don’t feel like it, than it’s fine. Even if I only understand 1/100 word he says, it’s ok because I’m still glad that he came to us. Even if you don’t understand what he’s saying, you still get to see that he seems to be good, obviously eating well and he seems happy. Even if you don’t understand what he’s saying, you can still apreciate the delicious sound of his voice. In my case, it’s already enough to give me a smile and warmth in my heart. And I don’t understand this type of fans that are constantly asking for idols to speak english. I mean, you stan korean groups, obviously they don’t (all) speak english, and you know it! If you’re so tired of not understanding korean, than learn it, at least some words, and in the mean time, be patient, they always get translations for their videos.
2. Asking about other members.
That’s just rude, guys. I know we all have our bias in mind and at heart and I know that not everybody loves the whole 7 of them. But, come on! Imagine yourself in his shoes (or any of them really, because it happens every f*cking time). You’re on the phone with your friend, you just want to talk about something amazing you just lived or witnessed and in the middle of what you’re saying, your friend ask you where your other mutual friend is and/or what they’re doing and if they’re ok. How would that make you feel? Certainly not apreciated. I’m not saying Jungkook has insecurities, because how the hell could I know? I don’t know him. But even if you’re one strong confident person, it’s never nice to feel negleted and
underappreciated. So, please, if you don’t care about him or what he’s saying, just don’t comment.
3. Bringing ships in the comments.
Yeah, ships. Let’s not lie here, we all love ships and every interaction they may have with each other is a bliss to us all. But talking about them in the comments like what I saw earlier, it’s not ok. I know, they know we all ship them together, it’s part of the kpop industry and fanservice, and 99% of the time it’s fun and innocent and they also play that card with us on some occasions. But barging in the comments, practically yelling ship names at them
repeatedly, that’s a no no. Mostly because it crosses with what I said in point 2, but also because that can make them feel uncomfortable. Obviously they don’t respond to those comments, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t see them. Don’t we all want them to feel happy and good in their lives? I believe we do.
I don’t even know why this time I let the comments on screen… but I wish I didn’t.
Thank you for reading :) Reblog, like or comment if you like, honestly I just needed to let it out.