getting 'sympathy' likes

You wanna hear a joke Alistair would make once he hits Friendly approval?

Alistair: *picks Mordred up* “Mordred!”

Alistair: *puts him down so he’s below his chin in height again* “Less-dred.” =D

Mordred: “THERE WON’T BE ANYTHING LEFT OF YOU ONCE ’M THROUGH. GET BACK HERE!!!”

[sounds of fireballs going off]

i talk about this too much but like y’all… i know it sucks to have a falling out with someone, but that doesn’t make them the devil? try to handle it like a grownup. there’s no need for petty gossip. that’s all it is - just gossip

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Let's get something straight here.

I’m fucking done with everything and everyone. Just because people aren’t used to something or think it should be a certain way doesn’t mean it’s fucking right.

1. Straight people are straight. Gay people are gay. Deal. With. It. Not everyone is going to be fucking straight or gay. Some of us are even in between like pans, bi’s, and shit.

SO STOP HOMOPHOBIA AND QUIT HETEROPHOBIA. SIT DOWN. SHUT UP. AND DEAL WITH IT. IF YOU DON’T LIKE SOMETHING, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.

2. A Woman does not “belong” in a kitchen. And she doesn’t HAVE to be a wife. Everyone sees women as someone who has to be feminine, and cute, and perky and shit. NOT ALL WOMAN WILL BE LIKE THAT.

There are tomboys, a woman CAN become a soldier. A woman is capable of so much more than just having kids, making dinner and being a goddamn housewife. Yea I fully understand if that’s how SOME woman want to live their life, but NO WOMAN should be held back from what SHE wants.

3. QUIT WITH STEREOTYPING PEOPLE. Just because someone wears glasses doesn’t make them a nerd. Just like how if someone is buff and strong, it doesn’t make him a jock. Not every Muslim is dangerous, and not every white person is rich. And not all gays are “fabulous.” I got called out the other day because I am bisexual and someone asked me why I don’t dress like it then. Excuse me? BUT EXACTLY HOW WOULD A BISEXUAL GIRL DRESS???!!! FUCK EVERYONE WHO STEREOTYPES PEOPLE. GROW A BRAIN. READ A BOOK. Who knows, maybe you’ll fucking learn something.

4. People. Fuck. Up. But that doesn’t mean you get to fucking laugh at them, or judge them. Sometimes things happen and we all make stupid decisions. So don’t go fucking prancing around like you’re any better than anyone else.

5. How is it that if someone has a broken leg, or head injury, they get sympathy? But people like me, who are actually mentally injured, get judged and dismissed as freaks? Yes, I’m mentally unstable, that doesn’t mean I’m going to kill a person.

Just like how not every depressed person wants to kill themselves!

Before you fucking judge a person, know WHAT you’re judging for fucks sake, or else YOU’LL be the idiot.

6. If you think beating, raping, violation in any way is alright if it’s the “victims fault” then fuck you. You can die now.

It’s not the “Victim’s fault” no matter what.

IT’S NOT OKAY AT ALL.

IMAGINE HOW YOU WOULD FEEL IF IT HAPPENED TO YOU. OR YOUR FAMILY OR LOVED ONES. And no one would care because it was “the Victim’s fault”. Think about it.

7. WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT BELIEFS. SO DON’T FUCKING GET PISSED OFF BECAUSE SOME OF US SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.

I grew up in a Christian/Catholic family and I REFUSE to believe in God, yet I believe I’m hell and Satan. Question me. It’s not fucking worth it.

Some of us believe in God, reincarnation, death, science, etc. Whatever it is, don’t judge another person because of it.

8. WE ALL HAVE A REASON. AND A VOICE.

It’s whether we choose to USE that voice, and if it’s for Good or Bad.

WE CAN/WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE.

9. This is OUR MOMENT.

Our generation is what changes everything.

Think about this nice and hard.

Every move we make, Every Choice, will one day effect what happens to US in the future, to our possible kids, and THEIR kids!

With every choice on US. We HAVE to be careful! We need to make SURE we know what will happen, and what are consequences will be.

10. I AM USING MY VOICE. THESE ARE MY OPINIONS AND MY WORDS I USED.

IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM, DEAL WITH IT.

I WILL ALWAYS HAVE A RIGHT OF SPEECH, AND NO ONE WILL TAKE THAT FROM ME.

anonymous asked:

Um...we're all in agreement that saru could use some good therapy, but it's also pretty obvious that he would sabotage any session with a psychologist. So, what kind of psychologist would it take, and how would a session have to go to actually be successful?

I think it would definitely have to be someone who’s used to dealing with difficult cases, who’s not just going to give up after one session because Fushimi refuses to start crying on the couch immediately. I feel like the big thing for Fushimi with therapy would be working up the trust to actually vocalize his issues to anyone, like a therapist who starts out trying to ask about his childhood or about his relationship with Yata, why he burned off his tattoo – any big personal things, basically – would be on his bad side right away and he’d probably refuse to talk. One of the biggest first steps would I think be just getting Fushimi to agree to go to therapy as it is, like if Munakata made him go I feel like it would never be any good to him because Fushimi would have his walls up from the very beginning and wouldn’t want to cooperate no matter what the therapist says to him. If he’d gotten to a point though where he’s finally willing to admit that therapy might do him some good – like Yata or Munakata finally convinces him that he really does need to speak with someone, that he’s still got all these unhealthy attitudes and mental issues and he can’t just wait and hope they go away, that would probably be a big step in getting him to actually cooperate with whoever he goes to see (I can imagine him wanting to hold back and not talk once he’s there but then afterward Yata or whoever is waiting for him and Fushimi feels this spike of something like guilt, because he said he would go to therapy in order to finally heal and here all he did the whole time was sit in silence. Then he tries to deflect, pushing all the blame on the therapist being an idiot, and Yata starts to get impatient because this is the sixth one Saruhiko. Eventually Fushimi reaches a point though where he’s willing to give the therapist a chance because he doesn’t want to see that disappointed look in Yata’s eyes again).

I think the most successful sessions would just be the therapist taking their time, letting Fushimi actually get comfortable with them and work at his own pace while not letting him get away with holding back entirely either. Like trying to just make sure he knows that this is all to help him and that he can’t keep it inside forever but also respecting Fushimi’s boundaries and that even something as seemingly simple as pouring his heart out to a therapist is anathema to Fushimi, he would rather bury his issues than lay them bare. Getting him to feel safe enough that he’d be willing to admit to his own problems would be a huge step in him being able to heal in general, so I imagine the big thing would be just finding him a therapist that he feels safe enough around to do that. The therapist would also probably have to tread lightly in sessions, at least at first, like not overwhelming Fushimi with a list of ‘here’s what’s wrong with you.’ And I think a therapist who’s willing to recognize the negatives of the world would be a huge asset, like any kind of optimistic ‘don’t worry be happy’ therapist would just piss Fushimi off but someone who can listen to Fushimi’s issues and be like 'yeah that is shitty isn’t it’ would probably make him feel a lot more comfortable, like he’s with someone who’s willing to be honest with him and isn’t going to keep up a happy facade and tell him lies about how he’s going to be fine when Fushimi’s been through too much to ever assume that anything in his life is going to be 'fine.’

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nyocanada15  asked:

Tom have you been getting any 'sympathy pains'? [like cravings or weight gain? ] that tends to happen alot. Also, hugs for all! I'm taking care of a 3 month old when I get home so :3

Tom: A lil bit but Tord has had some.. “Interesting” food cravings.. Like Mac and cheese with ice cream and peanut butter, tuna and banana shake, and a tuna casserole with chocolate.. Tord begged me to try one of them and it gave me food poisoning..

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喜歡。一個人 
Love myself or You/Pleasantly Surprised
Episode 1:

“I lost. The wrinkles on mom’s hand are increasing, more and more…”
“In the past few years…Did a lot of things happen to you?”

He’s confused about her change and his heart is also aching for her T_T

When I say “all cops are bastards” I’m including your father, your uncle, your mom, your friend. The cop that poses smiling next to a black child mercifully sparing his life is still a bastard. The cop that plays basketball w neighborhood kids or even holds up a BLM sign is still a perpetrator of state violence. As long as black and brown ppl are stereotyped and systemically murdered, cops don’t get individuality or sympathy either.

Homeworld is probably cruel to the veterans of the Earth War

 After all, they lost. They were literally brought into existence for one reason only, fight for Homeworld, and they failed. An entire planet’s army lost to a tree-hugging Quartz and her few thousand followers.

They wouldn’t get sympathy like human veterans because Quartzes are meant to fight and die for their diamond. They can always make more to replace those lost, or at least they could during the War. They failed, they lost a massive resource pool for Homeworld and now Homeworld is running dry. Because they weren’t good enough.

Everyone knows Jasper is one such veteran. She came to Earth as a bodyguard for an engineer. Not a very high profile job for someone that has warfare experience. That would explain her “Look like another waste of my time” line. She’s always being given low profile work because she’s a ‘failure’ for being a soldier in a war Homeworld lost. It’s punishment for something she couldn’t help. A punishment that’s been going on for around five thousand years. No matter how self-confident you are, being treated as a lesser by everyone around you will wear you down.

Now Jasper’s had a taste of immense power. As she loves it. She can’t get enough of it. Why? Because that power can bring redemption in the eyes of Homeworld. She can fight in wars and WIN! It took a four Gem fusion and an army of Watermelon Stevens to take down Malachite. And Malachite was only fighting for kicks. If Malachite was being serious and was driven and focused, who knows if the Gems could’ve won?

Jasper wants Malachite to prove she isn’t a failure that Homeworld believes she is. She can win, she can dominate, but only with Malachite. Peridot was willing to throw away all the trust she built up with the Crystal Gems to be useful to the Diamonds and Jasper is willing to go back into a toxic, damaging situation if it means she can be useful again.

…d'ya think that if Rey or Kylo got drunk the other would feel it through the Force Bond and get sympathy!drunk

Like Poe gets Finn and Rey their first booze on the base one night

And Kylo ends up sobbing on his command shuttle and telling his Stormtroopers he loves them