getting out of your own way

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When They Have a Crush On a New JYP Solo Artist (GOT7)

Requested by a lovely anon <3 (I’m just making you the artist to make it easier)

Feel free to send in requests guys! We do Reactions, Preferences, Fake Texts, and Scenarios! Just tell us who you want, what you want, and how you want it! <3  (MalexFemale, MalexMale, FemalexFemale)

*Don’t own the gifs yo*

Author: Taebaby

JB: He’d keep it smooth and discreet, not wanting to come off too strong. He’d start creepin in on you real slow, trying cement his presence in your life and get you to notice him

JR: He would just extend his ‘mother umbrella’ (the one he smothers the other members with) over you as well. He’d go out of his way to look out for you and give you advice on music or anything else any time you needed it. He might be too shy to come out just say he has feelings for you

YOUNGJAE: He would become a constant in your life before you knew it. He would be your sunshine, cheering you up anytime your were down (like any time) He could be eating, showering, sleeping (maybe even performing) and he’d stop what he was doing to talk to you. He’d just like being there for you

JACKSON: He’d be kinda like Jaebum, but much more obvious. Even when he first meets you he’d act like he’s known you for years. Like you have important performance? He’d be there. You need a partner for WGM? He’d be there. Like he’d pop up so frequently that you’d get used to it. He would just be in your life without question (he would start dropping some heavy hints after a while though)

MARK: I think he’d have more traditional approach to it and just flirt and ask you on a date. He wouldn’t wanna come on too strong but he wouldn’t beat around the bush either. He’d let you know exactly how he feels so there wasn’t any confusion

BAMBAM: You know he’d be extra. Like if he had feelings for you, no doubt he’d just be on you (but like in a cute way)

‘Ay girl you look good today’ 

‘I’m (y/n) number one fan. No, don’t fight me on this.’

‘(y/n) can I marry you’

Expect a lot of that shit.

YUGYEOM: I feel like he’d be the shyer one at first, but then start coming out little by little. He’d prob do something super cute like leave you little anon messages like ‘u look rlly pretty 2day’ or ‘thers some1 who luvs u’

I can see him doing something like that

mountainchiliart  asked:

Why is everyone in Clint Barton's life always giving him a bad time? Like throughout the comic so many characters treat him like he's this horrible person that's doing a disservice to himself when he honestly has not done anything wrong and just wants to have a break and be left alone. He gets slapped for no reason and even you think he's a shitty person. I honestly do not know why, could you fill me up on that please? Thank you so much.

i think you’re allowed to find your own answers and interpretations, and i told you what i thought, it’d ruin the experience somehow – for you, who will think that there is one way to read the thing and one way to feel about it, because i told you my way, and for me, who will miss out on hearing feedback from people like you with fascinating reads of the stuff. 

anonymous asked:

I'm a girl and I've been questioning if I'm bi for quite a while now and I'm just so confused and idk and I think labels aren't important but I also feel like I need that to help me find my place and I just want to cry because I'm so confused and scared because if I am bi I'm terrified of how people will react and I can't sleep at night :( I'm sorry but you're one of my favourite blogs and I have no one to talk about this with really

i went through a pretty similar phase about 2 years ago where the idea of being with a girl really freaked me out (i come from a very conservative town) but. it’s something you’ll learn to cope with and deal with in your own way. i think you should know that it gets easier, but internalized homophobia is a very real thing and it’s really difficult to struggle with, because even if it seems like everyone around you is supporting you it’s a scary transition to go through. my message to you would be that it’s so fucking okay to like girls. girls are so wonderful, accepting, and beautiful, and it makes sense if you like them!!!! girls are so great!!!!! and i think a lot of people would agree w me, and i think u should know that you’ve got me here to support you, and so many other people. i would agree that labels aren’t important, and if you want to really go deeper into it you can go through online guides of all the different kinds of ‘labels’ just to get some knowledge on the topic. Here is a pretty good list of some labels, if you’re interested. Maybe try to tell someone you really trust about what you’re going through? Getting some support from someone who means a lot can go a long way. I love love love you, okay, and it’s okay to cry and be confused and it’s okay to like girls or not  or just want cats. sending u so many good vibes!!!


Okay over the next week or so I’m going to finally get my YouTube channel up and running. I’ve already planned out my first few videos- I want to do one kind of introduction video where I talk about myself (lol), my business, and my plans for my channel, and I want to do a video discussing some helpful tips for opening your own online shop. I get asked that all the time, and so it’s much easier if I have the answer in a video that I can just link people to when they ask. That way they’re getting the full, whole answer. (Because every time I try to type it out, I end up forgetting stuff hahah)

But for the introduction video I’m not so sure what I should say exactly, so I would love it if you all gave me some suggestions and perhaps some questions you’d like me to answer! You can reply to this post or send it to my inbox and I’ll save it.

Thank you everyone; I’m excited to see where this goes!

anonymous asked:

honestly i think it's so adorable when u get really excited and go ham in the tags when people draw you things and i love love your (and kevin's) ocs and styles (*^▽^*) as someone who is struggling with art/finding my own style you're definitely one of the artists I look up to so thanks for that (gah idk how to end this bye)

jgjkddjsj i always get way too excited when someone draws my ocs bc itS JUST SO,, TOUCHING…. to kno that someone liked ur oc so much that they went out of their way to draw them ITS JUST SO SWEET;; and tysm omg!!!! Kev and i always put our ocs in 394290 AUs so its so fun to draw them together heh

IM SO FLATTERED that u look up to me omg whaT😭😭 im still struggling w my art as well bUT I BELIEVE IN U OK!!! keep arting cutie pie!!!💕


“I don’t have enough Star Wars in my room,” she says sadly, testing out the panorama function on her phone. (I was standing on my desk chair.  Also, the Padme, which you can’t really see from the angle of the panorama.)

Yes, I know, Indy’s an outlier; he’s coming down, sadly, so I can put up my TCW ladies.  I’ve actually got two mostly blank walls (one not pictured, along with most of my bookshelves) on which more stuff will also go up, I’ve just gotta get more stuff to hang it up with and decide whether or not to keep my big Narnia poster.

toxic-kitty-cat  asked:

So hey. If anyone hasn't requested it yet, can I get my boi Swerve reacting to human with tattoos?? Especially if it's full sleeves and it just looks super cool. I need more of my husband™

yEES all y'all love the tattoos amiriTE

Swerve (MTMTE)

  • This cutie would be mind. Blown. He’s seen some tattoos on Earthen sitcoms before, but none as impressive as yours. He spends a long time holding your arm and twisting it this way and that, admiring all the beautifully intricate details and patterns and colours… Before dropping it and moving right on over to your other arm, and the cycle begins anew.
  • He likes to trace out the lines with his fingers sometimes if you’ll let him, and he thinks that it’s totally cool that human skin can hold tattoos so well. He jokingly (but also seriously) tells you to consider getting the Autobot insignia tattooed somewhere on your body.
  • Swerve wants tattoos of his own, but doesn’t think he can pull off tattoos as badass as you can. He wants someone to paint designs on him. He considers asking Tailgate, but… If his writing is THAT bad, maybe not. He considers going to Drift, admiring the swordsmech’s designs, or to Ratchet, for the medic’s careful hands.

anonymous asked:

Hey! I want to become a vegan chef and eventually open my open WSLF restaurant one day full of healthy comfort food and baked goods! I'm currently a sophmore in high school and was wondering what the best route for me to go would be? Do you think that college would be the best way for me to go (I don't know what I would even study there- nutrition? But they won't teach it wslf??) what do I do out of high school? Just start the restraunt up?

Forkso Over Knives Online Cooking School & Ecornell plantbased nutrition & get a job in a restaurant asap. Take some classes on Entrepreneurship & law at the community college while working in a restaurant. some schools have restaurant management degrees, but nothing beats experience doing the actual work. you can start catering, or rent a food cart & work your way up to opening your own place.

listen to your customer. I watch so many vegan restaurants go belly up run on passion vs customer.

butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway replied to your post “PSA”

Honestly, thank you for being so publicly open about your feelings for this stuff despite the reactions you get. It makes me feel a lot safer and lets me choose when and where to address my own opinions on survivor stuff which I’ve never been able to do before.

Yeah, this is part of the reason why I don’t just shut up, sit down and reblog any remotely controversial opinion I might have to a sideblog whose URL I give out only to trusted friends. The other part is that I’m just very stubborn and prone to going the way of Mount Vesuvius when I’m being accused of shit I’m not guilty of or when I’m being condescended to or having my actions dictated to me by people with whose politics I fundamentally don’t agree with. 

Honestly, I think Tumblr and its ‘survivors should look and act as Y and like X and dislike Z, in order to be legitimate and valid / them dealing with their issues to be legitimate and valid’ spiel has done a great deal of harm. I see it every single time someone comes to me in confidence and tells me that they’re afraid to make the fanworks that brought them enjoyment and helped them deal with their demons for so long, for fear of an abusive mob coming down on their heads. It’s completely unbelievable and it really exposes the whole ‘we care about survivors’ lie. Particularly when you’ve got survivors like me, who pointedly say that we don’t give a single withering damn if someone is, for example, writing darkfic in order to cope… or just because they bloody like writing darkfic, as long as the things going on in there aren’t presented as some ~ideal romance~ or whatever else along those veins. You’d expect that to not be a controversial opinion, among a crowd that specifically bills itself as being against the romanticization of harmful tropes, but the shouting starts very quickly once they get even a whiff of a ‘non-survivor’ involved. Or even an ‘improper survivor’ such as myself.   

Why do you let them make you hate feminists?

Think of the WORST possible stereotypes that have been foisted upon Feminists (extremists, misandrists, militant and rigid women who believe in your inherent value). And then remember that those women are fighting to make sure you can breast feed your baby, and not get raped, and not get beaten up by your shitty fucking boyfriend (and find a way out of that abusive relationship without judgment that you were in it to begin with and without guilt over having stayed too long), and wear whatever kind of bathing suit you want, and not spend your entire fucking life feeling bad about your own body, and have the freedom to get an abortion and do whatever the fuck else you feel like with your own body (as if the idea that your body belonged to you alone wasn’t a revolutionary idea), and not lose out on a promotion because your boss said your ass looked good, and not have to be afraid at night when you’ve got headphones in (girl you better have your keys in your hand if you’re going to do that), and not let that guy pressure you to blow him, and jesus I mean we still have to have videos that teach men about consent WE STILL HAVE TO TEACH MEN ABOUT WHAT CONSENT MEANS and ask yourself why the fuck aren’t you standing up for these heroic women? How could you be anything other than in awe of their bravery and their sacrifice and the fact that they’re willing to use their bodies and their souls (which btw are definitely taking a beaten out there) and their entire goddamn lives to make the world a better place for you? I don’t know, I mean if you’ve got the time or whatever.

not to sound kind of weird and petty but i see photos from these ~established~ photography blogs that are really not that great but they have a heap of notes anyway so what i’m getting to is please support your local @surr0unds aka my own photography blog which isn’t great either but it’s at least about as not great as some of the other not great photography blogs out there, and all my recent travel photos are on their way into the queue, so it’s going to get good again!

alienwxtch  asked:

i want to start pendulum reading, but i don't have the money to buy one. is there a way i can make one? also how would i get started? thank you in advance !!

You can for sure make your own! I always found there is more of a connection if you make your own. You can use anything to make a pendulum. A stone on a chain or thread. Needle and thread. Crystal and chain. A necklace. Anything really!

To get started you need to “Program” your pendulum and figure out which way is yes and which way is no. Lots of people tend to make little boards or fabrics that are written which way is yes and no. You hold the pendulum by the chain or string between two fingers. You ask a question and see which way it swings. To program ask a question about yourself that you know is a yes answer. Then ask a question you know is a no answer. Figure out which way it swings that is a yes answer and which way it swings that is a no answer. Sometimes this can take awhile to program so be prepared for a little frustration. Also, you can have more than just yes or no. You can have maybe, I don’t know, or anything you like in there!

Treat your pendulum well, goodluck and blessed be!

9 Little Ways To Make Life Easier For Your Server

1. When your server arrives, give them your attention!

2. Remember your order! This may seem simple, but when the food comes out, it’ll help tremendously if you’re watching for it.

3. …and then create a spot for the incoming plate.

4. Remember if there’s a problem with the food, your server did not make your food!

But your server is your only hope of getting your order corrected; being kind to them is in your own best interest.

5. After you finish, make your table easier to bus by placing your silverware on your plate.

6. Remember your server is a real human who is responsible for multiple tables.

7. Don’t touch your server!

8. Do say, “Thank you!”

9. And finally… leave the pen.

Seriously. Don’t take the pen. They need the pen.

(by @nathanwpyle)

ellaart123  asked:

I love your art , you are amazing . If you're taking requests , i would love Natsu and Lucy hug each - other , thx \(♡_♡)/

Nalu to the rescue! I’m about to leave for the airport so this was a nice pre-relax doodle before a bit of a crazy day!

part three of the grindr au, based on a fic by @des-zimbits​ (read it here). sorry this took forever, guys. this part is a little longer at 3k (and I didn’t even get all the way through spring semester. help). rated t for language?

also um content warning for Jack’s internalized homophobia making him act like a real asshole. he sorts his shit out by the end the end of this part, but like. it might be upsetting in places. sorry.

part one. part two.

“So, what was your New Year’s resolution, Bits?” Ransom asks.

Jack knows it’s the traditional just-back-from-Winter-Break question, but he always hates this conversation. His own resolutions are never very interesting, and he hates talking about them. (This year he has two: to improve his shooting percentage by at least 10% in the second half of the season, and to increase his bench press by 50 pounds before the end of the year.) Historically, whenever Jack has told anyone what his New Year’s resolutions are, he’s only met with a frown and a short, “Oh.”

Bittle’s resolutions, on the other hand, will no doubt be terribly interesting and charm the whole team even further. Because that’s just how it goes.

“It was, uh.” Bittle laughs a little, rubbing back of his neck. “It was actually—to be a little less inhibited?”

Before Jack even knows he’s doing, he’s saying, “Less inhibited?”

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Dating Draco Malfoy Would Include...

Originally posted by legendrarrymalfoy

Originally posted by mishchief---managed

Dating Draco Malfoy Would Include:

  • Getting small love letters in the shape of birds during classes.
  • Being comfortable with PDA. Draco would have his hands either on your own or around your waist on the way to your next class. In fact, he almost always had a hand on your waist. Whenever he finds you lounging in the Common Room, he’ll lie his head in your lap without saying a word. 
  • Once you’re alone, he’ll hug, kiss, cuddle, make out, and whisper sweet nothings into your ear. 
  • Him getting slightly angry that you chose Neville as your Herbology partner (because, frankly, it’s Draco’s worst subject). 
  • Being (somewhat) friends with Goyle, Parkinson, and Zabini.
  • The Golden Trio trying to classify you as a selfish, cold-hearted Slytherin, but Hermione and Harry can’t help but see your good intentions, even though you’re dating Draco.
  • Ron, on the other hand, taking a few months before he’ll even speak to you.
  • Rooting for Draco in his Quidditch matches, worrying slightly when he made sudden drops or sharp turns to capture the Snitch.
  • Feeling your heart fly up into your throat when he falls off of his broom, and pushing aside Parkinson (who does nothing but shriek and stare at Draco) to run to his side on the ground.
  • Sitting with him in the Hospital Wing, constantly listening to him complain about Harry.
  • “It was his fault, he tried to kick me off of my broom. Did you see? Did you see his foot hit my gut? I think I might be passing on…”
  • “Relax, Draco. It’s just a sprain. You would’ve been fine if you hadn’t been so focused on shoving Harry off of his broomstick.”
  • Helping him with his homework, even though he may or may not be listening. Sometimes he would look at your notes, sometimes he would want you to read to him as he, again, rested his head in your lap. 
  • You reprimanding him for trying to cheat on his tests.
  • “Honestly, Draco - I don’t help you study just to have you blow all that work aside! You knew what Aconite was yesterday, we went over it a million times!!”
  • “I should cheat more often, this is very entertaining.”
  • Slapping him with a book when he tries to change the subject.
  • Going to Hogsmeade with his friends, mainly to hang out at The Three Broomsticks. He’ll usually buy you something at Honeydukes to share with him, and the two of you would stroll off into the wooded areas and talk about what the two of you like to do in the winter.
  • Having to apologize to anyone (mainly Harry) for Draco’s insults, because he won’t do it himself.
  • Showing you off to his male friends.
  • “Yeah, she’s top of the class in almost everything. Knows almost every spell, charm, anything that you can think of. She’s brilliant.”
  • “Well, I’m no Granger.”
  • “That’s what makes you even better.”
  • “Draco!!”
  • Always patching him up with Episkey and Ferula after he’s gotten into some fight with Harry.
  • Draco getting jealous over the smallest things; if another boy talks to you for more than a minute, he’s jealous. If that boy is making you smile or laugh, he’s jealous. If that boy compliments you in any way, Draco will march up to you, snag his arm around your waist, and tell him to “bugger off.”
  • After leaving with you, he won’t talk for a while. He’ll simply walk back to the Slytherin Common Room with you, before pulling you into a long and desperate embrace. You’d hug him back just as tightly, knowing that it was best to stay quiet until he was ready to talk.
  • “I love you so much more than any other living thing on this earth.”
  • “I love you too, Draco. I’m not going to leave you, I promise.”
  • Draco being extremely worried that you’ll leave him, because he’s never had something as perfect and as enchanting as you all to himself. Whenever he feels upset, whether a guy has been flirting with you or not, he’ll hold you as if the world was ending that day.
  • Listening to him rant about his father, his fears, or anything he needs to talk about. He never tells you that he was given the task to kill Dumbledore, but you’ve been able to guess that he’s a Death Eater. You don’t bother speaking - because what good would that do in his situation? - but instead just run your fingers through his hair as he speaks.
  • Finding him in the Hospital Wing after Harry injured him with Sectumsempra. This time, he wouldn’t complain - he’d only grip your hand tightly, half asleep from the medicine Madam Pomfrey fed him.
  • Storming towards Harry in the Great Hall, wand out, shouting threats at him for what he did to Draco. You’d throw a Stupefy at him, and he’d barely dodge it. Hermione would try to hold you back as you continued shouting at him, attracting the attention of everyone in the Great Hall.
  • Sobbing loudly while Hermione hugs you in the hallway. You wanted to hate her and every bastardly Gryffindor, but for some reason you couldn’t. You were mad at Harry, yes, but the fact that Hermione didn’t try to defend what he did made you confide in her.
  • Losing the feeling of joy after the incident. It made you realize how much Draco was involved in Voldemort’s Army, and that meant that he was in more danger than you had thought. You still loved him, and he still loved you. But you didn’t express it with giggly smiles or compliments. Instead, you stayed in each other’s company as often as you could. The time was precious, and you didn’t want to waste any of it without him. 

Imagine: Being the one person that the Joker just can’t seem to let go. He’ll do anything for you. So when Batman kidnaps you to lure out the Joker, he kills anyone in his way and comes to get you. 
A/N I really wanted to make this realistic as to how the Joker is. And I hope I did him justice. 

You can hear him in your head. His manic laughter and the way he says doll face. You know you must be crazy to love a man that can never actually love you back. But the two of you have your own kind of love. You’ll do anything for each other and while you don’t mind, you know Mr. J hate that he has a weakness. 

“He’s here,” Batman says standing in front of you. Struggling to look past him to see if Mr. J has really come for you, it takes you by surprise when a panda runs through the door first. After the panda comes several people and Batman has his hands full. 

“Hi, doll face,” someone says and you’d recognize that voice anymore. He unties you and pulls you in for a kiss. He kisses you with force before pulling away. He’s got a huge smile on his face as he watches behind you at Batman fighting. 

“Come on, baby,” he says prying his eyes of the fight. You follow him outside where a helicopter is waiting. He gets on first and then turns to help you. Soon enough you’re in a hotel room hidden from the world and Mr. J throws you in the couch. He’s never been one to care if his actions hurt you, but God forbid that anyone else hurt you. 

“Did the bad man hurt you?” he says getting on top of you. He’s kissing your neck leaving red marks everywhere. 

“No,” you whisper with a smile. This is what makes you happy. This toxic, dysfunctional relationship. You’re his and to some extent he’s yours. Once you accepted that his plans and his game with Batman would always be first priority, it became clear to you that Mr. J truly cared for you in his own twisted way. And that’s all you ask of him. 

“I like your suit,” you say looking down at him.

“I wore it for you,” he says placing his hand over his mouth. On his hand there’s a huge grinning mouth and you can hear him laugh. It makes you laugh as well. 

“You complete me,” he groans inhaling your scent. You almost tell him you love him, but the last time you told him that he nearly beat you. Mr. J doesn’t like that word. 

“Kiss me,” you say instead.