getting-asked-to-prom

anonymous asked:

Hi, I'm crush guy. Where do I start..... She is the most caring, loving, and helpful person I know. She can sing absolutely beautifully. Every time I see her smile at me, it makes my day. Every time I see her and she's not smiling, it destroys me. I've had a crush on her for two years, but never asked her out because I get really shy around her. I actually asked her to prom this's year, but she had to work makeup for a musical. Oh, she was amazing in the school musical this year. Cont...

Cont… I text her constantly and she is always friendly with me. She sends me texts full of smiley faces and winks. The thing is, I don’t know if she likes me, but its too late to find out. She’s graduating this Friday and I’ll never see her again. And honestly, that breaks my heart. But I guess I waited too long. Thanks for listening to me ramble about her!

I’m sorry that you won’t be able to see her again.  I know it can be really hard to get over a crush, but it seems like at the very least you understand that it wasn’t meant to be.  It’s good that the two of you were friendly, I’m glad that you were able to be happy around her.  Hard as it is, it sounds like you’ve got a good mindset about it and understand that it might not have been meant to be.  I hope you find someone that you feel this way about again soon, and that they feel the same way about you <3

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Best way to ask a girl to prom ever (by brochesis)

this is how i wanna get asked to prom 

Soo, I arrive home from youth group today, and notice that there’s a pizza guy outside my house, waiting in his car, just chilling. Puzzled and a bit freaked, I get outside of my car and he as well gets out of his. Get this, it’s 9pm at night (I DON’T eat past 8pm!! which is why I was like…“this has got to be a joke.”) He starts walking towards me and says, “Hey, I have an order for Brizzy.” (ME) And at this point, I’m getting a little flustered. He then says, “It’s already payed for! Also, make sure to check the bottom–there’s a note!” He gives me the box, he leaves, and I go inside and open the pizza box to find this inside… I don’t even know what to say?! How creative though!!! My best guy friend is the absolute best; he really put some thought process into this. I am forever grateful and thankful! :D I can’t wait to spend my night with him, Prom 2012 will be a blast!!!

I got asked to prom today(:

My best friend and I were nominated for the award “Should have been a couple”, and ended up winning!  When we went up to receive out awards, the MC’s started going on this rant about how this award was a big deal.  Then out of no where, this guy comes running up with flowers, and gives them to my best friend.  Then he asked me to prom(:

It's Always The Hardest Choices That Come At The Worst Times

So tomorrow is the last day to buy junior prom tickets… which means I need a date by 12:30 tomorrow. Today I did some brainstorming: a guy (socalledbeast, I think I’ve called him previously - we’ve been hanging out recently) is trying to set me up for prom with this REALLY hot guy (he’s nice too!) because neither of us has dates. But if he doesn’t ask me, I’m going to ask flirtyboy. And if he says no, I have a few other choices. But flirtyboy and I videochatted for hours after school today, and I’m starting to like him more (as a friend, mostly.. but he is really cute and REALLY talented!).

As I was settling in to watch tv, pleased with my plans for picking a date tomorrow, shyboy texted me (of course).

Him: Hey, can we talk?

Me: Sure….

Him: Lol if you don’t want to you don’t have to.

Me: No it’s fine, I just wasn’t expecting this. I’ll try not to be bitchy tho!

Him: Ok. Well, I just wanted to clear things up. I admit it was a mistake what I did last week. But I really meant to give you the note so that you would read it.

Me: Read it? I wrote it…

Him: I know. You wrote it on Valentine’s Day. I just wanted to know what changed in those following two weeks that changed everything.

Me: Yeah. I think everything just kind of came apart around then, and I tend to pull away from those I care about when I feel like I need to concentrate on myself. Which isn’t ideal, but that’s how I am.

Him: Well I knew there were other reasons than the ones you gave me.

Me: How could you assume that? I’m not lying to you.

Him: I never said you were lying. I just know I could’ve done things better.

Me: Define “better.”

Him: Better meaning: Complimenting you when you change something like your hair. Giving you unexpected surprises like you did with me (in a good way). Talking more and not having awkward pauses or anything because I’m shy. There’s a lot I should’ve done better.

Me: Those things aren’t absolutely needed in a relationship. Maybe the shyness, but everything else was fine. It really wasn’t about you, and I know you don’t believe me but it doesn’t matter because I know my reasons.

Him: Alright. Well, I don’t know where to go from here then.

Me: Neither do I. Which is why I thought we ended this last time we talked. Idk.

Him: Well I think we’re done now.

Me: Fine. Can we be civil now? It wasn’t that bad on Friday.

Him: Well it’s a little easier for you than it is for me. The problem is whenever you’re not around I hang with all of your friends.

Me: I know that. But we all hung out on Friday and it wasn’t too bad.

Him: Ok. Well I just don’t think you get that I still have feelings for you, and that I’m trying to push away and hanging out with you does not help.

Me: I get it because I feel the same way, I’d just prefer if we were able to be normal. But whatever, if you want to move on it’s fine, we’ll move on.

Him: Lol I don’t want to move on. But when we hang out I remember the winter. And it’s just hard to concentrate on anything. Do you know what I’m saying?

Me: Yeah I understand. But I don’t think it would work to get back together right now. I kind of fucked that up enough and I’m sorry for that.

Him: Explain. Please.

Me: I caused enough drama/emotion/whatever and I’m done messing with your head. I’m just saying it could be good for both of us to move on instead of doing what you said you wanted and getting back together.

Him: We both made it more complicated than it ever had to be. I don’t know what happened. But I guess you’re right.

Me: Yeah. And it was because we hooked up, and clearly we both like each other, and a bunch of other things. But I think now we need to figure ourselves out and move on and figure out what we want out of a relationship instead of jumping right back into one that didn’t turn out so perfectly. Which is hard for me and I’m sure for you too, but I just can’t see us getting back together right now and pretending none of this took place. Because even though all the drama was unnecessary, it still happened.

Him: Alright.

Closure, anyone? I think this is the closest we’ve come to resolving our breakup since the actual breakup. I hope things go back to normal! (..Except I doubt they will).

Baffled and Blonde~

Kian had spent the day getting ready to ask his girlfriend to prom. He went to buy her flowers, because what is a prom proposal without flowers? Kian had no idea what flowers to choose. There were so many different kinds and each kind had so many different colors. “How do people do this?” He asked himself as he finally decided on just going with a simple bouquet of red roses. In his room he set up a bunch of small candles to spell out ‘PROM?’ Kian texted Mel ‘Hey come to my room I want to watch a movie tonight. You can just come in the door’s unlocked.’ He really hoped his text was convincing. Kian kept the lights off in his room as he waited for his girlfriend to walk in. 

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