okay so,,, i’ve seen A LOT of ppl using a thai idol’s real name as if it’s normal (esp in fanfics) and as a person who grew up in thailand and is thai,,, that is actually very awkward. a thai person is born w a first name, last name, and nick name. the nick name is the name you will be called by throughout your whole life and many of your friends would prob never know your full name tbh. your full name is only used in official papers and business type situations. for example, in school, the teacher would call you by your first name and your nickname (it depends what they’re saying,, if it’s roll call or smth like that it’s your first name!!) i’m going to use ten as an example, so bare with me. if you’re friends w ten, you would never call him ‘chittaphon’. not even his family would call him ‘chittaphon’. it’s really just used for MAINLY official papers. please just call your thai idol by their nickname (which is most likely their stage name). i’m sure this is hard to understand bc different culture,, but i’m honestly rly uncomfortable w it??? it’s okay that you’ve been ignorant to this, but i hope you guys learned something new!! feel free to msg me for any questions!
Nonbinary people with unsupportive family members are so strong and valid! I admire them every day. It’s hard not to have your family behind you, but their lack of understanding, their disapproval, in no way diminishes the validity of your identity, and you still and always will deserve for that identity to be respected.
Okay, I know that this has been discussed numerous times before by many people (including myself), but I still keep seeing it whenever I’m scrolling through Tumblr or watching videos on Youtube. And this can go to any ship in any fandom, but for right now, I’m speaking out to all Ereri and Riren shippers when I say this.
Switching is a thing, okay?
You can have Levi be a top and Eren be a bottom all you want, but when I see you, a Riren shipper, lashing out at Ereri shippers for liking a bottom Levi, you honestly and truly disgust me. Even after all the hate and shit that we get spat into our faces for even shipping these two in a romantic relationship, you go out and throw trash at your own family. Your shipping family. How is that any better than the antis? What does it prove? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. All you are doing is preventing more unconditional love and trust between these two.
They can switch. They can take turns. They can be lovers. They can share. Sharing is caring. It’s a thing. It’s a thing.
If you’re making Eren the bottom in their relationship, you do not have to make it seem like Eren’s never seen or heard of a gym in his life just so that he could fit into your role model of an “uke”. Eren is not unfit. If you haven’t noticed, Eren has an eight pack. Yeah, an eight pack. Let me say that one more time to make it clear.
An eight pack. (Or a ten pack judging by which scene you look at)
So please don’t make Eren seem like this fragile guy who can’t top because he’s “too small”. Don’t get me wrong, I love me a bottom Eren, but I absolutely hate it when he’s made out to be some uke. Same thing goes out to the Ereri shippers who make our ripped little midget out to be a pathetic bundle of sticks because of his height. You do not have to change their physical attributes to make them better fit into the roles of a submissive and a dominate.
Plus, in all honesty I feel like if either of them were to bottom, they’d be glorious power bottoms. All muscle, raw want, and sweat. Their characters hate not putting up a fight, so I can see the two of them barking out exactly what they want with a whole lot of determination laced in their voices. They also seem like the kind of pair to have really messy rough sex. You know, the kind where they always give out quickies during breaks because they know exactly what the other wants.
But, if they were to make love, I feel like they’d reserve those moments for the most vulnerable and emotionally bare time of day for them - nighttime. The only time where they can be alone and be the caring and loving characters that they are. Especially Eren. Eren just seems like the kind of character who’d praise Levi into the next century. Especially since he already worships the guy with every fiber in his body. Levi on the other hand looks like the kind of guy who would love going missionary with the little stinker. Mainly because I honestly feel like Levi would much rather watch Eren’s expressions for any sign of discomfort or pain all because of his overwhelming need to make sure that the squirt is okay and that he’s not hurting him at any given moment. Time to cue the protective Levi who would constantly have his hands on Eren’s body to make sure that he’s really there with him and alive and well.
Uh oh. I’m getting carried away with my headcanons :’)
Anyways, all I’m trying to say is that you can have your preference about their relationship, but please don’t go around saying “bottom Eren is way better than bottom Levi” or “Levi would never be a bottom” when that’s obviously not true. And to those that literally lash out with death threats and hateful comments, why don’t you go and try fucking your asshole? See what it’s like to have something larger than a shit shoved in your ass. Maybe then you’d understand the importance of switching.
Happy Monday! Posting a selfie from Saturday misadventures - here’s to Choices Selfie Day!
Name: Call me Krysy Age: 23 Zodiac Sign: Virgo Favorite Choices Game: The Freshman/The Royal Romance because I can’t choose just one. How Long You Have Been Playing Pixelberry Games: I think since around September or October of last year.. Wow has it been that long already? I can’t believe how much time I’ve spent obsessing over this game - actually I can but it’s mostly because of how fun these books are - and how great this fandom is!
Sven constantly asking Slav about the probability of meeting that “green Pidge girl” in their reality.
At first, Slav actually runs some calculations and responds, giving new answers as they fluctuate. But he eventually gives up. He just starts making up shit statistics and Sven actually believes him (he trusts his smart buddy and he’s not as cynical as his tortured-by-Galra counterpart Shiro).
Finally, Slav’s had enough. He’s going to find their version of the Pidge paladin even if it costs him his life, so long as Sven finally SHUTS UP. (Additionally, he never knew that there’d come a point when he didn’t want to talk about alternate realities).